How to Stay Focused in Prayer: Prayer Tips
Concentration can be hard to develop in prayer, but our relationship with God grows deeper as we learn to pray with an attentive heart. Learn how to pray with prayer tips to help you focus in prayer.
Do you struggle to stay focused during prayer? You’re not alone—and it’s one of the most common challenges in our spiritual lives. This post originally explored that struggle, and now we’re going even deeper in a new episode of the Habits of Hope Podcast. In Part 1 of our Developing Greater Focus in Prayer series, we share biblical encouragement, practical habits, and Spirit-led strategies to help you overcome distractions and grow closer to God through focused prayer. Listen below!
Maybe you’ve experienced a conversation that went something like this:
Did I tell you about what happened yesterday, I asked my teenaged daughter. Texting a friend, she replied with a nod, Hmm…did you say something?
It wasn’t a stretch to realize that I didn’t have her full attention.
Somehow I expected to hear some sort of related response as part of the conversation, but my girl moved on to talk about something completely different.
Mom, can I borrow the car tonight?
Our distracted thoughts can keep us from focusing in prayer.
Prayer is a conversation with God.
One of the most important tips to remember about focusing in prayer is that you are having a conversation with God. How often do I talk with God like my conversation with my daughter? Half listening as I flit from one concern to another? My daughter shifted straight to her request rather than joining the conversation. I find it easier to pray corral wandering thoughts when I think of prayer as a conversation rather than a monologue. Any good conversation involves both listening and speaking. This prayer tip helps me focus when I pray.
Relationship is the heart of prayer.
Prayer is a conversation that is rooted in love. Embracing the truth that God loves you can change your motivation and focus when you pray. This prayer tip helps us focus when we pray. Oswald Chambers penned these words on prayer and relationship:
“We look upon prayer simply as a means of getting things for ourselves, but the biblical purpose of prayer is that we may get to know God Himself” (My Utmost for His Highest, August 28).
Talking with someone we love is one of the deep delights in life. Approaching prayer from the foundation of our relationship with God inspires deeper attentiveness. Author Jan Johnson reminds us that “When we shift to a relational approach to life with God, prayer becomes a place of meeting God” (When the Soul Listens).
Approaching prayer from the foundation of our relationship with God inspires deeper attentiveness. #prayer Share on X
When Jesus taught His disciples to pray, He began with relationship:
“Our Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 6:9).
Particularly in prayer for the needs and challenges that weigh heavy on my heart or rise from hurt in my soul, trusting my Father infuses my thoughts.
“See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God” (1 John 3:1).
These prayer tips impact my prayer in a profound way. More and more, the relationship of God as my good Father infuses my awareness as I pray.
Don’t worry about having the right words to pray.
As we learn how to pray, it is important to let go of any pressure to have the right words to pray. When we remember prayer is a conversation that flows from relationship, we can simply share our thoughts. When we express the thoughts, emotions, and concerns in our heart, focus is enhanced because we aren’t distracted by searching for words that sound good, important, or religious. This is particularly an issue when praying aloud in a group. I can remember being so worried about what I was going to pray that I didn’t hear much of what others prayed. How does this prayer tip set your heart at ease today?
God knows our heart and understands everything about us.
“You scrutinize my path and my lying down,
And are acquainted with all my ways.
Even before there is a word on my tongue,
Behold, Lord, You know it all.
You have encircled me behind and in front,
And placed Your hand upon me” (Psalm 139:3-5).
Since God already knows what’s on your mind, you can stop worrying about how you sound when you pray. The important thing is to pray.
And here’s one more thought that comes to mind. Because God understands you inside and out, He also understands your struggle to focus. He’s with you in it all, so when you catch your attention wandering, circle back to finish your conversation with God.
Ask the Holy Spirit to help you pray.
The very best place to start in developing greater focus in prayer is to ask for help. In fact, this is the Habit of Hope for Episode 32 on developing prayer focus and clarity. Another prayer tip is to trust the Holy Spirit to help, guide, and teach you more about prayer. Again, I’ll refer to the disciples asking Jesus, “Teach us to pray.” Jesus responded with instruction and parables to help them come to a deeper understanding of prayer. Clearly, Jesus was glad to help them learn to pray (Luke 11:1-11).
One of the blessed roles of the Spirit is to be our helper (John 14:25-27). God understands that we often do not know how to pray as we should. Our struggles with focus relate to this challenge. The Spirit can guide the content of our prayers, as well as assist with motivation and concentration. At times, the Spirit even prays for us: “Now in the same way the Spirit also helps our weakness; for we do not know what to pray for as we should, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words” (Romans 8:26).
When we struggle with focus, how often do we skip the simple step of asking the Spirit for help?
Begin with worship music.
We often think of prayer in terms of words. Language is primarily a function of the left side of the brain. Music has the power to incorporate both sides of the brain which can help with focus, creativity, and processing. Make a play list of favorite worship songs that inspire praise, prayer, and worship. When emotions weigh heavy, music has a way of touching our emotions which can help us move beyond distraction to the deep concerns of our heart. In the comments, share your favorite worship songs. I’d love to add more great songs to my playlist on Spotify.
Pray God’s Word.
Specific Scriptures can give our prayer a focal point. When it is hard to settle our thoughts, praying God’s Word brings clarity to prayer. It can also give us language to pray when words aren’t coming easily.
Praying a verse provides a starting point in our conversation with God.
God’s Word is like rails, keeping the train of our thoughts on track.
Biblical passages can provide content, ideas, patterns to inspire prayer.
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Pray out loud.
Another simple way to focus in prayer is to pray aloud. Praying aloud keeps us physically engaged. It also involves the auditory system, the mind, and the heart which increases concentration. In addition, verbal prayer is helpful when we feel sleepy. Time alone in the car is a great time to pray aloud. It is much easier to overcome distraction when we can hear ourselves pray.
Get moving.
When prayer feels like a battle with the noise in your head, try taking a prayer walk. Rhythmic physical movement like walking or running can aid attention. One of the many benefits of physical exercise is the increase of brain chemicals that impact focus and concentration.
Walking, running, and swimming are all great options for adding prayer to your movement. Even housecleaning or gardening can be good times to combine movement with focused prayer.
Biblical meditation deepens prayer.
Meditating on God’s Word increases focus in prayer. We can learn so much about how to pray when we reflect on Scripture.
Prayer and Bible reading are two primary ways we experience a deepening relationship with God. A. W. Tozer wrote about the importance of deep focus on God:
“For it is not mere words that nourish the soul, but God Himself, and unless and until the hearers find God in personal experience they are not the better for having heard the truth. The Bible is not an end in itself, but a means to bring men to an intimate and satisfying knowledge of God, that they may delight in His Presence, may taste and know the inner sweetness of the very God Himself in the core and center of their hearts.”
If we do all the talking when we pray, we will miss what God has to say. Prayerful Bible reading slows us down to receive and reflect on God’s Words to our hearts. Meditation helps us concentrate on the listening side of prayer.
Focus by staying on the same subject with God.
Hearing from God through the Holy Spirit begins to engage our minds, drawing our attention to particular concepts.
Open to what the Holy Spirit has to say, we slow down and let the words sink in. Once we pick up on what God draws our attention to, we can choose to continue the conversation.
When we read Scripture and pray, we need to learn to stay on the same subject with God—to respond to what He has said, rather than changing the subject and praying about something else—stay on topic so you can hear all that God has to say.
This morning I am reading John 16:13-14:
But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth; for He will not speak on His own initiative, but whatever He hears, He will speak; and He will disclose to you what is to come. He will glorify Me, for He will take of Mine and will disclose it to you.
What do I too often do?
Great verse, Lord. Thanks for guiding me…
And then I whip out my laundry list of prayer requests. While God invites us to share our concerns, prayer is much broader and deeper than seeking solutions for problems or provision for needs.
God is gracious when we gloss over truths He brings to our attention…but consider what we miss by not staying on topic with what God is bringing to our attention? When we struggle to focus in prayer, God’s Words go in one ear and right out the other with barely a stop in the grey matter between.
Meditating on Scripture, focusing in prayer, and listening to God are intrinsically linked. As we listen more fully to what God reveals, we continue the conversation with responsive prayer.
Write it down.
When attention wanders, try writing down your prayer or insights revealed through your meditation on God’s Word. Sometimes I write my prayers in my journal.
