Spiritual Growth

Finding Soul Rest from the Burdens that Weigh You Down

Unlock the secrets of soul rest with insights from Matthew 11:28-30. This in-depth post explores how experience soul rest from burdens that weigh you down. Jesus’ invitation leads to profound spiritual peace, offering guidance on how to lighten life’s burdens through a deeper relationship with Jesus. Includes personal examples of how Jesus is teaching me to release burdens to experience soul rest. Read this article, listen to the podcast episode (at the bottom of this post), or watch on YouTube for this content. 

 

“Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is comfortable, and My burden is light” –Matthew 11;28-30 NASB

Rest is more than getting enough sleep or taking a break after physically demanding work. Jesus invites us to experience soul rest by entering a relationship where He leads and we follow. This way of living and working is the secret to soul rest, spiritual peace, and a deeper relationship with Jesus.

Woman holding a much works on computer for post on finding soul rest.

Soul rest is not freedom from work or burdens.

The offer in Matthew 11:28-30 is not to find rest by not having to work, free from any kind of burden. This rest is not about the absence of life’s challenges but about how we engage with them, relying on Jesus to guide and strengthen us. Soul rest does not depend on the absence of problems or pain, but in bringing our burdens to Christ. Being yoked with Jesus isn’t about escaping work or life’s pressures but about handling them through His strength and guidance.

 

Jesus invites us to depend on Him and follow His lead and His way as we work in relationship with Him. “Come to me…and I will give you rest…” implies that rest is a gift we receive from Jesus. Soul rest is a gift, attained not by our efforts, but through accepting Jesus’ invitation to live and learn from Him. Share on X

 

This is a relational invitation. Jesus promises to teach us a different way of living and working in His “easy yoke.”  This yoke is a training tool to help a young ox learn from a stronger ox bearing most of the burden of the work. The younger learns, trains, and grows, becoming stronger and experienced over time. What a concrete picture of our relationship with Christ as we work and learn with Him. I often think of this image of being yoked with Jesus as He bears the weight and guides my steps.

Jesus speaks to the soul-weary burdens that weigh us down.

In this familiar passage, Jesus speaks of two specific challenges we all face in life. The first word is translated “weary” or “labor,” meaning fatigue from hard work, burdens, or grief.

The second problem is being “burdened” by carrying a heavy load  placed upon us, much like a heavy pack is placed on a donkey. When the expectations and demands of others weigh us down, we may find ourselves bearing a heavy load we were not intended to carry.

This is an interesting distinction. In context, Jesus refers to the heavy load that religious leaders had placed upon the people. These were extra laws and practices to keep them from disobeying any of the commandments. Jesus came to free us from the burden of the law, the burden of our sin, and our inability to keep the law.

But there are other implications of the many burdens that weigh heavy on our soul. Here are a few I often experience:

  • Motivations, mindsets, and lack of boundaries
  • Other people’s opinions and expectations
  • Unrealistic self-expectations or goals
  • Pressure of trying to control outcomes
  • Relying upon our own resources, abilities, or strength for success
  • Unresolved conflict or harboring unforgiveness

Which of these burdens have you felt lately? Jesus offers a way of living and working that we can only experience in a dependent relationship with Him. Through the Holy Spirit, Jesus helps us identify and to bear our burdens. He can show us how to experience the soul rest we need.

The role of spiritual disciplines in experiencing soul rest.

 

Quote on spiritual disciplines and finding rest on white backgroundSpiritual disciplines aren’t just practices; they’re pathways to the rest Jesus promises.

These Jesus-lessons are personal for each of us. It all starts with the daily habit of coming. If we do not develop the habit of “coming to Jesus,” we miss out on what He wants to teach us. To “come” is to rely on Christ, to trust Him, to listen for His words, to attend to what He is teaching. Spiritual disciplines such as prayer, Bible reading, meditation, and journaling help us learn from Jesus in a personal way.

To truly find soul rest, engaging in spiritual disciplines is essential. Practices such as prayer, reading the Bible, and meditation deepen our connection to Christ. They help us to learn from Him and recognize the Holy Spirit’s guidance.

Though spiritual disciplines help us learn from Jesus, being “yoked” with Jesus is about far more than whether we have a “good Quiet Time.” Spiritual disciplines help us give time and attention to what Jesus wants to teach us. They train us to recognize when the Holy Spirit speaks to our thoughts, patterns, tendencies, and struggles. His lessons can come at any moment of the day when we cultivate the habit of paying attention.

“Lord, what do you want me to know about this burden/situation today?”

This simple prayer has opened many moments for learning from Jesus. Sometimes He gives insights in the moment, but often a thought will flash in my mind when I’m doing something else. Journaling and meditating on related Bible verses helps me process His insights more deeply.

Personal examples of learning from Jesus to live in soul rest.

I want to share a few ways Jesus helps me discover soul rest from the burdens that weigh me down. These are personal examples of what Jesus is teaching me about soul rest from of burdens that weigh me down.

Here’s my how: This simple prayer has opened many moments for learning from Jesus: “Lord, what do you want me to know about this burden/situation today?” Then I pay attention to what He brings to mind. Sometimes He gives insights in the moment, but often a thought will flash in my mind when I’m doing something else. Journaling and meditating on related Bible verses helps me process His lessons more deeply.

  1. I’m learning to let go of burdens that aren’t mine to carry. Jesus teaches me to differentiate between burdens I should carry and those I shouldn’t. I am often tempted to pick up burdens, to take responsibilities that belong to others. Sometimes I take on the weight of their emotions, decisions, or behavior. This can be a simple doing someone’s chore because I don’t want to hold them accountable. It can also include feeling stressed about things that are someone else’s responsibility.
  2. Jesus teaches me to entrust my loved ones to Him. I sometimes attempt to control outcomes or fix problems that are not mine to solve. As a wife and mom, I sometimes often worry about emotional well-being of my family. He helps me to give them space to make their own mistakes and learn from their own struggles. He reminds me that He is working in their lives, so I can rest.
  3. Jesus helps me let go of the shame of failure or disappointing people. He shows me when I fall into the old pattern of allowing hurtful words or opinions to define my identity. Unrealistic expectations of myself can create the burden of shame. He reminds me of the difference between truth and opinion. The Spirit helps me recognize when false beliefs creep into my thinking.
  4. Learning to trust Jesus with the results of my efforts brings rest and freedom. Jesus teaches me that my work is to trust and depend on Him for both motivation, process, and outcome of my work. I have control over my thoughts, motivations, decisions, and effort. The results and the outcomes belong to God.
  5. Jesus shows me the difference between a good desire and a God-given desire. There is only so much time and energy in a day and for a life. Trying to do too much is exhausting. Working at the wrong things or for the wrong reasons creates burn out. Navigating the gap between “should” and “called” is a journey of discovering the dreams God has placed in my heart.
  6. Relying on Jesus to fulfill my calling is daily process of following His leadership. It is a different way of working that feels like the joyful freedom of a child coloring outside the lines to create something unique and new. From beginning to end, I am learning to work in reliance and partnership with Christ.

Does this list of personal examples bring to mind burdens that are weighing you down? How can you trust and follow Jesus to experience the soul rest you need today? Consider a few of the following practical steps to put Matthew 11:28-30 into practice in your life.

Practical steps to experience more soul rest from burdens that do not need to weigh you down.

Soul rest not soul stress quote on white backgroundAre you responding to the invitation of Christ who offers to give you rest for your soul as you live and work with Him? Consider a few specific ways to let Christ teach you His way of soul rest:

  • Trust God with the people you care about.
  • Pray, “Lord, what do You want me to know about this burden/situation?”
  • What ways are you trying to control things you cannot control? How can you release them to God?
  • Are there situations or relationships where you are taking responsibility that isn’t yours to bear? Entrust them to Christ.
  • Ask Jesus to help you learn how to rest in pressure, conflict, or uncertainty.
  • Rest the outcomes of your efforts in God’s capable hands and release the stress of performance.

As Jesus teaches you how to rest, He will help with the burdens that weary your soul. Which of these suggestions do you most need apply today to discover what Jesus wants to teach you about soul rest?

Soul rest comes when you accept Jesus’s invitation to walk with you, help you, and teach you, every step of the way. Accepting Christ’s invitation means learning to live and work in partnership with Him, recognizing that He is the source of our strength and peace.

Leave a comment and share what your biggest need for soul rest is right now.

 

Takeaways from the Podcast Episode

The podcast and the blog post have some differences due to the podcast being a conversation. Join Larissa and I as we discuss this important topic of soul rest.

  • Soul rest is a continuous need throughout life.
  • Physical rest is important, but deeper soul rest is essential.
  • Jesus invites us to come to Him for rest.
  • Burdens can come from both labor and expectations.
  • Celebrating wins and closing chapters helps us find rest and transition well.
  • Self-expectations and worrying about outcomes can burden our souls and hinder our rest.·    
  • Spiritual disciplines are pathways to experiencing soul rest.
  • It’s important to trust God with our burdens and relationships.
  • Setting boundaries can help alleviate soul weariness.
  • Finding rest for our souls is essential for our well-being and spiritual growth.
  • Rest is a biblical principle, not a sign of laziness.
  • Building a relationship with Jesus is key to finding true rest.
  • Practical ways to rest include entrusting loved ones to God, short prayers for guidance, and writing reminders.

