If I Get it All Together, What if I Mess it Up?
The lights are bright blinding me in the harsh glare. I step forward to impress and wow the audience with my solo. It feels good to have a solo after several runs of chorus work.
Ready to sing, I step forward. . .
right off the stage.
My big moment.
The horrified, collective intake of breath from the audience seems to stop time.
I had it all together. One misstep and I land in a heap on the floor. Fortunately, nothing but pride was injured.
If I get it all together, what if I mess it up? Take a step too far, misjudge the gap? What then?
We’ve all had our messy moments.
- Relationship messes.
- Work messes.
- Financial messes.
No area of life is immune from the possibility of unraveling our best efforts to get it all together.
Work hard.
Mess it up.
Work harder.
We can stay on this performance treadmill that can wear away the soul. Or we can learn new ways to think and respond.
Change your perspective.
[tweetthis]How will your perspective change if you begin to think the way God thinks, seeing what He sees about you?[/tweetthis]
Wisdom is the understanding of how God does things.
Freedom from the pressure to get it all together by the world’s definition of success comes when we learn to live in reliance on Christ.
Some of us need to stop living out of our mistakes, failures, wounds. Others need to stop relying on self-effort to achieve success and prove value.
Let God change the way you think. As He transforms our thoughts we begin to understand that life with Christ isn’t a pass/fail route to spiritual growth.
. . . be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth.–Ephesians 4:23-24
God’s already dealt with our sin.
He made Him who knew no sin to be sin on our behalf, so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.–2 Corinthians 5:17
In Christ, God isn’t simply trying to get us to act right. All of our sin has been forgiven. Now He’s dealing with our righteousness, holiness, establishing right in us.
When we really get hold of this truth for daily life, we can let get off the performance-based system of getting it all together.
We can find rest for our souls, acceptance for our insecurity, strength for our weakness, and grace for our needs.
Do you trust the life of Christ in you?
[tweetthis]Listening to your soul-talk is a concrete way to gauge what you functionally believe. [/tweetthis]
Do you have yourself on a performance-based system of righteousness, always on stage before God? Is holiness a role that you play, trying to be the good Christian who has it all together?
Or have you learned the language of grace that speaks truth to yourself?
- I am righteous.
- I am loved and accepted.
- I don’t have to prove my worth.
- I can trust God for the results.
- I can trust the Holy Spirit within me to guide me.
Do you talk the same way about yourself that God does? Good question, isn’t it?
It’s easy to look like we’ve got it all together on the outside but live in self-condemning, shame-based insecurity on the inside.
Today is your day to release your grip on the get-it-all-together life. Discover anew the fresh faith that is yours when you’re open to what God wants to do in your life.
Letting go of self enables us to receive more from God.
Offering our lives to God we can let go of our. . .
- fear and receive confidence for the future.
- needs and receive his abundant supply
- wants and receive God’s desires
- shame and receive the grace of God’s unconditional love
Friend, as long as we hang on to this get-it-all-together pressure of achieving righteousness with our self-effort, we live with the fear of messing it up.
Getting it wrong.
Disappointing God.
We hold on because of fear; we let go because of love.
As long as we hold on to the standards we’ve set for ourselves, the less we can receive the gift of righteousness and the abundance of grace that is ours in Christ. (Romans 5:17)
Grace is so much more than undeserved favor, a common definition.
Take time to receive the wonder that is yours in these words:
Grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord; seeing that His divine power has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness, through the true knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and excellence.–2 Peter 1:2-4.
Posts in this series:
If I Get it All Together, Where Will I Put It?
If I Get it All Together, How Much is Enough?
If I Get it All Together, How Long do I Have to Keep it Up?
If I Get it All Together, What if I Trip Over It?
Linking up here: Monday Minute
If I Get it All Together, What if I Trip Over It?
Do you drive half the folks around you crazy as you push full-throttle to prove yourself?
Ever been so focused on getting it all together that you lose an important part of yourself in the process? Maybe leave a trail of debris of brokenness behind your race to find your worth and grasp that IT that will make everything OK?
My idea of OK might be a little different than yours, but generally, the IT we seek has a lot to do with meeting our core needs to be loved, valued, accepted, secure, successful, or worthy.