Writing helps develop thoughts, keeping distracting thoughts at bay.
Write the verse that stands out to you.
Write down key thoughts from your meditation.
Ask God questions.
Prayerful conversation with God continues when we bring our questions to God. Here are few questions that have been helpful for me:
What do want me to know about this?
Will you help me to understand on a deeper level?
What in my life most needs this truth right now?
As you can see, learning to focus in prayer is a process that takes time and practice. The very best way to develop concentration in prayer is to pray. Be patient with yourself in the process and realize that some days will be better than others. I hope these prayer tips and truths will help learn how to pray with less distraction and a more meaningful time in prayer.
Show Notes:How to Cultivate Prayer Habits for Deeper Focus and Clarity
Ever sit down to pray and find yourself thinking about your to-do list, yesterday’s conversation, or what’s for dinner? You’re not alone. In this first episode of our two-part series on developing greater focus in prayer, we’re diving deep into why we struggle with distraction and how the Holy Spirit can help us stay present with God. You’ll walk away with practical strategies, biblical encouragement, and new habits that help you turn down the noise and tune your heart to the One who listens.
Habit of Hope: Depend on the Holy Spirit to help you pray with greater focus.
Key Takeaways:
Why distraction in prayer is normal—and how to stop letting it derail your time with God
The role of the Holy Spirit in helping us stay present and centered
Simple, grace-filled habits to refocus your mind when it wanders
How to recognize and redirect internal or external distractions
Encouragement for anyone who feels defeated or guilty about their prayer life
Prayer: Holy Spirit, I invite You into the time of prayer. Help me to stay present and focused on God. Lead my thoughts and words according to Your will.
Memorable Quotes:
“If we only prayed when we felt focused, we’d rarely pray at all.”
“It’s so common to get distracted. You are not the only one.”
“We’re talking about a grace-filled approach to prayer, not a guilt-driven one.”
“The Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness—even our distractedness.”
Why You’ll Love This Episode:
This episode re-centers your heart on the truth: prayer isn’t about performance, it’s about presence. You’ll walk away reminded that the Holy Spirit is already helping you—even when you don’t know what to say. You’ll learn simple tools to refocus your mind, deepen your connection with God, and create prayer rhythms that work in real life.
Share your thoughts in the comments below. For more tips on prayer, check out the prayer chapter in my book, Holy in the Moment.
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How to Build the Habit of Trusting God with Our Work
What if the greatest obstacle in your work isn’t your skill or effort, but your ability to trust God with the outcome? So often, we strive to succeed, pouring our hearts into our work, yet struggle with fear of failure, comparison, and the need for control.
But what if there’s a better way? A way that not only honors God in your work, but also brings peace, purpose, and perseverance to all kinds of work—whether it’s your job, ministry, home life, or creative calling.
In this post, we’re diving into five powerful habits that can transform how you approach your work by trusting God with your work more deeply. These habits—overcoming fear of failure, refusing to compare yourself with others, celebrating others’ success, trusting in God’s timing, and staying the course—are not just strategies but life-changing perspectives rooted in faith.
This is the third in a series on self -worth and work. In our previous episodes, we explored the importance of grounding our identity in Christ working from our worth, not for our worth. Next, we had a conversation on the habit of committing our work to God. If you missed any of these episodes, be sure to catch them as we’ve covered a lot of ground on this topic.
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Habit of Hope: Trust God with your work.
Galatians 6:9 challenges us to persevere when it seems like things aren’t working out, trusting God to bring fruit and growth from our work in His timing:
“Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary. So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.“
God has used this passage to cheer me on when I get discouraged in my work. There are days when I need that reminder to keep going, to persevere in doing good, even when the results aren’t immediate.
It’s also a reminder that in God’s perfect timing, we will see the fruit of our work if we don’t give up. The truth is, if you give up, you won’t discover what God wants to do through your work.
1. Overcome the Fear of Failure in Your Work
Fear of failure is a common challenge that often shows up in our efforts, whether at work, in ministry, or in our personal lives. It’s particularly tough for those of us who struggle with perfectionism and the desire to get everything right.
I know there’s been so many times where I’ve struggled with self -doubt, feeling inadequate or unqualified, especially when I step into a new level or take on a big task.
“God has not given us a spirit of fear or timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” (2 Timothy 1:7)
Recognizing when fear is influencing your actions is the first step. It’s easy to let fear creep into your motivation, leading to stress and self-doubt. Instead, focus on what God has given you—His power, love, and a sound mind.
When you feel fear rising, take it to God in prayer and ask Him to replace that fear with His peace.
Fear can impact our work in so many ways, whether it makes us afraid to try something new, to move to another level or add a new skill, or even pivot in our work and do something different that we haven’t done before.
Have you let fear of failure hold you back in your work or ministry? What steps can you take to release those fears to God?
2.Refuse to Compare Your Path with Others’ God-Given Work
Comparison is a trap that leads to envy, low self-esteem, and a scarcity mindset. In today’s social media-driven world, it’s easy to see someone else’s success and feel like we’re falling short.
We see some one’s highlight reel, a moment of success, but not the entire process. We don’t see all the work, learning, mistakes, and challenges of their journey.
John Acuff said something that comes to mind when I start comparing myself to others: “Never compare your beginning with someone else’s middle.”
This quote has been a game-changer for many who struggle with comparison—including me. In reality, comparison distorts our perception of ourselves and others.
Instead of focusing on what others are doing, concentrate on your own journey and the unique path God has for you. Remember, your work is valuable because it’s yours, not because it measures up to someone else’s.
Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that God did not create us to operate in fear, and that includes our work. Even if we are called to the same work, we’re both going to approach it differently. We each have different experiences, strengths, personality and perspectives. So the work is going to be different. We need both. We need the AND not the OR, when it comes to the work we contribute.
Are there areas of life where you find yourself comparing to others? How can you shift your focus back to your unique journey?
3. Celebrate the Success of Others Without Losing Focus on Your Calling
“Celebrate others’ success—it doesn’t diminish your own.
We can’t stop comparison thoughts from coming to mind, but we can choose how we respond. Celebrating others’ success can be challenging, especially if you feel like their success highlights your own perceived failures. However, choosing to rejoice in others’ achievements shifts your focus from self to others.
This habit not only builds community but also fosters a sense of unity—and it’s a lot more fun. Don’t we want others to celebrate with us when we have a win or when we have a success or our work is going well?
When you pray for others and genuinely celebrate their victories, you reinforce the truth that there’s enough of God’s goodness to go around. Your success isn’t diminished by someone else’s—it’s a part of the larger story God is writing for His kingdom.
Pray for Others: Start by praying for others’ success and asking God to bless their work. This shifts your focus from comparison to genuine support.
Choose Celebration Over Competition. Stay humble and see others’ victories as part of God’s work. Make it a point to acknowledge and celebrate the successes of your friends, colleagues, or peers.
How do you feel when someone else succeeds? What can you do to genuinely celebrate their victory?
4. Trust in God’s Timing in Your Work and Calling
Patience is often tested when progress in our work or spiritual growth seems slow. It’s easy to become frustrated or discouraged when things don’t happen on our timeline.
Remember Galatians 6:9, which encourages us not to grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. “Due time” or Kairos time has to do with God’s timing, not ours.
There is a season, a right time for things to come to maturity, and that includes our work. Consider the life cycle of a seed—they don’t grow overnight. It takes time, and no matter who much we want the harness, we can’t bypass the process.
God’s timing is perfect. He’s never late, even when we’re in a hurry.
I’ve come to understand that trusting God’s timing means believing that He is working behind the scenes, even when I can’t see immediate results.
It’s about understanding that the process is just as important as the outcome.
Where in your life do you struggle to trust God’s timing? What might God be teaching you in the waiting?
5. Stay the Course When You Feel Discouraged in Your Work
Finally, perseverance is key, especially when you don’t see immediate results. It’s tempting to give up when things get tough, but true success often comes just after the moment you’re tempted to quit.
“Don’t give up. Success comes to those who stay the course.”
Thomas Edison famously said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” This perspective is crucial for anyone striving to achieve something meaningful.
We can’t succeed if we give up, right? When we are discouraged or tempted to give up, our emotions are vulnerable. Maybe we’ve experienced failure. At times, we’ve experienced other people surpassing us or getting opportunities that we didn’t get. Maybe we’ve actually messed up.