 

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Thrive in Your Soul with Holy Choices

A powerful encouragement for anyone who struggles to overcome anxiety, perfectionism, insecurity, or other mindsets that hold us back. Each of these challenges can become burdens for our souls. Grow in holiness without the pressure to have everything “just right.” Through gentle encouragement, biblical insights, and applicable ideas you can experience a deeper life of freedom in Christ. Transparently sharing my own struggles, I want to help you live from the reality of hope, healing, and holiness. Learn more about rest in the chapter entitled, “Moments to Rest.”

Check out the award-winning book, Holy in the Moment. Join Ginger Harrington for an encouraging look at making the most of daily choices to to trust God in the moment. Overcome anxiety, perfectionism, insecurity, and other flesh traits that hold us back. Find freedom in Christ one moment at a time!

My Favorite Books on Rest

I’ve benefitted from reading books on the importance of rest. Here are a couple of my favorites. Each of the following are affiliate links.

What I loved about this book was the way Saundra Dalton-Smith explains how we need different kinds of rest with practical suggestions for ways to best fit our rest to what we most need.

John Mark Comer builds a compelling case against the culture of hurry that characterizes our digital age. Detailing the cost to our emotional health and spiritual vitality, Comer gives us good cause to re-examine how we use our time and the important need for rhythms of rest.

I appreciate Buchanan’s through discussion on the importance of the Sabbath and how we can benefit from practicing intentional rest in our lives.

If you’ve benefitted from this article and resources, please share with a friend or on social media. This might be the encouragement someone deeply needs today. Help spread the message!

*This post includes affiliate links for books recommended in this post at no cost to you. Disclaimer: This post is written for spiritual growth and encouragement.

Faith

Lori Schumaker’s Faith Story of Adoption and Special Needs Parenting

Discover how Lori Schumaker found hope and peace through surrendering to God’s plan in her story of adoption, faith, and special needs parenting. Learn actionable steps to cultivate habits of hope and trust, even during life’s toughest challenges.

Life often takes us on unexpected paths, filled with challenges, grief, and moments of uncertainty. But as Lori Schumaker discovered, it’s in these very moments that hope and faith can shine the brightest. Lori’s story of adoption, special needs parenting, and deep trust in God’s plan is a testament to the transformative power of hope—especially when life feels overwhelming.

 

With over two decades of ministry experience, a background in education, and certifications in life and mental health coaching, Lori’s journey didn’t just inspire her blog Unveiling Hope—it also provided lessons in faith that resonate with people facing their own difficult seasons.

 

Through her story, Lori reveals that hope is more than just an emotional response; it’s an actionable habit built on surrendering our desires to God’s will. In her book, she shares, “Sometimes hope is scary. Hoping for the impossible feels a lot like letting go. It’s giving your heart a chance to hurt again. But it’s also giving your faith a chance to point to a God who is bigger than your mountains.”

 

In this article, we’ll explore the key insights and lessons Lori has learned through her journey, highlighting the power of hope, the necessity of surrender, and the habits we can cultivate to strengthen our faith during difficult times.

 

The Unexpected Path to Special Needs Parenting
 

Lori’s adoption journey was not without its heartaches. After being convinced that a particular little girl—Selah—was meant to be their daughter, Lori and her family faced devastating news. The child they had fallen in love with had been adopted by another family.

 

Lori likened this heartbreak to the grief of a miscarriage: “She may not have been growing in my belly. She may have been across the world, but I loved her as a mother.”

 

For months, Lori wrestled with God, questioning why this was happening. She had felt such a strong conviction from the Holy Spirit that this child was meant to be theirs. And then, in a miraculous turn of events, Lori learned that Selah had not, in fact, been adopted by another family. In what Lori describes as an act of divine intervention, they were able to adopt her daughter just before her file would have been labeled “unadoptable”.

 

Selah’s file initially stated that her special needs were limited to a speech delay and flat feet. These conditions seemed manageable, especially given Lori’s education experience.

 

What Lori didn’t anticipate, however, was that Selah had extensive special needs—something she initially didn’t feel equipped to handle. “I didn’t think I was prepared to be a special needs mom,” Lori reflects. “God had much different plans.” This realization eventually brought Lori to surrender her vision of what motherhood would look like and trust God’s plan for her daughter.

 

 
Embracing the Habit of Hope: A Foundation in Faith
 

One of the most profound lessons Lori shares is the idea that hope is not passive—it’s a habit we cultivate intentionally. For Lori, hope wasn’t just about feeling better during difficult moments. It was about consistently looking to God for strength, guidance, and peace, even when life seemed to be falling apart.

 

One of the Scriptures that provided Lori with strength during her adoption process was Psalm 30:5: “Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning.” Lori explains how this verse became a beacon of hope during what felt like a long, dark night in her life. “The night does seem darker; it feels more hopeless. But when the sun rises in the morning, there’s hope. God used this verse to give me courage and hope.”

 

Lori’s experience reminds us that hope is a daily practice of trusting that the morning will come, even in the darkest of seasons.

 
The Power of Surrender: Letting Go to Find Peace
 

A recurring theme in Lori’s journey is the concept of surrender—letting go of her personal desires and trusting that God’s plan, although different, is better. For Lori, this process of surrender was essential in finding peace amid the chaos and uncertainty of adoption and special needs parenting.

 

“When I finally surrendered and laid down my vision, my dream, that this was supposed to be our daughter, that’s when the miracles started unfolding,” Lori says. This surrender didn’t come easily. It involved releasing her expectations of what freedom, healing, and a typical life would look like for her daughter.

 

Surrendering to God’s will is something many of us struggle with, especially when our plans seem so clear in our own minds. But as Lori’s story shows, it’s in surrender that we allow room for God to work. By letting go, we free ourselves from the burden of trying to control everything and make room for the unexpected gifts and blessings of God.

 
Habits of Hope: Practical Steps to Cultivate Faith
Lori’s journey has given her more than just an inspiring story—it’s equipped her with practical habits of hope we can all apply. Here are some of the key habits she developed to maintain hope, even during great difficulty:

Stay in the Word: Lori emphasizes the importance of reading and reflecting on Scripture. Even when God feels distant, staying in the Word reminds us of His promises. Scriptures like Romans 8:28 (“All things work together for the good of those who love God…”) provide comfort and reassurance that God’s plan is always at work.
 Keep Praying: Prayer is not just a formality; it’s a way of partnering with God. Lori’s relationship with God was built through consistent prayer, even during seasons of grief and doubt. “If I want to hear from Him, I have to go to Him,” she explains. 
Cultivate Gratitude: Believe in the power of gratitude to shift our perspective. By intentionally focusing on the good, no matter how small, we can create more room for hope in our hearts. Lori encourages others to develop a habit of thanking God for small blessings, whether it’s a kind word, a blooming flower, or an unexpected moment of joy.
Seek Community: No one should go through life’s challenges alone. Lori found strength in her faith community and encourages others to do the same. Whether it’s through church, small groups, or trusted friends, having people to walk with you can provide much-needed support.
Persevere Through the Dark Nights: One of the biggest lessons Lori learned was the importance of perseverance. There will be dark nights when hope feels distant, but it’s important to keep moving forward, trusting that God’s joy will come in the morning.
Stay Faithful in the Small Things: Keep showing up for God, even when you feel abandoned. Lori finds strength through consistent faith practices, trusting that God is working behind the scenes.

 

Lori Schumaker’s story shares a powerful reminder that hope is more than just a feeling—it’s a habit we can cultivate, even in life’s most challenging moments. Sometimes God brings us to a situation where there’s a wall in front of us, and the only way through, the only doorway, is trust and surrender.

 

Through Lori’s hope story of adoption, special needs parenting, and surrender, we see the beauty of trusting God through every season. Her journey inspires us to develop habits of hope and surrender, knowing that with God, joy truly does come in the morning.

 

What areas of your life are you trying to control? How might surrendering them to God open the door to more peace and hope in your life?

 
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About Lori Schumaker
With a Master’s in Education, Life and Mental Health Coaching certifications, and over two decades of ministry experience, Lori Schumaker guides others toward unveiling their hope, healing their hearts, and moving forward with confidence. She provides a hope toolkit, inspiration, and teaching needed for this journey through her award-winning blog, Unveiling Hope. Lori also writes for various online publications and books, speaks at local and national events and podcasts, and hosts A Day of Hope retreats. Enjoy Lori’s free resources available on her website, as well as encouraging digital products. Connect with Lori on Facebook or Instagram to continue this conversation of hope.

 

 

 

Spiritual Growth

Build a Consistent Quiet Time: How to Delight in God’s Word Every Day

Learn practical tips to develop a daily quiet time with God, helping you shift from duty to delight. Create a consistent quiet time plan, explore key resources, and find joy in consistent devotion in this guide to a meaningful time in God’s Word. Read the article or listen to the podcast episode.

 

Finding the time and energy for a daily quiet time with God can be challenging in our busy lives. Between work, family, and other commitments, it’s easy to let this essential spiritual practice slip through the cracks. But God isn’t asking for perfection—He’s asking for your presence.

 

Quiet moments with God lead to a life filled with peace.

Shifting “Should Do” to “Want To” in Your Quiet Time
 

Moving from duty to delight begins with a willingness to show up. Be willing to start. Be willing for it not to be perfect. Be willing for God to lead you. Trust God to shape and transform your heart as you meet with Him regularly..