As believers in Christ, it’s easy to bring this get-it-together-mindset into our spiritual lives. In religious talk, we call that walking in the flesh.
Without realizing it, we dress up this make-myself-alright-thinking, with lots of Bible study, church service, good deeds, and PG movies.
Friends, the struggle is real.
For a long time, I tried so hard to become the person I felt like I should be. The person others wanted me to be. And the person I thought God wanted me to be.
This person was a paragon of wisdom who always makes the right call. Organized, efficient, neat, successful at work, kind, knowledgeable, well-liked by all. . .
This got-it-together gal would never do air-headed things like leave the keys in the car door, forget about early dismissals, or purchase a plane ticket for the wrong date. She would get that promotion, and all her kids would earn scholarships to college.
Call it what you want—craziness, perfectionism, flesh, or even rampant professionalism . . .
[tweetthis]The harder we try to get it together, the easier it is to trip over it.[/tweetthis]
Have you tripped over a few of the struggles of trying to get it all together?
discouragement–when effort doesn’t lead to the result we desired
worry–insecurity of the get-it-together life leads to anxiety or pride
stress–multiplies when we lose perspective of who we are in Christ
fear–that we’ll never be enough or get what we need robs us of peace
comparison–life becomes a competition rather than a celebration
These are just a few of the subtle ways we can trip over our good intentions. The apostle Paul put it this way:
Are you so foolish? Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh? Galatians 3:3
The shift from dependence on Christ to reliance on self-effort is a consistent temptation.
Learning new ways to think and respond
Renewal of our thinking is the essence of transformation. When sin, flesh, motivation, or attitudes trip us up, it’s encouraging to remember that God has already dealt with our sin.
Friend, today is the day to embrace who God says you are rather than trying to earn the acceptance and value that’s already yours.
[tweetthis]Rather than trip over performance-based righteousness, we trust the Holy Spirit to work in and through us.[/tweetthis]
For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.–Philippians 1:6.
Are we trusting God to complete his work in our lives or are we trying to finish the job for him?
God’s after something completely different than our getting it all together.
What if He’s far more interested in our deeply understanding how much we are loved and valued than what we can achieve in our self-effort?
Here’s a glimpse from my journal with a personalized version of Ephesians 3:16-19. Combining translations, definitions, spacing, emphasis, and notes to myself, I process truth on the page as God impresses it on my heart.
This is one of the ways He transforms and renews my thinking, freeing me from the pressure of trying to get it all together.
May he grant me– it’s a gift!
. . .to be strengthened and spiritually energized ( I don’t have to somehow make myself spiritually strong).
with POWER through HIS SPIRIT (not my effort, not my power)
in my inner self [indewelling my innermost being and personality]
SO THAT
Christ may DWELL in my heart THROUGH faith.
And may I
Having been (already done!!)
[deeply] rooted and [securely] grounded IN love,
be fully capable of comprehending
with all the saints
the width, length, height, depth of His love
[FULLY experiencing] that amazing endless love.
And that I come to know [practically, through personal experience] the love of Christ which far surpasses [mere] knowledge [without experience], that I
MAY BE FILLED [throughout my being] to
ALL the FULNESS of GOD
[so that I may have the richest experience of God’s presence in my life], completely filled and flooded with God HIMSELF.
Beyond all I can ask or think…
GOD CAN DO.
If we choose to believe and live in light of these powerful truths, we will no longer trip over the trying-to-get-it-together life.
Recent posts in this series include:
If I Get it All Together, Where Will I Put It?
If I Get it All Together, How Long Do I Have to Keep it Up?
This get-it-all-together thing can drive you right off the cliff of crazy if you let it.
Is it a once-and-for-all kind of thing, or do I have to somehow sustain this coveted image? Seriously, how long do I have to keep it up?
These are things we need to know. . . !
[tweetthis hidden_hashtags=”#notenough, #selfesteem, #selfimage”]Truth is, in Christ we’ve already got it together. [/tweetthis]
To be righteous is to be right, in a state of rightness. It is being as God created you to be, as you are designed to live. We talked about that here.