If we don’t stay the course, we can’t move forward. God wants to work in and through each one of us, and that includes work that we do and the calling that He’s given to us.
Break Down Big Tasks: When you’re feeling overwhelmed, break your tasks into smaller, manageable steps. This will help you stay focused and make consistent progress.
View Setbacks as an Opportunity: How we think about setbacks makes a difference. Remember each one is can be an opportunity to learn, grow, and trust God more deeply.
Keep Going: Commit to staying the course, even when it’s hard. Trust that God is using your efforts to develop your character and deepen your faith.
If you’ve been tempted to give up, is God calling you refocus and stay the course?
Conclusion
Trusting God with your work is not a one-time decision; it’s a daily habit that requires intentionality and faith. By overcoming fear, refusing to compare yourself with others, celebrating their successes, trusting God’s timing, and staying the course, you can experience a deeper sense of purpose and peace in your work.
As you go about your work this week, choose one of these habits to focus on. Start small, and ask God to help you grow in trust and dependence on Him. Leave a comment and let us know which step could help you today.
If this post resonated with you, listen to our full podcast episode where we dive deeper into these habits and offer more practical tips for integrating faith into your daily work. Don’t forget to share this with a friend who might need encouragement in their work journey!
Want Help Trusting God with Your Work?
Download the guide for this series: 15 Habits of Hope for Your Work. You’ll get 15 simple, Scripture-rooted habits to help you live from your worth, not for it.
For more on this topic, check out Chapter 12: “Moments to Work” in Holy in the Moment—a book that invites you to experience God’s grace and presence in the small, everyday choices of life.
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Work & Worth: How to Do Your Best Work with Faith and Confidence
Do you struggle to separate your self-worth from your work? Discover how to commit your work to God, set boundaries that protect your peace, and build confidence rooted in faith—not performance.
Have you ever felt like your work defines your worth?
Whether you’re managing a career, a household, or a ministry, it’s easy to let performance determine your value. In a culture that equates success with achievement, how do we work faithfully without tying our identity to outcomes?
In this post, we’ll explore how to commit your work to God and develop faith and confidence in your work—without letting performance define your identity. Through prayer, healthy boundaries, and contentment, you’ll learn to do your best work while finding your worth apart from your work. Whether you lead a team, run a home, or pursue a creative calling, these habits will help you work from a place of peace, not pressure.
This post is part of our Work & Worth series on the Habits of Hope Podcast, where we unpack Psalm 90:17 and learn to trust God with our work, build healthy rhythms, and find purpose without burnout.
Habit of Hope: Commit your work to God
Psalm 90:17
“May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us—yes, establish the work of our hands.” (NIV)“And may the Lord our God show us His approval and make our efforts successful. Yes, make our efforts successful!” (NLT)
This beautiful verse reminds us that God’s favor and presence are essential to meaningful work. Whether results are immediate or not, we can ask God to establish—not just bless—the work of our hands. Establish means to make firm, secure, and lasting.
The NIV emphasizes God’s favor and stability. The NLT highlights approval and success. Together, they remind us that God values both our process and our results.
Favor carries the idea of beauty, kindness, and delight. God doesn’t just use our work—He delights in the dreams He’s placed in our hearts. When we pursue those dreams in dependence on Him, it becomes less about performance and more about partnership with our Creator.
This verse can also shape our prayers—not as a way to earn success, but to invite His presence into our work.
1. Commit Your Work to God in Prayer
Prayer is more than a formality—it’s how we invite God into our workday. It reorients our hearts and reminds us that our work is a spiritual practice.
“Sometimes I get so pressured by what I need to do that I forget to pray. But when I take time to invite God into my work, I remember that I’m not doing it alone.”
Whether it’s a short prayer on your commute or a quiet moment at your desk, prayer centers your heart in God’s presence and purpose.
Try praying this before you begin your work:
“Lord, give me Your energy, Your love for others, and Your wisdom.”
“Help me enjoy the work You’ve given me today.”
“Establish the work of my hands and let it bear fruit for Your glory.”
4 Ways to Pray for Your Work:
His favor – spiritual covering of grace and blessing
His presence – to remain aware of Him throughout the day
His guidance – for direction and clarity
His empowerment – for strength and joy
“Even bullet prayers make a difference,” Larissa shared. “I just want to glorify the Lord and ask for much fruit—for His glory and for those He’s called me to serve.”
Reflection: Have you invited God into your work today—or are you carrying it all on your own?
2. Set Boundaries with Your Work
One of the most spiritual things we can do is protect our work-life balance.
God modeled this in Genesis 1. After each day, He paused and called it good. On the sixth day, He said it was very good—then He rested.
“When I wrote Holy in the Moment, I worked long hours under a tight deadline. I was exhausted, and it affected my health. I’ve since learned the value of setting better boundaries—most of the time.”
Here are some practices to help:
Work Boundaries That Build Peace:
Define a consistent end time to your workday
Avoid working into the night or during Sabbath
Reflect daily on what went well and where you saw God at work
Leave work—mentally and emotionally—when it’s time to rest
Boundaries aren’t just about time—they honor God’s rhythm of work and rest. We are stewards of our energy. Without boundaries, we lose rest, relationships, and joy.
“Sometimes, especially for teachers, writers, and pastors, it feels like work is never done. I’m learning to stop, appreciate the progress, and thank God at the end of each day.”
Reflection: What boundary could help protect your well-being or relationships in this season?
3. Build with What God Provides
One of the most freeing habits is to stop striving for more and start using what God has already placed in your hands.
“I felt like I was doing too much and none of it well. God began teaching me to slow down and make the most of what He’d already provided.”
Sometimes, instead of chasing the next big thing, God invites us to go deeper. Contentment doesn’t mean complacency—it means trusting God with the process.
“I remind myself, I get to do this. Gratitude leads to contentment, and contentment brings peace. God has called me, and He’s provided.”
Whether you’re leading a team or managing your home, being faithful with what you already have is a powerful act of trust.
7 Ways to Build with What God Provides:
Practice gratitude over hustle
Choose contentment over comparison
Stay present instead of pressured
Focus on growth over perfection
Ask God for your next right step—and do that well
Revisit unused opportunities
Create margin to reflect and listen before acting
Reflection: What’s one resource or opportunity you’ve been overlooking?
What This Can Mean for Your Work
True success isn’t measured by stats, income, or applause. In God’s eyes, success is measured by faithfulness.
When you:
Commit your work to God in prayer
Set intentional boundaries
Build with what God provides
…you’ll experience peace and purpose that come from confidence rooted in Christ—not performance.
“Your worth is found in Christ, not in your work.”
Some days, results are slow or unseen—but God still delights in your faithfulness. He’s with you in the process, and He’s using your work even when you can’t see it.
This Week’s Action Steps
Choose one of the three habits (prayer, boundaries, or contentment)
Ask God to help you put it into practice this week
Reflect at the end of each day: What went well? Where did I see God show up?
Keep the Conversation Going
If this message encouraged you:
Share it with a friend or co-worker
Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode
Leave a review and let us know which habit helped you most
Until next time—work well, friend, and enjoy the process. God is in it with you.
Want help trusting God with your work?
Download the guide for this series: 15 Habits of Hope for Your Work. You’ll get 15 simple, Scripture-rooted habits to help you live from your worth, not for it.
For more on this topic, check out Chapter 12: “Moments to Work” in Holy in the Moment—a book that invites you to experience God’s grace and presence in the small, everyday choices of life.
In the Moments to Work chapter, you’ll discover how God is present in your effort, not just the outcome. Learn how to live intentionally, respond to His nudges in your workday, and trust Him with every moment.
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Feeling like your worth is tied to your productivity? In this episode, we explore the struggle of work-driven self-worth and perfectionism through the lens of Colossians 3:23-24. Discover how embracing your identity in Christ can free you from the pressure to perform. Part 1 of The Worth & Work Series.
When You Catch Yourself Seeking Worth in Your Work
Grounding our identity in Christ is the key to overcoming the frequent temptation to seek worth in our work. In this updated post, we are exploring how to find our worth in Christ and not just in what we do. Our work has value, but our worth? That’s rooted in who we are in Christ, not in our achievements or failures. This blog post is the inspiration for a podcast series on worth and work. Listen to the first episode: Redefining Success: Trusting God with Our Work and Our Worth.