Psalm 1:2-3 says:
“But his delight is in the law of the Lord,
And in His law he meditates day and night.
He will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water,
Which yields its fruit in its season,
And its leaf does not wither;
And in whatever he does, he prospers. (NASB)
 

This passage illustrates the power of delighting in God’s Word, comparing the person who meditates on Scripture to a fruitful tree, deeply rooted and nourished by streams of water. I love this vivid picture of how regularly engaging with Scripture brings spiritual growth and vitality.

It’s not about checking off the “I read my Bible today’ box”. It’s about allowing that time to transform into a desire—to a “want to” rather than a “should do.”

 

For me, this shift happens when we stop viewing quiet time as a task to complete and start seeing it as an opportunity to meet with God. It’s a sacred time that nourishes our souls, much like the tree planted by the water in Psalm 1. Root your life in God’s Word, and watch your faith grow.

 
Practical Steps to Delight in God’s Word
 

Pray for desire: Ask God to stir a desire in your heart for His Word
Meditate on Scripture: Take time to reflect deeply, even on a single verse, letting it sink into your heart.
Find joy in the process: Approach your Bible reading with curiosity and openness, expecting God to speak to you.

 

When we approach our quiet time with this mindset, we begin to experience our quiet time as a life-giving habit of hope that refreshes our spirit and draws us closer to God.

 
A Quiet Time Plan Helps with Consistency
 

One of the most impactful things you can do for your quiet time is to make a plan. Without one, it’s easy to feel aimless or to put it off altogether. As my friend Larissa says, “The time of day doesn’t matter; consistency does.”

 

Finding a workable time in your schedule is key, whether it’s in the morning, during your lunch break, or in the evening. A consistent time helps build momentum and develop the habit of daily devotion.

 
How to create your quiet time plan:
 

 

Identify a time of day that works for you.
Find a quiet, comfortable space where you can minimize distractions.
Gather any materials you need ahead of time—your Bible, notebook, pens, etc.
Choose a short devotional to guide your reading.
Use a Bible reading plan to provide structure.
Spend a few moments in prayer, asking God to speak to you through His Word.

 

Adjust Your Quiet Time Routine as Needed
 

Whether you are new to the practice of having a devotional time with God or simply looking for ideas to refresh your routine, don’t overthink it. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by the idea of having the “perfect” quiet time.

 

For many of us, it’s tempting to wait for the perfect conditions to begin. You can always adjust and grow as you go. Begin where you are, even if that means just spending 10-15 minutes in prayer and reading. Over time, you’ll develop the habit, and you’ll naturally begin to crave more time with God.

 

Keep a running list of the topics or passages you want to explore next. This way, you always have a plan. If you find yourself floundering without a specific plan, consider starting with:

 

A Bible reading plan of daily passages (See examples below).
Reflective questions or prompts to guide your study (Get my free Spiritual Growth Pack for my favorite prompts and tips).
Writing down prayers or personal reflections to help solidify what you’re learning.

 
A 7-Day Bible Reading Plan
 

If you’re not sure where to begin with your quiet time, here’s a 7-day Bible reading plan to guide you:

 

Day 1: Psalm 1:1-3 – Delighting in the law of the Lord.
Day 2: Isaiah 55:6-11 – The power and purpose of God’s Word.
Day 3: Matthew 6:5-13 – Jesus teaches about prayer.
Day 4: Philippians 4:4-7 – Rejoice in the Lord always.
Day 5: Romans 12:1-2 – Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Day 6: James 1:22-25 – Be doers of the Word.
Day 7: Psalm 119:103-105 – God’s Word as a lamp to our feet.

 
Read Through a Book of the Bible
 

I usually work through a book of the Bible rather than read a selection of topical verses. Consider one of the Gospels or one of the New Testament Letters, reading a ½ chapter or so each day. Choose the pace that best fits your time and attention span. Here’s a reading plan for Philippians:

 
Day 1: Philippians 1:1-14

Theme: Thanksgiving and prayer for the believers at Philippi. Paul expresses gratitude for their partnership in the gospel and confidence in God’s work in them.

Day 2: Philippians 1:15-30

Theme: Paul’s perspective on suffering. He reflects on how his imprisonment has advanced the gospel and shares his desire to honor Christ in life or death.

Day 3: Philippians 2:1-11

Theme: Christ’s humility and example. Paul encourages the believers to have the same mindset as Christ, who humbled himself and was exalted by God.

Day 4: Philippians 2:12-30

Theme: Working out salvation and examples of faithfulness. Paul exhorts the believers to live out their salvation with reverence, and he commends Timothy and Epaphroditus as models of faithful service.

Day 5: Philippians 3:1-11

Theme: Warning against legalism. Paul contrasts his former life of legalistic righteousness with the surpassing worth of knowing Christ and the power of His resurrection.

Day 6: Philippians 3:12-21

Theme: Pressing on toward the goal. Paul encourages believers to press on in their faith, forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead.

Day 7: Philippians 4:1-13

Theme: Rejoicing in the Lord and contentment. Paul urges the believers to rejoice always and offers practical advice for peace. He shares his secret of contentment in all circumstances.

Day 8: Philippians 4:14-23

Theme: Gratitude for the Philippians’ generosity. Paul expresses his heartfelt thanks for the gifts they sent him and assures them that God will meet all their needs according to His riches in glory.

Helpful Quiet Time and Bible Study Tools
 

There are many tools and resource that can enrich our personal time with God. Study Bibles, devotional books, journal, and even digital resources can be valuable ways to deepen your time with God.

 

One helpful tip is keeping a running note or list of what you want to study next. As you read and reflect, God often highlights topics or verses for further study. Don’t let those moments slip away—write them down and revisit them during future quiet times.

 
Essential Tools for Quiet Time
 

Bible (Consider a study Bible for deeper understanding)
Journal or notebook for notes and reflections
Highlighters, pens, and post-it notes for marking key passages

 

There are a variety of digital resources I have found helpful. I don’t rely on these, but each has a place in helping me connect with God more deeply.

 
 Digital Resources to Enhance Your Quiet Time
 

Here are a selection of my favorite websites and apps:

Blue Letter Bible: A great tool for looking up original text definitions, providing deeper insight into specific verses.
BibleGateway.com: Easily compare different Bible translations. Try reading multiple versions side by side. Here’s an example of Psalm 1:2-3 in NASB, AMP, and The Message: BibleGateway – Psalm 1:2-3.
BibleHub.com: My go-to for viewing parallel translations. Use the “Parallel” tab for easy comparison. Example: BibleHub – Psalm 1:3.
Lexio 365 App: Offers audio reflective devotions using the Lectio Divina method for meditative Bible reading.
YouVersion: A diverse collection of reading plans and devotionals for all types of study.

 

You don’t need to use all these resources every day, but they can provide valuable insight when you want to dig deeper into a passage.

 
Grace for Your Quiet Time
 

It’s important to aim for consistency but also to walk in grace. Life can be unpredictable, and some days may not go as planned. If you miss your quiet time, that’s okay! There are days when I don’t get my quiet time in the morning, but I’ll circle back later in the day or make it up tomorrow.

 

God’s not up there with a stopwatch—He’s looking at the posture of our hearts.

 

Flexibility is essential, especially as we move through different seasons of life. What worked for you a year ago may not be what works today, and that’s perfectly fine. Give yourself the freedom to adjust your routine as needed.

 
Consistency Over Perfection
 

In the end, building a consistent quiet time isn’t about perfection—it’s about cultivating a heart that delights in God’s Word every day. As you apply these steps in your own life, remember that the journey is ongoing.

 

Some days will feel spiritually rich, while others may feel more ordinary—but the key is to keep showing up. Consistency allows room for growth, and over time, the desire to spend time with God will deepen into a delight and hunger for His presence.

Questions for Personal Growth
 

What’s one small step you can take today to create a more consistent quiet time?  Whether it’s finding a new space, choosing a Scripture passage, or simply starting with 10 minutes, God will meet you right where you are.

What time of day works best for me to spend focused time with God?
How can I minimize distractions and create a more peaceful space for my quiet time?
Am I giving myself enough grace and flexibility during this season of life?
What tools or resources could help deepen my Bible study

 

I’d love to hear what’s working in your quiet time and how God is moving in your life! Leave a comment to share your thoughts.

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For more practical tips, listen to our latest Habits of Hope podcast episode [link], where we discuss these topics in depth. Be sure to get my Spiritual Growth Pack, a free resource in the Deeper Life Collection for subscribers. Featuring tips, prompts, and prayers, this valuable resource will help you connect with God more deeply as you delight in His Word.
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Listening to God

Learn Six Important Truths About Listening to God

 Discover important truths about  listening to God with insights from Isaiah 50:4-5. Hearing God  in Scripture helps us to develop deeper faith as we learn how to listen to God. Experience the benefits of listening to God when reading the Bible to accelerate your spiritual growth. Enjoy this updated version of one of my most read posts on how to listen to God.
 

 
The Bible shows us God speaks in a variety of ways, including Scripture, the church, and circumstances. Listening to God is noticing when He brings truth, understanding, wisdom, guidance, conviction, instruction, or encouragement to our attention. Most of the time, Christians “hear” God through the spirit rather than with physical hearing. One of the roles of the Holy Spirit is to help us listen, perceiving when God is speaking to us. 
 
Practicing good listening skills makes us better listeners, both with God and others.
 