This get-it-all-together living is all about how well we perform. It’s an exhausting work of the flesh to try and try and try and try to reach this undefinable get-it-together standard.
Nothing will dampen faith and spiritual vitality faster than running yourself ragged trying to get it all right.
Self-effort will never get it all right.
Working to be right by our own efforts is really self-righteousness. So much of the Christian life is learning to understand and live in our God-given identity rather than simply trying to manage self better.
. . . he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing. –John 15:5
We agree with this truth and then keep on trying to get-it-all-together on our own.
I need God to transform my thinking when . . .
I worry about what other’s think.
I react to criticism with anger or hurt.
I lecture myself about my mistakes.
I am defensive or hyper-sensitive.
I try to control other people.
I grieve my failures.
I fear rejection.
I create lists to improve myself.
I define myself based on what others say.
I believe I’m not enough.
I judge myself or others.
I feel like a disappointment to God.
I say, “I’ll never be ____ enough.”
I strive to prove my worth.
I relate to God out of fear or guilt.
I find fault with everything I do.
I wonder if God would love me more if I ____.
I worry about getting it all together!
There’s just WAY too much me in this list.
Way. Too. Much.
You can’t go two ways at once.
We can’t hang on to the get-it-together life of the flesh and walk in the Spirit. We can’t rely on self to get-it-all-together and experience freedom in Christ at the same time.
Believe me, I’ve tried.
I’ve tried to keep my house clean, raise amazing kids, and love my husband well. I’ve worked hard to pray, love God, study the Bible, teach Sunday school, and on an on it goes.
For heaven’s sake, by self-effort I can’t even keep the kitchen counters clean!
We have to make a choice.
Relying on Christ rather than self keeps faith fresh for this moment.
The power of recognition.
Choosing to let go of self-effort to get-it-all-together begins with awareness of our thoughts and motivations.
To be honest, I don’t begin every task thinking, “What’s the condition of my heart? Who am I relying on?”
Slowly, I’m recognizing when I’m trying to get-it-all together rather than trusting God to put-it-all-together.
[tweetthis hidden_hashtags=”#relyonChrist, #selfeffort”]Trusting rather than trying is the path freedom walks.[/tweetthis]
When I realize I’ve given way to this get-me-together thinking, I begin to think and respond differently.
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. . . Romans 12:2a
Instead of worrying about what others think, I choose to rely on Christ. “Lord, I’m depending on you to do this well, and I’ll trust you with what other’s think.”
Rather than fear rejection, I remind myself that I’m accepted by God. My prayer changes from “Help me do better” to “Lord, I trust you with this relationship. I rely on you to show me what to do.”
Which would you rather experience, the try-hard life of self-effort or the gift of righteousness in Christ?
Isn’t it time to stop all the trying to-get-it-all together?
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Enjoy the entire series:
If I Get it All Together, Where Will I Put It?
If I Get it All Together, How Much is Enough?
If I Get it All Together, How Long Do I Have to Keep it Up?
If I Get it All Together, What if I Trip Over It?
If I Get it All Together, What if I Mess it Up?
If I Get it All Together, How Much is Enough?
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If I get it all together, how much is enough? How much together does it take?
Really, how much is enough? It’s enough to make your head spin right off your neck.
My friend sits on the front steps, holding the weight of too many burdens on her shoulders.
“I try so hard to be a good mom, but I feel like I’m not doing it right,” she says with a sigh. “I really need to get it all together.”
Why is it when we use the phrase, get-it-all-together, it’s never in a good way?
“Sometimes I’m patient, but then I lose my temper. If I were a better Christian, I wouldn’t get so frustrated at times. I want to be a better mom, but . . . ”
Without words, her body language finishes the sentence that hangs in the air: but I’m not.
[tweetthis hidden_hashtags=”#IdentityinChrist, #righteousness”]How much better do you have to be to be good enough?[/tweetthis]
How much more patience does it take to be patient enough?
How much more rightness does it take to be righteous enough?
How much is enough?
Friend, could it be that these are the wrong questions?
I believe God is more interested in teaching a new way to think rather than better ways to behave. There is freedom from this get-it-all-together insanity.