Click here to read the transcript of Episode 28.
This is an updated post that I wrote a year after my first book released. This post continues to draw search traffic, which tells me I am not alone in this struggle with self-work, identity, and work. Over the years, God and I have had many moments of soul searching and re-aligning my heart when I catch myself seeking my worth in my work.
I have come to understand that revisiting our deeper struggles with the Lord—continuing to allow the Holy Spirit to do the live-long work of transformation is discipleship of the heart.
Are You Looking for Your Worth in Your Work?
Today is time for a little soul talk.
Have you ever felt like you haven’t earned the right to say “No”?
Have you felt like you must get further, be better, move faster. . . before you can give yourself time to breathe?
Maybe you’ve felt the pressure to prove yourself through your work.
Insecurity opens the door to pressures our souls were never meant to carry: the weight of our own performance. The “can’t-say-no” pressure to perform is an old habit I thought I’d left behind. Reflecting on lessons of the past few years, I finally understood something important. Something my soul needed to see.
Though I’ve been writing and speaking for years, I’m fairly new to this author and editor life. Working in the publishing industry is a larger arena where the pressure to grow platform, reach, and numbers is very real. I felt I hadn’t earned the right to say “No” to any possible opportunity to write, speak, teach, or train. And so, I tried to do it all. Maybe you’ve heard a similar accusation whispered to your soul in a vulnerable moment. A moment when your job felt too big, your responsibility too great, or your gap too wide.
Fear is a relentless taskmaster if we allow it to drive our work and define our value.
Have you ever wrestled with your yes’s and no’s, only to realize you’ve slipped into the flesh pattern of seeking your worth through the things you accomplish? Even when you tried not to. Me too. Friend, this is a hard one. A temptation that slips in quietly when you’re preoccupied with your work.
Seeking Our Worth in Our Work is a Soul Temptation
The desire to do our best can morph into a determination to prove ourselves, especially when we are in a new job, new season or new field. Or anytime exhaustion, insecurity, expectation, or comparison makes us worry that we aren’t good enough.
Our schedule careens out of control because our effort doesn’t feel enough. We can’t afford to miss an opportunity or make a mistake. The job never feels finished. Social media’s ever-changing platforms continually add new tasks and obligations that become part of work in my field.
When the next milestone seems out of reach…so we try harder and run faster. Can you relate?
To tell you the truth, I’m uncomfortable making this post all about me. Something in me balks at revealing my struggles or shining a light on my weaknesses. It’s that pesky issue called pride, another soul temptation to talk about another day.
But here’s the beautiful thing, humility frees me to be brave. I’ve received unexpected blessings from this writing life that have softened my edges and given me courage to simply be who I am. . . where I am.
Whatever work you do, whether in your family, at home, or in the office, I trust my words will encourage you to embrace this truth:
Your work has value, but your worth is not in your work. Share on X
Do you need to back up and read that statement aloud to yourself? Go ahead, I’m repeating it too.
Your Worth is in Who You Are Not What You Do
We all need reminders that God is at work in whatever is happening in our lives. We are never working alone. Our worth is in who we are, not what we do. And just maybe, this post will inspire you to slow down to receive the gifts God has for you in the work you accomplish today.
Slow down to remember that your identity is in Christ, not in your profession or roles. You are enough and your worth cannot be measured by your work.Is fear of failing impacting your pace or your work?
If some is good, more is better, or so says the world.
I’d love to say I don’t let this old lie influence me anymore, but I still trip over this one at times. More often than I’d like. On the outside, the do-more mentality glitters with good things like goals, new ideas, determination, and productivity. We all need a healthy level of focus, motivation, and effort to complete the work we are called to accomplish. But when God’s calling twists into something to prove, our heart motivation needs attention.
Insecurity and fear getting lost in the crowd simmered beneath my good intentions and worthy goals. I still have to make the effort to silence the “not enough” voice in my head because perfectionism doesn’t go quietly.
Last year God enabled me to accomplish many beautiful things amid a busy pace. There were so many blessings, great experiences, and wins–it was a great year on many levels!
Busy with an ambitious travel schedule of conferences and speaking events, I was rarely home for more than three weeks at a time. I also juggled a part-time job, family commitments, writing, editing, ministry work, and took a counseling class.
Consistency in many areas of life was hard to sustain in a cycle preparation and catch up. Do you find your pace hard to sustain as well? When we succumb to finding our worth in our work, our schedule can outpace our energy.
Shrugging our shoulders, we tell ourselves that margin is a luxury rather than a necessity.
With expansion comes more responsibility that can stir up old insecurities.
Along with the joy and excitement of growing in our work, there are many transitions and challenges when God expands our territory. We run hard and fast, dashing from one meeting to the next as the tasks pile high.
If this sounds like your life, hang onto the truth that your worth is not in your work. This is an often-overlooked aspect of discipleship—guarding our hearts to truly live out of our identity in Christ.
8 Ways to Stop Seeking Your Worth from Your Work
One of the reasons I wanted to update this post is to share more truths the Holy Spirit has taught me over time on this important topic. God works to restore harmony to our lives when our work, purpose, and source of identity are out of alignment. He desires that we have a secure identity in Christ that empowers us to live and work in freedom from the pressure of performance.
Each of these points stem from verses and meditations over time. Reviewing my journals allows me to notice how God speaks to the vulnerabilities of our hearts with the transforming power of his love.
I hope you will find these words as meaningful and helpful as I have.
Prioritize your identity in Christ. What is true of you spiritually is what is most true about you. Continually come back to what is true of you as a child of God.
Recognize that your spiritual identity is the most fundamental truth about you.
Engage in daily meditation or affirmations focusing on your identity in Christ to live free from the temptation to derive worth from your achievements.
Remember it is God’s work, not ours. Invite God into the process as you focus on partnering with Christ. This can help us remember that both the work and the outcomes are in God’s hands.
Involve God in your daily activities, acknowledging that both the efforts and the results are under His control.
Commit to give your best and trust God with the outcomes, reinforcing that your value does not hinge on success.
Embrace our limits as a gift. Practicing Sabbath and soul rest helps us hold our work with open hands. We trust God with our unfinished work as we set aside weekly time to rest and worship. A few years ago God impressed on me the importance of following his example in the creation account in Genesis. Not only to practice Sabbath-an act of worshipful trust.
Set boundaries with your work. At creation God created specific parts of a larger whole. At the end of each day, he acknowledges the completion of the day’s work, calling it good.
Taking time to thank God and enjoy the work we have accomplished during the day can help us maintain a sense of gratitude.
Daily gratitude for the work we have completed keeps our focus on God. Particularly for teachers, writers, pastors and those who work with people, there is rarely a set end to specific tasks, but ongoing effort, expectation, and demands on time, energy, and expertise.
Also, this is an issue for those who work from home. Practicing boundaries for the end of the workday and being grateful for what has been accomplished can help us enjoy sustainable work.
Build with what God provides. Our culture constantly elevates those with more reach, success, and influence, often creating standards and algorithms that keep us continually hustling to keep up with the latest trend.Pay attention to the blessings and opportunities God has already provided.
Before striving for more or moving on to the next new shiny thing, practice the habit of fully engaging with what God has already given.
Practice contentment, which is not complacency, but an act of surrender and gratitude, trusting God in the process.
Recognize the temptation to serve our own purpose. Understand the temptation to rely on oneself rather than partnering with God in our endeavors.
Our role is to receive and respond to the work God is doing, honoring Him with our effort but not drawing life and worth from the results.
When success starts defining us, calling morphs into ambition.
How do we combat this? By inviting God into every part of our workday, consciously aligning our actions with His purpose.
Identify and release fear of failure. Fear of failure, or insignificance, can be overt or covert. It can blare in your face or sneak in under the radar of your awareness.
The Holy Spirit helps us become aware of hidden dynamics driving us. When he does, it’s important to explore them with God.
Practice the hope-building habit of processing your feelings with God for positive emotional health when it comes to your self-work and attitude toward work.
8. Cultivate the habit of putting your confidence in God rather than self. Remember your work is part of God’s calling and purpose in your life. Avoid letting outcomes determine your hope and confidence. Regularly affirm your trust in God’s provision and sovereignty, especially in challenging times
Living by the Spirit in all of life will impact how we work. Focusing on keeping in step with the Spirit includes letting him set the pace and direction. This becomes a place of freedom as I assess my motivations and my work.
Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. —Galatians 5:25 NIV
Knowing God cares about the struggles I face reminds me to entrust my fears and insecurities to him. Be encouraged with a soul note Father shared with me in a quiet time as I prayed about this persistent struggle of seeking my worth in my work.
You are deeply loved and secure in me. I love you for who you are. Your work is one part of your life. When you seek your worth in your work, you will starve your soul. Don’t confuse the outcomes you see today with your value. Today isn’t the end of the story. Seek me each day with an open heart and open hands so your soul can let go of the idol of performance. Follow my lead and keep in step with me. Slow down to receive my love and peace. Because of my love, it is well with your soul.
Trust God with your work and your worth.
Ask God to help you reach the potential he has placed in you. Never underestimate what the power of the Holy Spirit can do in your life and through your work. Seek to keep in step with God, remembering work is part of the journey, but not the destination. Our purpose is never the outcome of our work. Work is an important part of life, but it is not the purpose of life. Keeping work in a right perspective guards our heart drawing self-worth from our work.
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Download the guide for this series: 15 Habits of Hope for Your Work. You’ll get 15 simple, Scripture-rooted habits to help you live from your worth, not for it.
For more on this topic, check out Chapter 12: “Moments to Work” in Holy in the Moment—a book that invites you to experience God’s grace and presence in the small, everyday choices of life.
In the Moments to Work chapter, you’ll discover how God is present in your effort, not just the outcome. Learn how to live intentionally, respond to His nudges in your workday, and trust Him with every moment.
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10 Christian Daily Habits to Turn Life’s Challenges Into Hope with Marnie Swedberg
Turn your challenges into hope with simple but powerful Christian daily habits. Marnie Swedberg shares her incredible journey of faith through hurricanes, personal losses, and triumphs. Tune in to learn how to build habits of hope, depend on Christ daily, and transform challenges into opportunities for growth.
Christian daily habits to fuel your faith are the secret to turning your hard moments into hope.
What if life’s hardest moments could be the very thing that strengthens your faith? Life is unpredictable. From small frustrations to devastating trials, we all experience moments that test our endurance. The question is: Where do we turn in those moments?
For global mentor, author, and speaker Marnie Swedberg, life’s storms—literal and figurative—have tested her faith time and time again. From surviving natural disasters to experiencing unexpected personal losses, she has learned the value of habits of hope—daily faith-filled practices that keep her anchored in Christ.
I had the privilege of sitting down with Marnie for a conversation about faith, resilience, and the practical habits that keep us grounded in hope. Her insights offer a powerful roadmap for anyone seeking to thrive spiritually, even in life’s toughest seasons.
Daily Spiritual Practices for Hopeful Living
1. Depend on Christ Completely
So often, we turn to God only after we’ve exhausted our own strength. But dependence on Christ is not meant to be a last resort—it’s meant to be our first response.
Marnie shared how she used to call other people first when she needed help or would react emotionally in difficult situations. Marnie shared how her sister’s home was destroyed, and her community was in shambles after a devastating hurricane last fall. “I felt the weight of it all. But in that moment, I called on Jesus—just whispered His name—and immediately felt peace settle over me.”
“True peace comes when Jesus is the first call, not the last,” Marnie says, “Jesus is my 911.”
Marnie explains, “It’s about retraining your mind. When something goes wrong, our instinct is often to panic, complain, or try to fix it ourselves. Instead, I’ve developed a habit of literally saying “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus” out loud. It’s a simple, breath-prayer that refocuses my mind on who is in control. And you know what? He always shows up.”
What would change in your life if you depended on God first instead of trying to fix things on your own?
2. Start the Day Spiritually Full
We often wait until we feel empty or overwhelmed to turn to God. But the key to living with peace and spiritual strength is to start the day filled up.
“I like to think of it as living from a full cup. Imagine your life as a drinking cup. When people ‘sip’ from your life—your words, your actions, your attitude—what do they get?”
Marnie explains that when we’re spiritually depleted, we react with frustration, exhaustion, or negativity. But if we stay submerged in Christ—through prayer, scripture, and worship—what overflows from us is peace, love, and hope.
It’s about starting the day filled up, not waiting until we’re drained to seek God.
This is such a simple mindset shift. Instead of refueling after we’re empty, we stay connected to the source.
Marnie begins each morning with three essential practices:
✅ Praying the Lord’s Prayer in a personal way. (Matthew 6:9-13)
✅ Putting on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) as part of her morning routine.
✅ Expressing gratitude and surrender, asking God to guide her steps.
Rather than reacting to the day from depletion, start spiritually filled so that what flows out of you is life-giving.
“With God flowing through me, everything changes then. And when people ask about how do you get so much done? How do you have the energy to do that? I’m just a person too. mean, I just am a human. But when I step aside and don’t try to do everything myself and let God flow it through me, that changes the whole scenario,” Marnie elaborates. “It’s truly the abundant life that God’s talking about in the Bible is not waiting until you’re dry, not waiting until you’re all out of gas, not waiting until you’re empty to go refill, but to refill consistently. We would never have a habit of letting your car run out of gas wherever it ran out of gas. We wouldn’t even do that to our cars, but we do it to ourselves.”
3. End the Day with Prayer and Surrender
“I used to fall asleep worrying about everything that wasn’t done, but now I release it all to God.” — Marnie Swedberg
Just as starting the day with Christ is essential, so is ending the day in peace.
Before bed, Marnie spends a few moments in reflection:
- What did God teach me today?
- What do I need to surrender?
- Where did I see Him move?
One night, she found herself saying, “It’s all out of control!” But in that moment, God impressed on her heart:
“Out of whose control, sweetheart?”
That one sentence shifted her perspective. Because life is never out of God’s control—only ours.
4. Trust God in the Little Things
Faith grows one small act at a time. Instead of waiting for a big crisis, practice trusting God in the daily moments:
💡 Lost your keys? Pray before panicking.
💡 Running late? Trust that God orders your steps.
💡 Frustrated? Pause and whisper, “Jesus, I give this to You.”
What small challenge can you turn around with a simple act of faith?
5. View Hardships as Opportunities for Growth
In this episode, Marnie shares so many ways to overcome challenges with faith. Instead of seeing trials as obstacles, we can view them as opportunities to deepen our faith.
Marnie’s life has been filled with unexpected hardships, from losing her father suddenly to surviving multiple hurricanes. Yet she says, “God is always positioning us for something greater.”
Ask yourself:
✔️ How is God using this to refine me?
✔️ What is He teaching me through this challenge?
✔️ How can I use this difficulty to glorify Him?
The key is reframing struggles as spiritual growth opportunities.
6. Recognize and Release Negative Emotions
We often ignore or suppress emotions like anger, frustration, or grief. But instead of bottling up emotions, Marnie suggests bringing them to God first. Pour out your heart honestly to God, trusting Him with it all.
Steps to release negative emotions:
✅ Identify what you’re feeling. Are you angry, frustrated, or anxious?
✅ Confess it honestly to God. He invites you to bring every burden to Him. (1 Peter 5:7)
✅ Replace lies with truth. When toxic thoughts arise, counter them with scripture.
Example:🚫 Lie: “I am alone in this.”
✅ Truth: “God will never leave me.” (Deuteronomy 31:6)
7. Use a Catch Phrase to Focus on Faith
A fan of choosing a word or phrase for the year, Marnie shared how consistently focusing on a key concept has strengthened her faith over the years. This year, her phrase is a simple way to respond to challenges big and small: Thank, Praise, Worship
1️⃣ Thank – What has God already done?
2️⃣ Praise – Who is God, regardless of circumstances?
3️⃣ Worship – Surrender in awe of His sovereignty.
Give it a try and see how this simple process can strengthen your heart.
8. Pray Frequently Throughout the Day
In our interview, Marnie shared many powerful illustrations that can help us deepen understanding of spiritual concepts. One of my favorites involved dolphins. Like dolphins needing to surface for air, we must “breathe in” prayer throughout our day:
🌱 Quick prayers of gratitude
🌱 Silent moments of surrender
🌱 Whispered scripture-based affirmations
This habit keeps us spiritually grounded and connected to God.