Good listening is a skill to cultivate. 
 
“You aren’t listening to me.”
 
From the kitchen my husband is telling me that the plumber is coming tomorrow at 3. I don’t really hear him, but somehow I still respond, “Hmm..okay.”
 
Half-listening is getting to be a bad habit. There, but not really present… How many times do you realize you are only half-listening? This can become a bad habit when we don’t give our full attention. 
 

 
The Challenge of Learning How to Listen to God
 
Do you long to hear God speak to you?
 
Learning how to hear God is an even greater challenge. Though there are some instances in Scripture when God speaks with an audible voice, but most often God speaks in less direct ways. We struggle with listening to God, often questioning the reality of His presence when we don’t feel like are hearing from God. Honestly, it can feel really frustrating.
 
Encouragement for Listening to God
 
Hearing God isn’t always as hard as you may think.
 
Before we go any further, let me encourage you with this simple truth. Hearing God doesn’t have to be a confusing or difficult experience.  If you’re like me, I’ve often wondered if God will speak to me. We can make a lot of false assumptions about hearing God. Have these thoughts ever come to mind when you’re trying to listen to God? 
 

Maybe I’m not doing something right, as if there is some magic formula to hearing God. 
I believe God speaks to some people, but I don’t think He will speak to me.
I’m too sinful for God to want to speak to me.
God has better things to do that talk to me.
I have to be a super-Christian or spiritual giant to God to speak to me.

 
Have you struggled with any of these thoughts?
What the Bible Says About Listening to God in Isaiah 40:4-5.
The Bible has many passages that teach us truths about listening to God. One of my favorite passages in the Bible that refers to hearing God clearly is in Isaiah 50:4-5 (NASB).
 

The Lord God has given Me the tongue of disciples,So that I may know how to sustain the weary one with a word.He awakens Me morning by morning,He awakens My ear to listen as a disciple.The Lord God has opened My ear,And I was not disobedient,Nor did I turn back.

 
Many times, God has used the truths in this passage to encourage me in the process of learning to hear God. This short passage has helped me to understand that God is intimately involved in helping us to listen. In fact, God is more interested in our regular practice of listening to Him than we realize.
 
I love the way the New American Standard Bible translates this passage with the words “He awakens My ear to listen as a disciple.” In this passage, the word listen means to hear, listen to, obey, and yield. 
 
Reading the passage in another translation can give us a fuller understanding of the meaning of this passage. Consider how these truths are expressed in the New Living Translation:
 
The Sovereign Lord has given me his words of wisdom,    so that I know how to comfort the weary.Morning by morning he wakens me    and opens my understanding to his will. The Sovereign Lord has spoken to me,    and I have listened.    I have not rebelled or turned away.
 
As you read the rest of this post, open your ears to important truths about listening to God. Which of the following truths contains a new thought? Which one encourages you in a special way? Notice what stands out to you as you read both the Scripture and the teaching. These are a few simple things to help you learn how to listen to God more clearly.
 

 
Six Important Truths about Listening to God.
 
Truth #1: The Holy Spirit enables us to listen to God productively.
 
God is speaking every time we open our Bible. Living and active, the Holy Spirit draws our attention to specific truths. He guides our understanding. He is the Spirit of Truth.
 
But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth… John 16:13.
 
When the Holy Spirit awakens our attention and opens our ears, listening brings insight and hearing moves us to action. Remember, the definition of hearing in this passage means to hear, to listen, and to obey. It’s important to respond to what we hear by applying it to our lives. 
 
When God awakens us, our sluggish thoughts perk up with increased understanding and discernment. What we glossed over rises above the page and a specific truth, instruction, or detail stands out.
 

 
Truth #2: When God speaks through His word, we are experiencing God.
Henry Blackaby writes, “Understanding spiritual truth does not lead you to an encounter with God; it is the encounter with God (Experiencing God p. 105). Many are hearing God more often than they recognize. As the Holy Spirit gives us understanding, we are both hearing and experiencing God.
 
But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.–John 14:26.
 
Truth #3: Practice helps us to recognize God speaking through His Word.
 
Listen to God daily through reading the Bible.
 
Morning by morning, God awakens me… Intimate and consistent, there is something very personal about these words. The Spirit can whisper gently, like a mother’s touch to awaken a sleeping child. We may expect burning bush experiences, but most often God speaks quietly through His word.
 
Without the Holy Spirit awakening us, we would not care, but roll over and go back to sleep. When we’re unresponsive, truth fades into the fog of a sleeping spirit and our lack of attention. Meaning is lost in the murmur of countless thoughts muttering in our minds.
 
Consistency makes a difference in hearing God.
 
Morning by morning echoes the constancy of a daily habit opening the day by listening to God. He nudges our attention. He opens our attention to hear, understand, and respond.
 
Hearing God isn’t a skill that is developed in a day–it is built over time.
 
This means we need to commit to regular time in God’s word, trusting the Holy Spirit to help us listen and obey.
 
Truth #4: Listening begins with God.
 
Isn’t it interesting that most of the activity in this passage is on God’s part? He gives. He awakens. He opens.
 
Our part is to respond. When we grasp this truth, we can let go of our stress about hearing God. He will help us learn to recognize when He is speaking to us. When we focus on responding to what God brings to our attention, we will hear Him more clearly. Develop the habit of asking God to open your ears to what He wants to impress on you when you read Scripture.
 
Embrace truth. Take it to heart so that it can begin to work in your thoughts, words, and actions.
 

 
Truth #5: Listening to God equips us to minister to others.
 
When we listen, we are prepared to encourage the weary– “That I may know how to sustain the weary one with a word.”
 
Not just any word. This isn’t a pat-your-hand-and-bless-your-heart kind of word. Who needs that?
 
Listening to God regularly, He brings a good word at the right moment, speaking to the true need of the heart. What we have heard, we often have an opportunity to share.
 
When we make a regular habit of deeply listening to God through His word, it comes back out in powerful ways that make a difference in the lives of hurting people.
 
God can also prompt us to encourage someone, often bringing them to mind with a purpose. Earlier today, God brought a friend to mind with a nudge to encourage and pray. This is another form of listening to God. I gave her a call. Turns out she was having a hard day and was deeply strengthened by my simple response to God’s prompting.

 
Truth #6: Listening to God changes us.
 
When God speaks, the Holy Spirit helps us to listen and learn. Reading, listening, and revelation merge like threads woven into a single cord. We embrace the truth He speaks, and we obey: “I was not disobedient, nor did I turn back.”
 
When the Holy Spirit speaks God’s truth, it has the power to change us–to turn us from rebellion to obedience. We let go of the frustrating cycles of trying to do it on our own, and obedience moves us forward.
 
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How does Hearing God change our lives?
 
God changes our lives as He opens our ears, awakens our attention, and we respond…one day at a time.
 
I expanded this blog post in a chapter of my book, Holy in the Moment. For more help and encouragement for hearing God check out the book! 
 
Which of these truths about listening to God encourages you most today?
 
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Practical Tip Sheets to Help You Grow Spiritually
I’ve put together some of my best tips for spiritual growth, included several pages to help you focus your attention to listen to God. Get a page of prompts you can use when reading the Bible to help you listen to God. You’ll also find helpful prayers and other resources to deepen your relationship with God. Click the button below to get your free Spiritual Growth Pack.
 

 
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15 Simple Ways to Overcome Distraction to Focus Your Attention on God (with printable)
Simple Ways Silence Can Deepen Your Faith
When You Long for God to Speak to You
Simple Ways to Meditate on God’s Word
8 Powerful Ways to Connect with God When He Is Silent

 

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10 Ways to Connect with God During a Busy Summer

Summer is synonymous with freedom and fun, but amidst the BBQs, family reunions, and road trips, our spiritual routines can falter. How do we maintain a strong connection with God when our usual routines are disrupted by summer fun? Lean into the joys of summer with practical ideas and resources to connect with God despite busy days. Discover ten easy ideas to help you connect with God during your busy summer days. Don’t miss the list of related resources at the end of this post!

 

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Is it just me, or is this year zipping by at lightning speed?  When my children were younger, summer was a time to ease off  busy school schedules filled with homework, sports, and activities. It was all about playdates, sleeping late, and afternoons at the pool. Ahh….what fun!

Nowadays, I still start the season with that laid-back summer mentality, even though reality paints a different picture. Summer vacation often means a short trip rather than three months off from school. Every year, I’m surprised when my relaxing summer turns out to be just as busy as the rest of the year–just in a different way. Is it wishful thinking or am I a slow learner? Probably a bit of both. Even so, I  do love summer. How about you?

Whether your schedule is relaxed or bustling, maintaining a connection with God in summer can be challenging. At the end of the the season, we want to have great memories with family and friends, but we also want to grow spiritually and delight in God. In this post, you’ll find a variety of ideas to enjoy your relationship with God this summer.

10 Ways to Connect with God in a Busy Summer

Travel plans, kids at home, and hosting visitors often disrupts normal routines. When I have a house full of guests for a few days, my schedule shifts (ahem, meaning devotions often don’t happen…). During times of travel, our pace is very different, making my regular devotional time in the summer more challenging.

Are you ready to partner with God to nurture your spirit and enjoy your relationship with God this summer? Change up your quiet time routine with fresh ideas to get into God's Word, enjoying time with God, even if you're on the go. Share on X A summer quiet time doesn’t have to be long to be meaningful.