“. . .and that you be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth.–Ephesians 4:23-24
We get hung up on doing things right, but God wants us to know that we are righteous. In Christ, righteousness and holiness is a natural part of who we are.
Choosing to remember we are a new creation is putting on the new self. Being open to God’s transforming work in our mind is part of putting on (living out of) who we are in Christ: righteous and holy.
This is hard because we’re wired to measure value and identity out of how well we perform.
So what is righteousness anyway?
Is it just a churchy word that doesn’t seem to relate to real life and real people?
Righteousness is an incredibly practical word.
Out of sheer generosity he put us in right standing with himself. A pure gift. He got us out of the mess we’re in and restored us to where he always wanted us to be. And he did it by means of Jesus Christ.–Romans 3:24, The Message
In a broad sense, righteousness is defined as the state of him who is as he ought to be, righteousness, the condition acceptable to God. It includes integrity, virtue, purity of life, rightness, correctness of thinking feeling, and acting. (Strong’s 1343).
In other words, righteousness is thinking, feeling, and acting like the person God created us to be. As God renews our thinking to the truth, feelings and behavior begin to change.
This is why righteousness is such a practical concept. How we think, act, and feel–that’s where we live every moment of every day.
Defining righteousness based on feelings rather than truth.
If I feel right, I must be right.
If I feel guilty, I can’t be righteous.
If I feel I’m unrighteous, I must be.
And then we start in on the “I’ve got to get it all together” lectures.
In reality, righteousness. . .
Is a gift from God.
Is received rather than achieved.
Is who you are not what you do.
In Christ, righteousness is your identity by spiritual birth, not behavior.
Getting it all together
and doing all the right things won’t make us righteous.
God isn’t tapping his holy foot, impatiently waiting for us to finally get it all together. He still sees us as righteous even when we act sinfully or selfishly. (Because that’s who we are, not what we do).
The world definitely doesn’t operate this way.
Some days I feel like I’ve been brainwashed by the world’s system of performance and success. And though I know better, I sometimes find myself trying to be righteous by my own efforts.
That’s when I start to worry about getting it all together.
As if I’ve got something to prove rather than a gift to receive.
Working to be right by my own efforts is really self-righteousness.
“He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit” –Titus 3:5
As God renews my mind, I’m learning to let go of the pressure to get it all together and do it all right. Want to join me?
Together we can keep faith fresh with the freedom to stop asking the question, “How much is enough.”
[tweetthis]In the righteousness of Christ, who you are is just right[/tweetthis].
Trust God to work in your thoughts, feelings, and actions as you put on the righteousness you have given by God. Remember, God is the one who is making you holy and whole!
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If I Get It All Together, Where Will I Put It?
Ever feel like your life is one big long project of self-improvement?
How much time do we spend trying to get it all together and make it all better?
A lot.
Well, at least I do. If this isn’t a thing for you, you can encourage the rest of us. . .
How much effort do we put into trying to feel like we’re enough? That we have what it takes?
I recently had a very spiritual AHA moment:
[tweetthis hidden_hashtags=”#busyness, #busywoman, #selfimage”]If I get it all together, where will I put it?[/tweetthis]
And by the way, what is IT?
Can anyone actually define the IT in get-IT-altogether?
For that matter, how much IT does it actually take to get it all together? How do we know how much does it take to be enough? There’s not a clear answer on this, is there?
To be honest, I’m tired of trying to get it all together. I’m relieved God is teaching me new ways to think about my life and who I am. He’s teaching me to have confidence that I’m a new creation and my life is not my project.
[tweetthis]Note to self: It’s a life, not a performance.[/tweetthis]
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.–2 Corinthians 5:17
This amazing truth sets us free from the constant striving to get ourselves together, to make ourselves better.
Our new-creation-self in Christ is not an improved, spiffed up version of self.
Jesus didn’t come to make us better, but to make us new.
We know this, but sometimes the distance from head to heart is greater than 12 inches. Getting from head-knowledge of facts to life-knowledge of experience comes one day at a time.
How do we learn to live this new-creation life?
In the book Grace Walk, Steve McVey writes, “When you believe you are a new creation of Christ, you won’t feel the need to act. You can just be yourself, allowing the nature of Christ within your spirit to flow through your personality and out of your life, like the river of living water…that flows from your innermost being.”