Are you feeling drained or stressed right now? Come up for air with a quick prayer and breathe in the Holy Spirit.
9. Let God Order Your Steps
When I asked Marnie how she gets so much done each day, she shared her best habit for productivity. With a chuckle, Marnie shared that she is a personal assistant to the Most High God. Each morning she trusts Him to wake her up. Then she waits for her instructions for the day from God, trusting Him to help her carry them out.
- Begin your day by asking God to align your plans with His will.
- Avoid relying solely on rigid schedules—trust God to guide you moment by moment.
10. Reflect on God’s Character as a Father
If you struggle with trust, meditate on who God is:
✔️ A protector (Psalm 91:4)
✔️ A provider (Philippians 4:19)
✔️ A faithful Father (Romans 8:15)
God as Our Good Father: The Foundation of Trust
One of the most impactful parts of my conversation with Marnie was about God’s love as our Father. Many women struggle to trust God because of painful experiences with their earthly fathers—whether from abandonment, harshness, or absence. Marnie spoke powerfully to this, sharing how understanding God as the perfect Father transformed her faith.
“So many people have this perspective of God that when we make a mistake, when we fail—even if we do it on purpose—God turns His back on us,” she said.
But the truth? God never turns away from His children.
“When we turn our back on this good, good Father, He moves—positioning Himself in front of us again. He is always facing us, looking into our eyes, saying, ‘Come back, come back.’”
Marnie encourages women to reframe their view of God by thinking of the best version of a father—strong, loving, and always present. If you’ve never had that experience in real life, scripture reveals the truth of God’s character:
🔹 He protects us from harm. (Psalm 91:4)
🔹 He provides for every need. (Philippians 4:19)
🔹 He never abandons His children. (Deuteronomy 31:6)
And perhaps the most freeing truth? God has already forgiven you.
“Your sins are already all forgiven under the cross of Jesus Christ, under the blood of Christ,” Marnie reminded us. “There’s not one thing you have ever done, not one thing you could be doing right now, or not one thing you could do in your future that has not already been forgiven.”
If trusting God feels difficult, Marnie encourages us to start small:
✔️ Meditate on scriptures about God’s love
✔️ Listen to worship songs that reinforce His fatherly care
✔️ Pray honestly—bring your doubts and fears to Him
God is not waiting to decide whether to forgive or love you—He already has. His love is not based on performance but on the unchanging truth that you are His beloved daughter.
This is the foundation of trust—knowing that no matter what, God is a good Father who will never leave, forsake, or abandon you.
Practicing Simple Habits to Turn Your Challenges into Hope
Marnie’s life and ministry are proof that faith isn’t just for the easy days—it’s for the hardest moments of life. Whether it’s a devastating hurricane, sudden loss, or everyday frustrations, her commitment to these daily habits has strengthened her trust in God and resilience in trials.
She reminds us:
“We can’t wait until we’re in crisis mode to start depending on Jesus. Faith isn’t just for emergencies—it’s for every single moment. When we learn to live from a place of constant dependence, we will never feel empty, because we’re constantly refilling in His presence.”
💡 Your Challenge: Choose one habit from this list and start implementing it today. Whether it’s praying first thing in the morning, taking “prayer breaths” throughout the day, or speaking truth over your mind—start small and stay consistent.
And if you want to hear more wisdom and encouragement from Marnie, listen to the full podcast episode [here].
📚 Want to dive deeper? Check out Marnie’s books and virtual summits at Marnie.com for more insights on faith, resilience, and living a hope-filled life.
Let’s build habits of hope together! 🙌
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Struggling to trust God in difficult times? Learn how stepping out of your comfort zone in faith leads to spiritual growth through challenges. Learn biblical insights and practical ways to embrace challenges with hope and confidence.
Life is full of challenges—big and small—that test our faith, patience, and resilience. As Christians, we often hear the encouragement to “trust God” during tough times, but what does that really mean? How do we navigate life’s trials while holding on to our faith? What are the benefits of embracing discomfort instead of avoiding it?
The Power of Perspective to Trust God in Difficult Times
One of the foundational truths of navigating trials and discomfort is recognizing that how we think is a choice. We often forget that we have the power to choose our thoughts, which can either bring us closer to joy and faith or pull us into fear and anxiety.
“Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing” (James 1:2-4 NASB 1995).
Habit of Hope: We grow in faith when we trust God enough to step out of our comfort zones, embrace discomfort, and walk forward in obedience, knowing He is with us.
When faced with difficulties, it’s easy to let negative thoughts dominate. But choosing joy during trials isn’t about denying the difficulty or putting on a fake smile—it’s about recognizing that God is with us and will use every challenge for our good. Our thoughts shape our responses. When we align them with God’s truth, we build spiritual endurance.
Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone in Faith
Discomfort is something we naturally try to avoid (at least I do!), yet it’s often the very thing God uses to stretch and grow us. In every trial, we can learn more about Jesus because He’s with us. When we embrace discomfort rather than run from it, we open ourselves to the work that God wants to do in and through us.
If we’ve got a bad attitude, if we’re resisting, or if we’ve moved into control or fix-it mode, we can block the Holy Spirit from working. One of the most impactful shifts you can make in your spiritual journey is to view trials from God’s perspective. Instead of seeing challenges as obstacles, start seeing them as opportunities for growth. This mindset shift allows you to approach difficulties with faith, knowing that God is using them to mature and strengthen you.
What Happened When I Stepped Out of My Comfort Zone
Whether it’s a trial, taking a risk, or starting something new, there are many times in life where we need to step out of our comfort zones. When I went to my first writer’s conference in 2012, I hesitated at the door. The room buzzed with the conversations of 400 people.
Feeling like an imposter, it was stressful to step into the discomfort and silence the voice in my head saying, “You don’t belong here. Who do you think you are?”
But when I think about how much I’ve grown as a writer, content creator, and speaker since that day, I’m blown away by what God has done. What would I have missed if I’d allowed discomfort to keep me from stepping into something new?
In other seasons of life, hardships and challenges have required me to press through discomfort, trusting God for answers and help I couldn’t see at the time. James reminds us that trials come in many varieties, but there can be joy when we realize God is at work.
Spiritual Growth Through Challenges: Processing Emotions with God
Our emotions play a significant role in how we navigate trials. They can either derail us or become powerful tools for growth if we bring them to God.
When you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or frustrated, take your emotions to Him. Spend time in prayer, journaling, or talking with a trusted friend to process what you’re going through. By doing so, you allow God to bring healing and insight, helping you move forward with a renewed sense of hope and purpose.
Seeking God’s Guidance: The Key to Spiritual Resilience
In moments of uncertainty, it’s crucial to seek God’s guidance. When we’re unsure of what to do, we can pray for wisdom and strength. God promises to give us wisdom if we ask for it (James 1:5).
One practical way to seek God’s guidance is through consistent prayer and reflection on His Word. By staying connected to God, you’ll be better equipped to handle life’s challenges with grace and confidence.
Steps to Trust God in Difficult Times
Consider the following action steps to empower you to step out of your comfort zone and embrace growth through your challenges.
Acknowledge the discomfort – Don’t ignore your feelings. Recognize and name the discomfort you’re experiencing. Trust that God is working. Process your emotions with Him so you can move forward rather than get stuck in your feelings.
Identify the root cause of reactions – Ask God, “Lord, why is this upsetting me so much?” Dig deep to uncover the thoughts, responses, and beliefs shaping your reaction.
Seek God’s perspective – Ask Him to help you see the situation through His eyes, focusing on the growth and blessings that can come from it.
Be willing – Think about Peter walking on water. His willingness to step out of the boat and trust Jesus led to a miraculous experience that strengthened his faith.
Seek God’s guidance – Pray for wisdom and strength to navigate the trial, trusting that God will guide you in His timing (James 1:5-8).
Pray and watch for God’s answers – Simple prayers like “Jesus, help me” or “Lord, provide what I need in this moment” can keep you anchored in His presence.
Take small steps – Breaking down challenges into manageable actions helps decrease overwhelm, allowing you to build confidence and momentum.
Embrace the journey – Growth is a process. Be patient with yourself, keep your attention on God, and celebrate progress along the way.
Believe God is with you – Remember that He is with you in every step, providing support and strength.