Instead of an all-or-nothing approach, consider these flexible ways to spend time with God during the different rhythm of summer days: (For your convenience, I’ve added a handy list of resources and links at the end of this post).

 

  1. Short Inspirational Content: On your busiest days, read a few Psalms or Proverbs. These short readings can spark rich reflection and prayer. Meditate on brief passages from New Testament letters like Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians, or Colossians, which are packed with truths and instructions ideal for summer Scripture reading.
  2. Journaling Changes: Adapt your journaling habits for busy days. Try bullet-style journaling to quickly jot down thoughts, observations, or prayers. Start a “One Thing Journal” for the summer. Each day, write down a prayer, a verse, a reflective thought, or a quote. Keep it simple and brief, but take time to prayerfully meditate on that one thing. Use my free Grateful Moments journal to focus on one area of gratitude each day.
  3. Creative Devotions: Engage creatively with your devotions. Try Scripture art, Bible journaling with colored pens, stickers, or washi tape. Paint on a canvas or draw in a sketchbook while meditating on a verse. Coloring devotionals can also be a wonderful creative outlet. Check out links at the end of this post for ideas.
  4. Worship Music: Begin your quiet time with a worship song or listen to worship music during a prayer walk to change up the pace this summer. Here is a playlist of my favorite songs that help me worship and connect more deeply with God.   God and I have logged many miles enjoying these songs!
  5. Scripture Memorization: Memorize Scripture to engage with God on the go during summer travel. When at home, focus on learning a key verse. While traveling, review and reflect on what you’ve learned.
  6. Focused Bible Reading: Ask God to inspire you with a specific focus for your summer Bible reading. Consider themes such as the gift of joy, attributes of God, promises in Scripture, your identity in Christ, or prayers in the Bible. Choose a topical approach to make Bible study exciting and insightful during your busy summer (Be mindful to not take verses out of context).
  7. Team Up with a Friend: Select a book of the Bible or a devotional book and read along with a family member or friend. Plan discussions to share insights, favorite verses, or impactful quotes, which can lead to enriching conversations. These spiritual conversations can happen via text, phone, Facetime, or best of all, in person!
  8. Mobile Bible Apps: I’m not a fan of solely using Bible apps for spiritual growth. However, there are many good apps that can be a great option to connect with God during the summer or as an addition to your Bible reading. Explore quality Bible apps for an easy way to stay connected with God throughout the summer. I enjoy Lectio 365, which  offers short, focused sessions that include listening, reflection, commentary, and prayer in the format of Lectio Davina, also known as spiritual reading. Reimagining the Examen App has helped me learn to go deeper with God in prayer. It is based on the book by Father Mark E. Thibodeaux SJ and offers reflective questions to connect with God based on St. Ignatius’s 500-year-old prayer (affiliate link).
  9. Christian Book Challenge: Set a Christian book reading goal for the summer to inspire your faith. Aim for three main takeaways from each book to keep motivated. If you haven’t read Holy in the Moment: Simple Ways to Love God and Enjoy Your Life, add it to your summer reading list to help you cultivate a deeper relationship with God. This book is packed with practical ways to enjoy God, inviting him into every aspect of life. Learn more and get free discussion and journal guide for the book here.  Check out my favorite books to cultivate your relationship with God on the Resource Page of this website.
  10. Nature and Devotion: Nature has a unique way of refreshing our spirit and soul. Take your quiet time outdoors; whether it’s walking, hiking, or sightseeing, these activities can provide moments to connect with God and appreciate the beauty He has created.

 

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How Will You Connect with God During Your Busy Summer?

Which one of these ideas to enjoy your relationship with God appeals to you? Which idea best fits with the pace of your summer days? Now is the perfect time to delight in God as he speaks to your heart, strengthens your faith, and refreshes your spirit this summer. Choose a few ideas from this list to explore creative ways to weave devotion and worship into your seasonal activities, ensuring  spiritual growth doesn’t take a vacation while you do.

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Books to Enjoy Connecting with God this Summer

 

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Here are a few book recommendations that are geared specifically for this article. Each of these are favorites that have truly impacted my relationship with God, fostering deeper faith and delight in him. The last is one I’m currently reading, but it is great so far.

Devotional Books to Connect with God this Summer

These are a few of my favorite devotional books related to this post. Each of these insightful books will inspire you to delight in God and connect with him more deeply-even on vacation! (Hint: Use a Kindle or other e-reader or install a kindle app on your phone or ipad for ease of travel.) 

Journaling Products to Connect with God this Summer

Here are a variety of products to explore if you want to add a creative element to your journaling.

Resources from my Deeper Life Collection

The following items from The Deeper Life Collection are currently free for subscribers to my newsletter. Each of these products are practical and short to focus on a specific topic. I hope you’ll enjoy these resources this summer!

My Worship Play List to Connect with God this Summer

Well, there you have it. All my best tips and recs to connect with God on a deep level, even if your summer is busy! Bookmark, share, and save this post for easy reference through a wonderful summer! Friend, here’s to a fabulous summer of fun, great memories, and enjoying your relationship with God.

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10 Bible Verses to Encourage Moms When They Need It Most

Today I’m sharing a collection of powerful Bible verses that have encouraged me in 31 years of being a mom. Being a mom takes commitment, hard work, and plenty of love. A gift idea for Mother’s Day is to print the free downloadable list to pray for and encourage the moms of all ages in your life. Tuck this list into a card or gift and bless moms with the gift of encouragement this Mother’s Day or any day when they need it most.

 

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The Joy and Challenge Challenge of Motherhood

Motherhood is a joy and a challenge all wrapped together in a beautiful gift of life. Our kids mean the world to us and we work hard to be the best mom we can be. It takes commitment, hard work, and plenty of love to raise our children. We often need God’s encouragement in the parenting journey.

 

My first day of being a mom didn’t go well.

When my first child was born, I sat on the edge of the hospital bed. I held onto the industrial blue sheets as if that could keep me from falling into the unknown before me. I learned how to breathe through contractions, change a diaper, and give a bath in my pre-natal class. Somehow this didn’t seem enough qualification to take our new baby home!
 
Tears streamed down my cheeks. I was a mess of nerves and exhaustion after a 24 hour labor and rooming with 3 other moms and babies. (The joys of a small military hospital in the 90’s!).
 
I was reluctant to leave the hospital filled with baby experts.  I learned to identify his cry as I heard the nursery staff trying (again and again) to calm “Baby Caleb.”
 
“If they experts can’t get him to stop crying, how in the world can I?”  As my fear ramped up to the edge of a meltdown, my doctor walked in the room.
 
“What’s wrong? How are we doing today?” the doctor asked with an empathetic smile.
 
“Wwwhat if I break him? I don’t know how to be a mother,” the words came out with tremor in my voice.
 
The doctor said, “You’ve got the baby-blues right now. It’ll pass. You’re going to be a great mom.”

His words were a needed boost of confidence and encouragement I needed.

Do you know a mom who could use an encouraging word or a boost of confidence? 

Mom’s Need Encouragement 

 
This was my first taste of Mom Worry, and I hadn’t even left the hospital. 
 
Being a mother has been a wonderful, challenging, and joyful part of life. And I wouldn’t trade a moment of it. Well, maybe I’d trade in a few moments for a do-over.
 
These are the moments I needed encouragement for mistakes I made,  words I shouldn’t have said, and things I didn’t do.  Moments like the time I forgot to pick up my daughter at school. And art lessons as she recently reminded me. Oops, I forgot about that one.
Through the years, I encouraged my kids in many ways. But sometimes I needed encouragement too. There wasn’t always someone to encourage right when I needed it.  The duties of motherhood can deplete even the experienced mom. Over time, I learned to go to God for  encouragement. When we come to God with our weariness we receive rest for our souls and encouragement for our hearts. Many times God has pointed  me to Bible verses that have strengthened and encouraged me.  
 
Most of my Mom Worry came down to fear of failure. I worried that somehow I would mess them up or let them down.
 
It’s easy to slip into a level of fear-based parenting fueled with a dose of perfectionism. It can be easy it  to react to the problem of the day as if it is the end of the story. We worry how things will turn out. If our kids will be okay.
 

Mom’s need encouragement when we worry. . .

 

  • the baby will never sleep through the night
  • the toddler will never potty train
  • the siblings will never stop squabbling
  • the frustrated child will never learn patience and self-control
  • the disorganized student will never submit assignments on time
  • the disobedient kid will never obey
  • the antagonistic teen will never make better choices
  • the prodigal will never turn to God
 
Each of these concerns are important and burden a mother’s heart. As babies grow into adults the challenges our children face are bigger and the stakes are higher. Moms of all ages need encouragement to trust God with our children in the vital work of mothering. We value encouraging words from others, but receiving encouraging words and Scriptures from God strengthens when we need it most.
 
 

Encouragement for a Mother’s Heart

Being a mother takes commitment, hard work, and plenty of love. We often need words of encouragement in the parenting journey. As babies grow into adults the challenges our children face are bigger and the stakes are higher. We need encouragement to trust God with our children in the vital work of mothering. Today I’m sharing a collection of powerful Bible verses that have encouraged me in 28 years of being a mom. Print the free downloadable list to pray for and encourage the moms in your life.

You don’t have to be Super Mom.

At least not every day! I know there are days where you totally rock in your Mom Super Power! But then there are the days when we don’t.
 