When we trust God with our identity, we discover that our life is not our project.
For all of us get-it-all-together addicts,
this is game-changing news!
We can let go of the pressure to get-it-all-together because God will put us together. This is the difference between getting by in our own resources and effort and walking by faith.
May God himself,
the God who makes everything holy and whole…
put you together—spirit, soul, and body—
and keep you fit for the coming of our Master, Jesus Christ.
The One who called you is completely dependable.
If he said it, he’ll do it! 1 Thessalonians 5:23 MSG
Christ brings body, soul, and spirit in line with God’s design for our lives. In Christ, he puts it all together in us and brings forth our true identity. This is the joy of discovering our identity in Christ.
May God Himself–this is the personal touch of God, active and present in our lives. These verses are part of Paul’s prayer for believers. He asks for God to do something special. Something extraordinary, and something we cannot do for ourselves.
This is how to get it all together! It’s a work that only Christ can do.
This is what God delights to do–He is a God of wholeness, bringing all of us back into completeness that we were created for.
Spirit. Soul. Body.
This is wholeness: complete in all its parts, in no part wanting or unsound. Another translation says, sanctify you entirely.
This is no half-way kind of talk.
God is in the process of making us all-the-way whole and holy. This is sacred work that only God can do, an identity only God can give. There are no half-measures with God.
He will not leave you half-done, part-way.
For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus. –Philippians 1:6
When we get discouraged with our flesh, thinking I don’t have it together…I’m not the woman I need to be…When we start down that bumpy road, God wants to encourage us. He will put us together—body, mind, and soul—he will bring it to completion.
So we can relax.
And breathe.
And let go of trying to do it all perfectly.
Yes, indeedy!
Let’s trust God to do what He says. Isn’t it time to get out of God’s way and let the Holy Spirit do the things He wants to do in our lives. How will life be different if we stop living like our life is a project rather than a life in Christ?
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15 Power Truths About God to Ignite Your Faith
As I step into my bedroom, darkness seems to swallow me in thick blackness. Without the normal faint glow from the night light in the hall, I feel disoriented. Hands groping along the wall, I’m careful with every step. Hesitant and unsure, with hands stretched forward, I inch my way to the bed, not wanting to stub my toe on the dresser.
Ever feel like your life is like walking in that dark room?
Darkness wears many faces.
Physical darkness
Emotions, thoughts, and actions can be dark as well.
Dark situations can lead us to despair.
Confusion is a mental darkness as we search for answers, trying to make sense of tragedy or rejection.
How do we keep faith fresh in the darkness?
Consider how David faces dark challenges in Psalm 27.
The Lord is my light and my salvation;
Whom shall I fear?–Psalm 27:1
God is light and salvation in every situation. Friend, circumstances, and emotions can be a wild ride, but God never changes. What a difference light makes in the darkness.
What a difference light makes in the darkness.
Shining in the darkness of confusion, God’s light brings understanding by illuminating what we cannot see for ourselves. As God shines His light and we can see what is revealed.
Salvation: deliverance and help
Whom shall I fear?
Before David mentions his situation, he affirms that God is his light and salvation. Don’t miss this practical step. Speaking truth to ourselves is a holy habit that ignites faith. Saying it aloud is a way of shining God’s light into your darkness.
Overcome fear by looking at your situation in light of God’s presence and strength.
Trust God to lead you on His level path:
Physical level place: Remember the relief of a level path after a strenuous uphill climb?
Spiritual level place: righteousness, to make straight–bringing our thoughts, emotions, and decisions in line with the rightness of God’s nature.
Emotional level place. Fear triggers many emotions, tempting us to react to feelings rather than respond with faith. Feelings can drive our actions and shape our truth if we let them.
Mental level place–wisdom to know what to do in the challenge. It is also the quality of remaining focused and calm in our thoughts.
Light of truth overcomes despair.
As David faces his enemies, he strengthens his faith by reminding himself, affirming what is really true: God is my light and salvation.
I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.–Psalm 27: 13
Note to self: It takes light to see God’s goodness.