Trust in God’s timing – Quick resolutions may not come, but trust that God is working behind the scenes, even when you can’t see it.
Building Faith Habits: Small Steps Lead to Big Spiritual Growth
Growth doesn’t happen overnight. Keep taking small steps in the right direction. One of the most effective ways to build faith is by establishing daily habits that keep you connected to God—prayer, Bible reading, journaling, or reflecting on how God is working in your life.
Build the Habit of Trusting God in Your Difficult Times
What area of your life are you avoiding because it’s uncomfortable? How can you shift your mindset to see your trials as opportunities for growth? This week, take one small step outside your comfort zone. Process your emotions with God, seek His guidance, and trust Him with the next step—one day at a time.
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What to Do When You Long for God to Speak to You
When you long for God to speak to you, practical steps from Habakkuk 2:1-2 inspire attentiveness, journaling, and meditation to help us listen to God. This post includes a prayer for God to speak to me.
Will God Speak to Me?
Is this question echoing in your heart? You’re not alone, friend.
Deepening our relationship with God is a desire that taps into our purpose. God created us for relationship. We know relationships flourish when there is good communication, but conversing with God isn’t always clear. What do you do with your longing to hear from God?
How do We Hear God’s Voice?
We may think of hearing God as words we literally hear from outside of ourselves—like we listen to other people. Christ dwells within and speaks from within, so this is often a different kind of listening that comes by way of spirit.
Hearing God is the work of the Holy Spirit. Conversation with God involves spiritual hearing more than a physical listening.
Scripture records God speaking in a variety of ways. In Experiencing God, Henry Blackaby explains “God speaks through a variety of means. In the present God primarily speaks by the Holy Spirit, through the Bible, prayer, circumstances, and the church.”
A Holy Longing for More of God
I believe that God sparks this desire in our soul so that we will seek Him more intentionally. The Holy Spirit stirs a craving for deeper engagement with God.
Even greater than our yearning to hear God is the beautiful truth that God wants us to know His voice. Our holy longing begins with His desire, and it is a desire He loves to fulfill!
“Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known.” Jeremiah 33:3
Managing Spiritual Distractions
How often do we miss God’s voice because of distractions—external noise or the clutter of our own thoughts? I’ve experienced this firsthand. Some days, I show up for quiet time, but m y mind races from one thought to another. Scripture flutters through my mind without taking root. Do you know that feeling?
Mental concentration requires practice, but the reward is spiritual clarity. Start by asking: What distracts me the most? Is it my phone, a noisy environment, or internal worries? Identify it and take one small step to guard your attention during quiet time.
Holy Expectancy to Hear God’s Voice
The best way to sharpen your spiritual listening is to ask God for help.
Does this sound too simple? In today’s digital age of information, many balk at the thought that we cannot rely on a three-step formula for improving ourselves and achieving the life we want.
But what if listening to God really is simple? What if it isn’t so much about our capability, but about a willingness to trust God to do what we cannot accomplish on our own? Isn’t this what faith is all about? Use the prayer for God to speak to me at the end of this post to inspire you.
Participate with God to Hear His Voice
Beyond our longing for God to speak to us, we play an active role in the process. God often works alongside our participation. How can we not participate when the Holy Spirit dwells within us?
Trust God and pay attention as you reflect on His word and in the activity of your day. Hold fast to the belief that God will fulfill your desire to hear from Him. Then take the active step to watch and wait in faith.
Listening to God is a really the spiritual discipline of waiting for God.
Dry Seasons of Faith
Spiritual dry seasons are difficult. It’s in these times that we feel distant from God, wondering if we’ve done something wrong or if He’s forgotten us. But here’s the truth: dry seasons are part of the normal Christian journey. God often uses them to grow our faith and intensify our desire to seek Him fully.
Think of how a seed grows underground. Even though we can’t see it, roots are forming, and eventually, new life will sprout. Likewise, even it feels like God is silent, He is still at work in your life.
Trust Him in the silence.
Keep showing up.
Believe that He will speak in His perfect timing.
Listening with Purpose
Attention and intention snap to high alert in these words from Habakkuk that provide spiritual inspiration for listening to God. Consider the relationship between Habakkuk’s desire expressed as intentionality and God speaking:
I will standon my guard post
And station myself on the rampart;
And I will keep watch to see what He will speak to me,
And how I may replywhen I am reproved.
Then the LORD answered me and said. . . Habakkuk 2:1-2a NASB
When it comes to hearing God, cultivating a regular practice of meditating on His word is the most effective way to stand at your guard post. This is a way of positioning ourselves to hear God speak. In this passage, the blue text shows our Habakkuk’s purposeful actions. The red shows God’s actions.
What better way to “see” what God will say than to read Scripture as a conversation with God, depending on the Holy Spirit to reveal and guide? The connection between seeing and hearing continues in these words that teach us about listening to God.
Then the Lord answered me. . .
Have you considered the cause and effect sequence in this passage? Because Habakuk was faithful to stand guard, station himself, and keep watch for God’s words, he heard God when He answered.
How often do I miss God speaking because I’m not listening? Not ready? Not paying attention?
The Sacred Gift of Attention
In my book, Holy in the Moment, I emphasize that attention is one of the most valuable gifts we can offer to God. It’s easy to squander it on lesser things like social media, entertainment, or endless tasks. But when we give God our attention, we invite Him to work in our hearts. (affiliate link)
Ask God to empower you to push past distractions. Be willing to stop, stand, and station yourself to listen. Be patient with yourself—it’s okay to be in process, messy as it might be. Over time, you’ll find that the more you listen, the more you’ll hear.
Ask God to empower you to push past distraction, busyness, and confusion.
Be willing to stop, stand, and station yourself to listen.
Be willing to be in process, as messy as it might be.
Be willing to try, to falter, and eventually to fly.
Give God your attention and believe He will speak to you. Let your quiet time become a training ground for hearing God more clearly.
When God Speaks… Write it Down
The rhythm of seeing and hearing continues in Habakuk’s experience with God:
“Record the vision
And inscribe it on tablets,
That the one who reads it may run.”–Habakkuk 2:2
When we hear from God, it’s important to respond and remember.
Journaling can help you capture insights that might otherwise slip away. Writing down your reflections allows you to revisit them later and see how God has been guiding you.
A Prayer Asking God to Speak . . .
Lord, open my ears and my heart to listen as You speak through Your word. Increase my attention and spiritual discernment to recognize when you speak to me. Help me to treasure Your words in my heart as You guide me through Your Holy Spirit. I look forward to a deeper relationship with You as I hear You more clearly. Thank You that I can depend on Your Spirit to help me hear You speak to my heart. In Jesus’ name, amen.
How can your desire to listen to God draw you into a deeper relationship? What helps you to listen to God?
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Forgiving Sets You Free: 10 Steps to More Hope and Healing
What does it mean to forgive and how do we live it out? Discover how forgiving sets you free with powerful steps to hope and healing. Holding onto resentment doesn’t punish the other person; it keeps you trapped. Don’t miss the free downloadable guide with this post!
If you’re feeling stuck, weighed down, or even resistant to forgiving someone, you’re not alone. God has given us a path to freedom, healing, and peace. In this post, we’ll uncover practical steps and spiritual truths to help you release resentment, embrace hope, and make forgiveness a habit.
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Understanding Biblical Forgiveness
One of my favorite verses about the importance of forgiving others is found in Colossians 3:13: “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
Forgiveness Reflects Christ: We forgive not because the other person deserves it but because Christ forgave us first.
Forgiveness Requires God’s Strength: Without the life and love of Christ within us, it’s impossible to forgive at the level we are called to.
Part of Christian Living: Paul teaches that forgiveness is essential to walking in love and living out the Christian life.
Not Based on Feelings: Forgiveness is a decision, not something that depends on our emotions. We must trust God with the offense even when we don’t feel like forgiving.
Aligning with Our Identity in Christ: As new creations, our nature in Christ is to forgive, but we often fall back into old coping strategies and flesh patterns.
This verse inspires a powerful habit of hope:
Forgive as Christ forgave you, as you let go of resentment and trust God with your pain.
With this habit of hope, forgiveness becomes a bridge to healing and freedom from our pain. Is it easy? Not at all, but it is worth it!