Do you need biblical encouragement and deeper faith in your parenting? Have you had moments of worry that you will somehow “mess up” your kids because you aren’t perfect? Do your children struggle with challenges that keep you up at night?
I gave grace to my children in their challenges. Giving grace to myself? Not so much.
 
I expected that I should somehow be Super-Mom, able to jump over every childhood problem in a single leap. “Super-Mom Syndrome thrives on doing all the right things to build the perfect family.” I wrote about this struggle in the parenting chapter of Holy in the Moment.
When my kids face troubles and have deep needs, I need to remember I’m not alone. I need to entrust my burdens to God.
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This is one of my all-time favorite pictures of me with my kids. We were all so young! So much love and joy in being a mom-I. wouldn’t trade it for the world. This picture is from the days before digital cameras, so it’s a snapshot of a picture in my photo album.

Time really does go fast. Though the years went by quickly, there were many days that were long. Days when I needed strength and encouragement, both from my family and most importantly from my God.

God’s Encouraging Words for Moms

 

Prayer and scripture are a powerful source of strength, help, and encouragement.

Here are a selection of verses that  God encourage and deepen my faith when parenting is hard.  One by one, the God has spoken these strengthening words to my heart when I needed it most.

Though I didn’t hear God speak aloud, the Holy Spirit drew my attention to a specific Bible verses. It made all the difference. It still does! Though I am now an empty-nester, I will never age out of a need for encouragement when my kids face difficult times!

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Being a mother takes commitment, hard work, and plenty of love. We often need words of encouragement in the parenting journey. As babies grow into adults the challenges our children face are bigger and the stakes are higher. We need encouragement to trust God with our children in the vital work of mothering. Today I’m sharing a collection of powerful Bible verses that have encouraged me in 28 years of being a mom. Print the free downloadable list to pray for and encourage the moms in your life.

How about you? Do you need God’s encouragement today?
 

10  Bible Verses to Encourage Moms When You Need it Most

Print this list to pray for the moms in your life or for your own parenting. The best Mother’s Day gift is the gift of prayer and encouragement. Though this post is written in honor of Mother’s Day, these powerful verses can encourage us all when we need it most!

Encouragement when you struggle to trust God:

Trust in the Lord with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He will make your paths straight. –Proverbs 3:5-6

 

Encouragement when you are overwhelmed:

“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
I have called you by name; you are Mine!
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you;
And through the rivers, they will not overflow you.
When you walk through the fire, you will not be scorched,
Nor will the flame burn you.
For I am the Lord your God,
The Holy One of Israel, your Savior . . . –Isaiah 43:1-3

Encouragement when you need peace:

The steadfast of mind You will keep in perfect peace,
Because he trusts in You. –Isaiah 26:3

Encouragement when you feel alone and need help:

For He Himself has said, “I will never desert you, nor will I ever abandon you,” so that we confidently say, “The Lord is my helper, I will not be afraid.
What will man do to me?” –Hebrews 13:5-6

Encouragement when you need a fresh start:

The Lord’s acts of mercy indeed do not end,
For His compassions do not fail.
They are new every morning;
Great is Your faithfulness. –Lamentations 3:22-23

Encouragement when you need confidence:

For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work among you will complete it by the day of Christ Jesus. –Philippians 1:6

Encouragement when you need more love to give:

And may the Lord cause you to increase and overflow in love for one another. . . –1 Thessalonians 3:12

Encouragement when you’re not sure what to pray:

Now in the same way the Spirit also helps our weakness; for we do not know what to pray for as we should, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words; and He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. –Romans 8:26

Encouragement when you worry:

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. –Romans 8:28

Encouragement when you need to keep going:

Not that I have already grasped it all or have already become perfect, but I press on if I may also take hold of that or which I was even taken hold of by Christ Jesus. Brothers and sisters, I do not regard myself as having taken hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. –Philippians 3:12-14

 

A collection of powerful Bible verses that have encouraged me in 28 years of being a mom. Print the free downloadable list to pray for and encourage the moms of all ages in your life. Give the gift of encouragement this Mother's Day. Being a mother takes commitment, hard work, and plenty of love. We often need words of encouragement in the parenting journey. As babies grow into adults the challenges our children face are bigger and the stakes are higher. We need encouragement to trust God with our children in the vital work of mothering.

A Personal Mother’s Day Gift Idea to Encourage the Moms in Your Life

 

Print this list to tell yourself the Truth, believe the Truth, and pray the Truth to encourage your heart today. Click here or on the image below for a printable version of these verses to tuck into a Mother’s Day card or pray for the  moms in your life.  Words of encouragement for moms are meaningful.

Make a meaningful Mother's Day craft to encourage the moms in your life. An Encouragement Kit with Bible Verses and personal notes will a gift that will keep giving. Free printable list of Scripture verses to encourage mom.

 

Enjoy my gift and my Happy Mother’s Day wishes to you, no email needed!  Use this list for a fun Mother’s Day craft idea. Write or paste each verse on an index card and decorate with markers, crayons, or stickers. Add more index cards with personal affirmations and expressions of love for mom to make a meaningful Mother’s Day gift she won’t forget! Tie them up with a bow and a tag that reads: Mom’s Encouragement Kit. 

 

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Honored to Be a Military Wife This Memorial Day

Memorial Day is for honoring our fallen military members. As a military spouse the responsibility that comes with freedom has been a very real part of our lives with 24 years of service to our nation. In those years we have been blessed with live and work in the company of hero’s, both those who wear the uniform and those who support them.

We have rejoiced at homecomings and celebrated promotions, and we have grieved friends we have lost. Today we remember the fallen with grateful hearts and a renewed commitment to uphold the great responsibility that comes with freedom.

The values and experience of military service have shaped our family in countless ways. This Memorial Day I am honored to be a military wife as we honor all who have given their lives for our freedom.

I never planned to be a military wife.
“Did I ever tell you that I want to go into the Marine Corps?” I was shocked silent. I had no words to respond to the young man I was dating.

Little did I know that this question was God’s way of introducing major directional change. This startling question came from Mark, a fella I’d been dating for a just a few months.

All my if-this-works-out daydreams had never covered even a thought of active duty military life. Though my dad served in the Navy in World War II, I knew nothing of military life.

And I didn’t want to.

I wanted to stay put in one place and live a predictable life. I had no real-time context for military life and the journey of a military wife.

Was this guy going to suddenly turn into Rambo?
“Are you going to get a tattoo,” was the first thought that came to my mind as I tried to envision my guy as a Marine. All I could think of was the worst that Hollywood movies had to offer.

I wasn’t quite sure about this whole military service thing. A few months later, while my fella was gritting it out in OCS, Officer’s Candidate School, a co-worker asked if we were talking about marriage.

“I don’t know. He’s joined the Marine Corps.” I said this like he had a disease. My co-worker reminded me that I would be marrying the man, not the job.

“I don’t think that’s true with the Marine Corps. If I marry this man, I am also marrying into the Marine Corps and all that entails.”

Welcome to the military.

Time passed, and my once-civilian boyfriend became my lean-and-green Marine husband. I’ll never forget the swordsman at our wedding who whacked me on my backside with a drill-instructor-firm, “Welcome to the Marine Corps, Mrs. Harrington!”

This was the first time I was addressed by my new name.
Being a military wife is a calling and a blessing.
Thirty years later I can say without a single regret that I am honored to be a military wife. Being a military wife has been both a calling and a privilege as I have  supported my husband throughout his military. Military life has shaped our family life in countless ways. I wouldn’t trade this life of honor, sacrifice, and service.
We are all better for it.

The values of a military family.

Commitment to God, country, and duty.
Integrity and leadership.
Camaraderie and faithfulness.
Sacrifice and honor.
Courage and strength.
Faithfulness and loyalty.

These are just a few of the core values that permeate and sustain the military family. Though I may have been a reluctant military girlfriend, I am so proud of my husband and all that he has given to both our nation and our family.
Honoring the fallen on Memorial Day.
Today, I know that I’m not alone in gratitude for those who given their lives in  service to our country.

Several years ago, my husband retired. Maybe Memorial Day seems like a strange time to reflect on military retirement. But here is a personal glimpse of the fear of loss that is part of the military wife experience.

As they placed the folded flag into his hands, I exhaled a soul-sigh of relief that he had survived 24 years of service healthy and whole. I have a deep gratitude that my Marine survived deployments, training exercises, and wartime service.

I hadn’t realized that somewhere deep inside, I had been holding my breath.  For 24 years a faint white-noise  hummed in my heart. An often ignored fear of what could happen if… had become so part of life that I often didn’t notice it.

 

I know through personal experience many times over that too many who serve in our military do not come home. I have mourned with military wives who receive a flag with grief of untimely loss rather than the joy of celebration. I am currently walking alongside a dear friend who  lost her Marine after a long battle with cancer due to exposure to toxic environments in military service. Though this kind of loss is not at the heart of Memorial Day, it is a loss no less.