Many times my experience has been more like this: I totally lost it. Consumed with anxiety, I am nearly giving up. I hope I’ll see the goodness of God, but I’m a wreck.
[tweetthis hidden_hashtags=”#faith #fightfear #trustGod”]Don’t let feelings define your faith.[/tweetthis]
David experienced a victory by not allowing his emotions shape his belief about the situation.
He held fast to the unchanging fact that God is good.
Even though God is good, hard days will come.
Maybe you’re stuck in the middle of a mess right this moment. Are you dangling over the edge with nothing solid beneath your feet?
[tweetthis]Hold on to the truth that God is good, and believe that you will see His goodness.[/tweetthis] In the land of the living.
Waiting can be a hard place to be. This kind of waiting means to expect, look forward to, linger for, as well as to bind together.
“To wait for the Lord is to make the Lord the clinging place of the soul, and therefore the resting place, and therefore the growing place.”–J. H. Jowett.
15 powerful truths about God to ignite your faith.
Seeking guidance? Facing a strong enemy? Struggling in a difficult situation?
If you missed part 1 of this post, check out 5 Things You Need to Know About God’s Guidance which covered Psalm 25:1-5.
Click here to read both Psalm 25 and 27 fully. What else can you to the following lists?
Read aloud the following truths and let the Holy Spirit energize your faith. Listen to God’s heart as truth speaks life to your soul:
God is my I AM who…
is completely trustworthy. Ps. 25:1
keeps me from shame and disappointment. Ps. 25:1
causes me to know His ways. Ps. 25:4
teaches me His paths, His way of living. Ps 25:4
leads me in truth. Ps. 25:5
saves and delivers me. Ps. 25:5
is worth waiting for. Ps. 25:5
sheds light in my darkness. Ps. 27:1
protects me; I do not need to give into fear. Ps. 27:1
leads me on level paths. Ps. 27:11
provides hope to overcome despair. Ps. 27:13
is always good. Ps. 27:13
enables me to experience His goodness. Ps. 27:1
revives, refreshes, and renews my heart. Ps. 27:13
strengthens me with courage and boldness. Ps. 27:14
What’s our part?
In the verses we’ve covered from Psalm 25:1-5 and 27 what was David’s action? What is our part? Declare to your soul that you will depend on God to do the following:
Relying on God, I will:
Receive God’s teaching
Follow truth
Remember God is my salvation
Be willing to wait for God
Look for God’s light
Resist fear
Follow His leading
Believe I will see His goodness
Receive God’s strength
Confidently expect God
For this moment, make the holy choice to receive all that God provides. Embrace the truth of who He is and what He does. Receiving invites God to go to work.
4 Worshipful Ways to Remember the Resurrection Every Day
An Easter devotion to inspire you to embrace the power of the resurrection of Jesus every day. Biblical wisdom to celebrate Easter throughout the year.
Easter comes softly, opening like the azaleas blooming in my back yard. In a busy life, Easter sneaks in, quietly overlooked in the blare of traffic, the push of work, and the constant motion of home and family.
Preparing our hearts for Easter is easily nudged aside. For this moment, stop the scurry and take a breath. Still your thoughts and discover the refreshing power of remembering.
A thread of connection between past and present, between temporal and eternal, the act of remembering is a practical part of worship.
Sometimes remembering is retrieving a lost thought, forgotten somewhere along the way. “Oh, now I remember…”
And then there is a spiritual practice of remembering—intentionally placing something on the forefront of our attention. The word remember is peppered throughout Scripture. Guarding our wayward and forgetful hearts, the practice of remembering opens the way for the Holy Spirit to work in our thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Every. Single. Day.
Beyond all this, remembering becomes a tribute of honor, meaningful in the holiness of worship.
4 Worshipful Ways to Remember the Resurrection Every Day
Remember the first resurrection day.
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Hearts heavy with grief pressed down hard, women approached the tomb to find the stone is rolled away. Far beyond the ability of a single man to move, the stone no longer seals the grave where Jesus was placed.