What Forgiveness Is (and Isn’t)
Forgiving sets us free and opens the door to hope. Many people hesitate to forgive for many reasons. Let’s clear up some common misconceptions about what it means to forgive:
Forgiveness is NOT excusing the offense. It does not mean what happened was okay.
Forgiveness is NOT forgetting, discounting the offense, or pretending everything’s fine. Some wounds leave lasting scars, but healing means they no longer control us.
Forgiveness is NOT about who deserves it; it’s about trusting God with justice and releasing yourself from the weight of anger.
Forgiveness is NOT reconciliation. While forgiveness is a personal choice, reconciliation requires effort from both parties. Reconciliation may come, but it is important to understand the distinction between the two.
Forgiveness IS releasing bitterness. It frees you from carrying the weight of resentment.
Forgiveness IS trusting God with justice. Letting go means allowing God to deal with the offender in His perfect way.
Imagine carrying a heavy backpack filled with rocks—each one representing a grudge or past hurt. Every day, the weight slows you down. The longer you carry it, the heavier it feels. Now picture setting it down. The relief is immediate.
Forgiveness is like that. It doesn’t erase the pain, but it frees you from carrying the burden every day.
Forgiveness is a Decision, Not an Emotion
If we wait until we feel like forgiving, we may never do it— Processing our feelings is often the hardest part of forgiveness. Another misconception about forgiveness is that we will feel better as soon as we forgive.
Imagine a train climbing a steep hill. The engine represents the decision to forgive, while the caboose symbolizes our emotions. When we choose to forgive, the train begins moving forward, even if our feelings haven’t caught up yet.
At first, it may feel like nothing has changed. The pain is still there. The hurt still stings. But as the train continues down the track, the caboose—our emotions—eventually follows.
Forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling. We make the decision to forgive in obedience to God, trusting that over time, our emotions will align with our choice. The key is to stay on track, keep trusting God, and allow His grace to bring healing as we move toward freedom.
Are you willing to start the journey, even if your feelings aren’t there yet?
How to Forgive: Steps to Freedom Through Forgiveness
Forgiveness can feel impossible when the pain is still fresh. We may want to forgive, but we aren’t sure how to really mean it. The following steps will show you how to forgive, even when it’s hard.
Start with a Willing Heart
Acknowledge that forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling.
Ask God to help you be open to forgiving, even if you don’t feel ready.
Name the Hurt and Acknowledge the Loss
Identify what was lost—whether it’s trust, peace, a relationship, or security. Name the hurt, being specific about how the offense has impacted you.
Be honest with yourself and God about the pain. Avoiding, minimizing or suppressing hurt only keeps it festering.
Writing down your thoughts or praying through them helps bring clarity.
Entrust the Hurt to God
Surrender the offense to God, trusting Him with justice and healing.
Embrace the truth that God’s command to forgive is for your benefit.
Prayer: “Lord, I give this pain to You. Help me heal and walk in freedom.”
Make the Decision to Forgive
Saying the words “I choose to forgive [name] for [specific hurt]” out loud can be a powerful act of release.
If it helps, visualize yourself speaking directly to the person (even if they’re not present), letting them go in your heart.
Choose to release bitterness, even if you don’t feel like it.This reinforces your decision and helps break the emotional hold of unforgiveness.
Remember that forgiveness is between you and God, not dependent on the offender’s actions.
Let Go of the Need for an Apology
While an apology is important and meaningful, it is not a requirement of forgiveness.
Waiting for an apology only keeps you trapped in resentment.
Forgiveness is about freeing yourself, not excusing the offender.
Set Healthy Boundaries if Needed
Forgiveness does not mean being a “doormat” or tolerating ongoing harm.
Determine if some kind limits are necessary to protect your well-being while still releasing bitterness.
Pray for the Person Who Hurt You
This step may feel impossible at first, but prayer shifts your heart from bitterness to peace.
Jesus said in Luke 6:27-28: “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.”
Prayer doesn’t justify their actions—it softens your heart and places them in God’s hands.
Commit to the Process of Forgiveness
Understand that emotions take time to align with your choice to forgive.
When bitterness resurfaces, remind yourself of your decision and continue to work through your feelings with God.
Remember forgiveness is an act of faith and obedience to God.
Embrace the Freedom That Forgiveness Brings
By faith, receive the blessings of forgiveness, trusting God to make it a reality in your experience in His timing.
Recognize the peace, healing, and emotional freedom that come with forgiveness.
Walk forward in hope, knowing that forgiveness is a reflection of God’s grace in your life.
Seek support if needed.
Deep wounds can be difficult to navigate alone. When needed, seek wise counsel from a trusted friend, mentor, or therapist.
Pray and ask God to lead you to the right person who can offer wisdom and support.
When we don’t forgive or deal with our pain, bitterness can become part of our identity. We can begin to see ourselves as victims, allowing the pain to control or define our lives. Truly, this is no way to live. It is not God’s desire for you to be a prisoner to the pain of the past. This is why it’s so important to understand the meaning of forgiveness and how to do it!
Podcast Quotes on Forgiving
“Forgiveness is a gift that sets us free and opens the door to hope.”
“Forgiveness isn’t about excusing the hurt or pretending everything’s fine.”
“When you feel the weight of hurt, choose to forgive as Christ forgave you.”
“Forgiveness requires patience, humility, and a willingness to let go of grievances.”
“We forgive not because the hurt was okay, but because Christ forgave us first.”
“Forgiveness isn’t about who deserves it; it’s about reflecting God’s grace.”
“Forgiveness isn’t just for the other person—it’s for you.”
“Letting go doesn’t change the past, but it frees your future.”
Practical Ways to Practice the Forgiveness Habit
Make forgiveness a natural part of your life with these simple daily practices.
✔ Keep short accounts. Address issues quickly before resentment builds up.
✔ Reflect each night. Before bed, reaffirm your choice to forgive and release any lingering bitterness.
✔ Remind yourself of God’s grace. Just as Christ forgave you, you are called to extend that grace to others.
✔ Use Scripture as a guide. Meditate on Colossians 3:13 and Matthew 18:21-22.
By making forgiveness a habit, you’ll not only experience greater peace and healing but also reflect Christ’s love in your daily life.
What Happens When You Forgive?
When you choose forgiveness, you step into freedom from bitterness and the taxing weight of carrying old wounds. Holding grudges may feel like self-protection, but in reality, it only keeps you bound.
Forgiveness, on the other hand, opens the door to healing and peace. It strengthens your faith, deepens your dependence on God, and helps you grow spiritually in ways you never imagined.
As you let go, you’ll begin to notice a shift—your heart softens, your relationships strengthen, and peace replaces the turmoil that once lived inside you. And here’s the beautiful part: when you forgive, you reflect the love of Christ in a powerful way. The world is watching how we respond to hurt, and when we choose grace over grievance, we become a living testimony of God’s grace.
This week, take action by choosing one of the following:
Identify a person or situation where you need to forgive.
Write down what you need to release and pray through it.
Ask God to help you forgive, even if you’re not ready.
Pray for someone who has hurt you.
Even though forgiveness is a decision, it is also a journey of trust, faith, and growth. Every step you take brings you closer to the freedom God desires for you.
The Forgiveness Habit Prayer
Lord,
Thank you that you have forgiven me more than I deserve. You call me to forgive just as You forgave me through Christ. Right now, forgiveness feels hard. This hurt weighs heavy on my heart, but I know I don’t want to carry this bitterness any longer.
Today, I bring before You the person who hurt me and the pain it caused. I don’t want resentment to have power over me anymore. I name this wound and surrender it into Your hands. I choose to forgive _____ as You have forgiven me—not because the hurt was okay, but because I trust You with the healing and hope.
Help me to let go of anger and bitterness. Heal my heart, and teach me how to extend the same grace that You’ve shown me time and time again. Let Your love flow through me so that I may reflect Your grace to others.
Guide me to set healthy boundaries where needed, but keep my heart free from bitterness. I pray for peace in my soul and, if possible, for reconciliation. Thank You for the freedom that comes through forgiveness. By faith, I embrace Your grace that empowers me to love, even when it’s hard. When I struggle with my feelings, remind me that I have forgiven and released all of this into your hands.
Help me to practice forgiveness as a habit of hope in my life. Let it shape the way I respond to others, making forgiveness my first instinct instead of holding onto grievance. I trust You to lead me forward in the freedom of forgiveness.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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