We also know friends who have sustained physical and emotional wounds. The numbers of service members who suffer from PTSD isn’t fully documented as many are hesitant to seek help. I know more friends than I can count who have been impacted by PTSD.  In 2019, “the rate of suicide among active-duty troops was 25.9 per 100,000 troops,” and according to the Military Times, “Military suicides have increased by as much as 20 percent this year compared to the same period in 2019,”

Too many military veterans do not have the opportunity to celebrate retirement with family and friends. My heart breaks for each one of these families both past and present. As a military spouse the responsibility that comes with freedom has been a very real part of our lives with 24 years of service to our nation. In those years we have been blessed with live and work in the company of hero’s, both those who wear the uniform and those who support them. We have rejoiced at homecomings and celebrated promotions, and we have grieved friends we have lost. Today we remember the fallen with grateful hearts and a renewed commitment to uphold the great responsibility that comes with freedom.
A chance to give back by mentoring Marines.
We are in a new season of life this Memorial Day. My husband has recently transitioned into military ministry as a missionary to Marines. This is a beautiful and long-awaited opportunity to give back to the military. community by discipling young Marines. We were very blessed to have wonderful mentors pour into our lives our first few years of military service and early marriage days. Encouragement, wisdom, love, and support gave us a mindset and a spiritual foundation that shaped both of us. The character and faith formation God began in these pivitol years provided a basis for a strong marriage, family, and military career.

For the past ten years, my husband has been waiting in faith for God’s timing to fulfill the calling to serve as a missionary to Marines. In January, he took a position with Tun Tavern Fellowship (TTF), a disciple making ministry started seventeen years ago by a dear friend and mentor, Chris Braddy. The ministry is named after the tavern that is considered to be the birthplace of the Marine Corps on November 10, 1775.

It is a joy and honor to help shape the next generation of Christian leaders in the Marine Corps. CBN recently did a wonderful article and video highlighting the need, importance, and impact of Tun Tavern Fellowship! You can watch the video here:

Isn’t that a great video?! We would love to have you on our support team. Please leave me a comment or a message on this website if you’d like more information.
This Memorial Day.
Please join me in remembering those who have sacrificed their lives serving our country.

A military quote that rings in my heart is this truth: We are home of  the free because of the brave. This Memorial Day, let us remember the importance and sacrifice of our nation’s military members.

 

We all owe a debt of gratitude, honor, and respect for the brave men and women who have given the great sacrifice of life to protect our nation. These are the ones we honor with grateful hearts today.

[tweetthis hidden_hashtags=”#memorialday”]Truly we are the home of the free because of the brave.[/tweetthis]

 

Do you have a military member you honor today? Leave a comment as a way to share your gratitude.

 

When this post was originally written, I had no idea that God would give me an opportunity to help create a vibrant ministry for military women and wives.
About Planting Roots: Strength to Thrive in Military Life
Military women and wives desire connection, stability, hope, and joy. Dealing with multiple moves, frequent deployments, and questions regarding careers, we still must continue to manage careers, develop relationships, build marriages, and raise children. Usually far from family, these challenges can seem insurmountable to accomplish on our own and finding what we need almost impossible.

Planting Roots has a vision that military women and wives will be deeply rooted in Christ, no matter where they find themselves. In order to fulfill this vision, our goal is to build a community providing connection and biblical foundation, challenging each other to find our stability in Christ and His purpose for us in the places we are planted.

We are Planting Roots.

 

 

Embrace Truth

Invited to Come to God with Confidence

What does it mean to come with confidence to God? The meaning of Hebrews 4:16 reveals God’s invitation to trust and rely on Him, especially in our problems, failures, sins, and challenges. This verse shares the truth that God welcomes us with mercy, grace, and help as we come to Him with our needs. As we cultivate the spiritual habits of prayer and trust, we develop a deeper relationship with God that is based on confidence in God rather than in ourselves. 
 

Do You Come to God with Confidence?
Have you ever stood at the doorway of a room full of people who seem out of your league?

I’ve stood on the outside looking in, longing to turn around and leave. I worried that I wouldn’t be accepted. Feeling like I didn’t belong, I worried I wasn’t qualified to be in that place. Sometimes we can feel this way with God.
 
We can experience a similar hesitancy when it comes to entering God’s presence or pursuing a deeper relationship with Him. And yet, God invites us to come to Him with confidence that we will be received. That we will find help and acceptance.

 
Maybe you have experienced this lack of confidence that can hinder your participation or progress if you allow fear to hold you back. When you seek God, do you come with confidence? Or do you hesitate, thinking you need to clean yourself up or get your act together before coming to God?

 
Contrast this fear of rejection with the way a child comes into the house, entering with the joy and confidence of coming home. She enters with the privelege of a member of the household. She know’s her father will be glad to see her. And she knows she belongs for she’s part of the family
 

Draw near to God with confidence.

God invites us into a deeper relationship by the power of the Holy Spirit in a variety of ways. In our last post, we reflected on the invitation to come with the faith of a child. In this post, we explore coming to God with confidence.
Come with confidence–this is another precious invitation to deepen our relationship with God and experience grace, mercy, and help as we prayerfully approach God. The Bible shows us that Jesus understands the challenges we face-He sympathizes with our weaknesses. This is one of the reasons we can lay down our fear to approach God with confidence. 

For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin. Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Hebrews 4:15-16 NASB

I often read Bible passages in several translations in order to benefit from a variety of words used in translating the content. One of my favorites is the Amplified Bible because it “amplifies” the message by inserting meaning and details into the verses for a fuller understanding of the text. Consider the way the Amplified Bible expands our understanding of Hebrews 4:16

Therefore let us [with privilege] approach the throne of grace [that is, the throne of God’s gracious favor] with confidence and without fear, so that we may receive mercy [for our failures] and find [His amazing] grace to help in time of need [an appropriate blessing, coming just at the right moment].
Hebrews 4: 16 AMP

Isn’t it a wonder to embrace the truth that the Spirit beckons us come with confidence enter the intimacy of the holy place, his direct presence? During the days of the Old Testament, only the high priest could enter the Holy of Holies one time a year. But now, God invites us to come boldly. To enter is a progressive coming closer, committing to go all in, to be fully present with God as well as welcomed by Him.
I don’t know about you, but when I’m in a mess or need help, my soul breathes a sigh of relief to receive help–a blessing that fits my challenge and at the time it is needed. Indeed, this is a huge privilege as God’s grace comes in many forms.
 
Christ-confidence rather than self-confidence.
 
Come to God with confidence, reliance, and trust. Too often, we get stuck stirring up self-confidence, trying to solve problems, pulling ourselves up by the bootstraps, or attempting to control outcomes in our favor.  In this passage, confidence is based on Christ’s sacrifice, merits, faithfulness, and invitation. It is Christ-confidence not self-confidence.

Therefore, brothers and sisters, since we have confidence to enter the holy place by the blood of Jesus,  by a new and living way which He inaugurated for us through the veil, that is, through His flesh, and since we have a great priest over the house of God, let’s approach God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water. Let’s hold firmly to the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. . .   Hebrews 10:19-23 NASB

God invites us to come confidently without fear of punishment—for it is in His presence that we receive deeper faith, forgiveness of sin, healing of wounds, and restoration. Sometimes I need the reminder of what an incredible privilege it is to simply come to God. Our confidence and our hope stands firm when it is built on God’s promises and His faithfulness.

What a blessing to be able to come to God, to seek His help at any time. It is in our coming that we receive what we need: forgiveness, cleansing, washing, assurance, mercy, grace, help. . . We don’t have to get through gatekeepers, purchase a membership fee, or make an appointment. 

God’s invitation to enter fully by His Spirit is based on His love and faithfulness and on the sacrifice of Christ.

We enter God's presence by permission not by performance. It isn’t based on our good religious track record, doing the right things to please God. Share on X
 

You are invited to receive.

The Holy Spirit invites us to find our deepest needs met in Him—to be accepted, valued, loved, and secure. To be fully known and to fully know our true selves free from guilt and shame.

Maybe you already know this truth, but there is a fresh blessing for each of us when we appreciate anew the sacred invitations of God.

For it is by His Spirit that we push past the clamor of conflict, the stress of busy lives, and the weariness of too many burdens, giving God our full attention. It is the gentle whisper of the Holy Spirit who reminds us to seek God in it all–the good, the busy, the bad, and the broken.
 
Have you accepted God’s invitation to come with confidence?
Think about a time you have been invited to join a friend for dinner. You’re planning to go. You get ready. You are on your way.
Can you enjoy the meal with your friend if you don’t show up? If you stand outside and don’t walk through the door. You might be able to smell the meal, but you can’t experience the good food if you aren’t present. You might be able to see pictures of the dinner if someone posts food pics on social media, but that’s not the same as tasting the food for yourself. 
In a similar way, we will not experience for ourselves grace, mercy, and help for our needs if we don’t show up with God.

Turn to him with our needs.
Draw near to him in our failures.
Pray about our problems.
Trust him to fulfill the promise in this verse.

Come to God with confidence in your moments of need.
Build habits of hope in your life by trusting Jesus in all of life’s moments. Consider a few of the following times we can turn to Jesus with our attention, faith, prayer, and trust*: 

Seek the comfort of Jesus in sad moments.
Repent from sin in your blow-it moments.
Run to Jesus in resentful moments.
Search out the root of discouraged moments.
Receive peace in stressful moments.
Release the hidden expectations and hurt of disappointed moments.
Cry out to Jesus in lonely moments.
Ask for strength to forgive in outraged moments.
Hold fast to God’s faithfulness in hopeless moments.
Cling to Christ in dejected moments.

List adapted from my book, Holy in the Moment, p. 126 (affiliate link).

Are you coming to God? With confidence? Do you believe He will welcome you with mercy and grace to help in your time of need? If not, maybe this is the place to start. Come to God with your questions, fears, and challenges to trust that his mercy, grace, and help is FOR you. 

Yes, Friend, this is your moment to come to God with confidence.

Come boldly. Come daily. Make it a habit that your first response is to come to Jesus with what’s on your heart.

Cherish this invitation to settle your heart in His loving presence.
A deeper relationship with Jesus is experienced as we turn to Him with confidence in His grace.
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*This is an updated post from 2019. It is also part of my By His Spirit retreat content. You can watch the first session here. 
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Is Your Spirit Healthy? And Why Spiritual Health Makes a Difference.

Discover why it is important to attend to your spiritual health and happiness by investing in your relationship with God. Time spent listening to God through His Word is a key practice to develop a healthy spirit as well as a deeper sense of contentment in your life. Guest writer, Keon Lindsey, shares key messages from God’s Word with four simple tips to nurture your spiritual health.

* Keon and I are teaming up to offer a copy of our books. Don’t miss the book giveaway at the end of this post!

Is Your Spirit Healthy?
 

Today there is a near continuous stream of headlines about physical and mental health ailments and concerns.  Yet, if humans are spirit, mind, and body, why are so few talking about the poor state of our spiritual health?  It is time to think about our spirits, the part of us that will live forever, because it is becoming clear that our problems are linked.  How so?

 

When you are physically sick do you feel happy?  Or when you are emotionally down do you feel physically strong?  The answer to both questions is, no.  So, why should you feel great if you are not spiritually healthy?  In reality, you can’t.  That’s why a 2024 Gallup poll found “less than half of Americans say they are ‘very satisfied’ with the way things are going in their personal lives.”

 

Our inner unhappiness is why we always want more.  We try to fill our spiritual needs with things that make our bodies and minds happy.  More money, another party, another boy or girlfriend, a better job, a bigger house, more recognition, more fun – this does nothing for our spirits.  We spend our lives chasing more and are still unsatisfied because only one thing can satisfy our spirit.  What is it?

 
The Secret to a Healthy Spirit
 

The secret to spiritual health and happiness is a personal relationship with our Creator.  The Lord made us to fellowship with Him.  However, as a society and as individuals, we have turned away from Him, desiring to be our own boss.  Yet, history, science, and statistics show that humans have never been and can never be happy without God.  Have you realized this?  When things are quiet, do you feel a need for something more?

 

Thankfully, the Lord deeply cares for us humans even though many have largely ignored Him.  In fact, He has written a love letter to humanity filled with messages to meet our spirits’ needs.  This love letter is, of course, the Bible.  Over the years, I’ve enjoyed reading it and have come to appreciate many of the messages God has for us in the Bible.  Here are a few to consider:

 
Biblical Wisdom Builds Spiritual Health
 

God wants us to be wise.

Why should we care about God’s wisdom?

 
There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death. (Proverbs 14:12)
 

Often what seems right to a human, or earthly wisdom, is shortsighted. It only looks at the here and now instead of the long-term. Human wisdom says, “Get all you can, however you can, as fast as you can so that you can be happy, because life is all about you.” Does that sound selfish? It is and is an unfulfilling way to live. Heavenly wisdom is good and leads to life.

 
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom,

And the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.

For by [wisdom] your days will be multiplied,

And years of life will be added to you. (Proverbs 9:10-11)
 

This is why the famous verse in Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us to trust God’s wisdom and not our own. We need God’s wisdom and guidance to make decisions, experience God’s will, and enjoy spiritual health.

 
Trust in the Lord with all your heart
    and lean not on your own understanding;
In all your ways submit to him,
    and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Trust in God’s Power is a Vital Part of Spiritual Health
 

God wants us to know He is powerful. The most obvious characteristic of God is His power as, by definition, a deity must have supernatural power. Then why does the Lord take time to tell us of His power and abilities? There is a direct relationship between our understanding of God’s power and how we live. When we lack trust in God’s power, our spiritual health suffers.

 

So, what does He say about power?

 
God has spoken once,

Twice I have heard this:

That power belongs to God. (Psalm 62:11)
 

The Lord said power belongs to Him. He is the source of strength, authority, and ability. For example, God has the power to create.

 
All things were made through Him, and without Him nothing was made that was made. (John 1:3)
 

God not only made everything, He exercises power over nations (Psalm 2) and rulers. The Bible states the following truth:

 
The Most High rules in the kingdom of men,

Gives it to whomever He will,

And sets over it the lowest of men. (Daniel 4:17b)
 

The Bible records many examples of the Lord’s power, such as the healings of Jesus, so that we can know He is the Almighty. What does this mean for us? Since He is the Creator, we belong to Him.

 

Since He is the greatest, we are wise to listen when He speaks.
Since He is the King of kings, we should obey His laws.
Since He is the Almighty, He has the power to do what He says, so we can trust him!

 

Therefore, when Jesus says He can forgive sins and take you to Heaven, we can believe it!

 

These are just two of the 30 messages I enjoyed researching and writing about in my book Have You Heard from God Lately? As mentioned earlier, the Bible has wonderful and important messages from the Lord to you. Reading and embracing God’s messages in the Bible gives us the truth we need to grow spiritually healthy as we cultivate a deeper relationship with God. (Affiliate link).

 
Our Relationship with God is the Foundation of Spiritual Health
 

So how do we grow a personal relationship with God to become spiritually healthy?  Make time for the Lord.  If you never spend time with a person, you can’t become friends. The same is true with God.  Block off  time each day to be away from distractions so you can communicate. Start with 10-15 minutes, and as you develop the habit and experience the joy, increase the time as you can. Consider four helpful tips to invest in your relationship with God and increase your spiritual health:

1. Calm down and focus your thoughts. This can be the hardest part, since society and social media has trained us to go, go, go. Purposely give God your attention instead of thinking about all that must be done today.

2. Let God talk – open the Bible and read it. A Bible reading plan can be very helpful so you are not going to random verses and confusing yourself. Maybe start with the New Testament and read through it 1-3 chapters a day.

3. Listen to God – think about what you have read. What did the Bible say? What was going on in the passage? Did anything stand out to you? Can you see the application for your life? Did it raise questions? If so, or if anything is confusing, write it down and plan time to research or ask for help with the topic. You will find that to be very rewarding and increase your desire to share time with the Lord. Learn more about listing to God in Ginger’s excellent article, “Learn Six Important Truths About Listening to God

4. Talk to God – prayer isn’t complicated, it is just talking with God. Ask Him to help you understand or see if there is an application for what you just read. Tell Him thank you for the truth or promise that you saw in the Bible and ask for faith to believe and apply it. Of course, the Lord cares about your daily life, so let Him know what is weighing on your mind and ask for guidance or assistance.

 

These are four basic steps to increase your spiritual health and happiness, which will impact your satisfaction in life. Isn’t it amazing that God made you to be with Him and He wants to be with you? Take a minute now to tell the Lord, thank you, that you don’t have to chase money, fun, or more of anything.  You can simply come to the Lord who is so powerful that He can love and care about you. . . and your spiritual health!

 
About the Author
Keon Lindsey is a family man, Christian Author, former Business Consultant, Project Management Professional, and Navy Veteran with a variety of life experiences.  He has earned a Black Belt in American Freestyle Karate, worked for himself, flown small airplanes and large jets, and has a master’s degree in Aeronautical Engineering.  Yet, what brings him lasting satisfaction is studying and sharing God’s Word, the Bible.  Keon hopes that his writings inspire you to seek that great satisfaction as well. Investigate specific messages from the Lord for you with his new book:

Have You Heard from God Lately? 30 Messages from Heaven for You

 Connect with Keon at https://KeonLindsey.com

Be sure to enter to win a copy of Keon’s latest book at the end of this post!

A Note From Ginger
I hope you’ve enjoyed this post on cultivating a healthy spirit from my friend, Keon Lindsey. My husband and I met Keon in 2001. At the time, both Mark (my fella) and Keon were attending the Navel Post Graduate School in Monterey, CA. We’ve stayed connected through the years. Interestingly, both Keon and I were called to writing ministries. When you develop your relationship with God and seek His wisdom for your life, you never know where He will lead. It is a joy and adventure to walk with God in discovering and developing our calling.

I had the pleasure of reading an early copy of Keon’s book, Have You Heard from God Lately? 30 Messages from Heaven to You. Keon does an excellent job of encouraging  readers to understand that the Bible is God’s Word, His personal message of love and salvation to each of us. With candor and clarity, Lindsey packs each chapter with Scripture, insights, and thought-provoking questions. He inspires and challenges us to listen, believe, apply, and share God’s messages of love and salvation. With an organized and thorough overview of Scripture, Lindsey clearly shares the message that God loves us and that Jesus died to save us. This book will inspire mature Christians to deeper accountability, but will also provide many with answers to questions they have about God.

 

 Leave a comment a comment to share what you’ve been reading lately to nurture your spiritual health! I can’t wait to see what you are reading and what you like about it.

We have a Book Giveaway!!
Keon has generously offered a copy of his book to us! To join the celebration of his book release, I’m throwing in a copy of Holy in the Moment for added value and fun! We will pick a winner on March 22. (Must live in the continental US to win). 

Enter the form below to win your copy of Have You Heard From God Lately? + Holy in the Moment!! (Affiliate links at no cost to you).

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