Thoughts and emotions tangled and fought to make sense of the inexplicable. They entered into the tomb to discover His body was gone as two men appeared:
While they were perplexed about this, behold, two men suddenly stood near them in dazzling clothing; and as the women were terrified and bowed their faces to the ground, the men said to them, “Why do you seek the living One among the dead? He is not here, but He has risen.”–Luke 24:4-6a
1. Remember Jesus is alive.
He is not dead.
He is not absent.
He has conquered sin and delivered us from the power of death.
In the confusion and grief of the moment, God sent a message to these women, and to us as well. How often do we, like the women at the tomb, need to remember our Lord is very much alive?
Every. Single. Day.
2. Remember His words.
“Remember how He spoke to you while He was still in Galilee, saying, ‘the Son of Man must be delivered…'”–Luke 24:6b
Our Easter joy is in the power of this news–He has risen. The triumph of Easter is powerful, life-giving, world-changing news we need to remember. Every. Single. Day.
With our focus on Jesus’ resurrection, it’s easy to bypass the instruction of the angels at the tomb:
Remember what He said.
Mary Magdalene and Joanna and Mary the mother of James had heard Jesus teach the Scriptures, and they also heard his personal words spoken through relationship over time. How many conversations had they had with Christ over the years?
How many memories?
How many messages had He spoken to their hearts?
In these conversations, Christ had explained what would happen–words that didn’t make sense at the time. Didn’t make sense at the moment, but in this moment it all became clear.
Now they remembered.
And now they understood.
Remembering what Christ said enabled them to understand a situation beyond their human experience. Remembering and understanding gave them powerful news to share with the others.
Remembering opened the door to greater joy through deeper understanding.
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Every. Single. Day.
3. Remember to return and report.
And they remembered His words, and returned from the tomb and reported all these things to the eleven and to all the rest.–Luke 24:8-9
Remembering isn’t’ just for our benefit, not just for our faith, not just for our moment. The holy act of remembering is for returning to our places, homes, offices, communities to share the truth that Jesus lives.
And it is for reporting what we have experienced–the power of God’s word as it meets our experience–revelation.
Hearts that remember are able to remind others in their moments, their needs, and their hard places. We have the privilege of helping others to remember what Christ has said. Sharing this post is a great way to do this.
Every. Single. Day.
4. Remember Jesus is Savior, Lord, and Life.
Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to theFather but through Me.–John 14:6
Remembering the resurrection–the truth that Christ is our Life is a worshipful way to great every day. Trusting in Christ for every need is remembering the resurrection in a way that will daily impact your life. [tweetthis]Don’t forget to enjoy the fresh life of Christ, bringing joy and strength that makes each day count.[/tweetthis]
Happy Easter, friends! Be blessed and be a blessing as you keep faith fresh by remembering to live fully in the life of Christ.
Every. Single. Day.
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Six Powerful Lessons on Love and Humility from the Last Supper
As we prepare for Easter, reflect on these lessons about love and humility from Jesus’ teachings at the Last Supper. What can we learn from Christ’s words and example in his last meal with his disciples? Jesus demonstrated the power of love and humility in serving others as he washed the disciples’ feet. Are we willing to love and serve like Jesus?
Evening settles as men gather around a table for dinner. They do not yet know these are last moments carved out of time to have one final lesson with the Master.
Jesus could have talked about many things on this last evening with the disciples. They could have spent the time reminiscing the many stories they had lived together. He could have reviewed three years of teaching.
The importance of Jesus’s teaching at the Last Supper.
Last moments are for the heart and Christ leaves his disciples with powerful lessons on love and humility.
He “rose from supper. He laid aside his outer garments, and taking a towel, tied it around his waist. Then he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples’ feet and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped around him.” John 13:4-5
Getting up from the table, leaving the comfort of a good meal, Jesus purposefully lowers his position. Willingly he places himself in the position of a servant, the one with the most menial of tasks–to wash the feet filthy with the dust of the road and the sludge of life. The disciples were shocked that their teacher would stoop to such a lowly task. From our vantage point in history, the depth of humility is even more striking: the Son of God carried out the work of a servant.
How might the disciples have felt in that moment?
Foot washing was a task typically reserved for the lowliest household servants. It was unheard of for a respected rabbi to perform this act. The disciples, who had been arguing about who among them was the greatest (Luke 22:24), would have been deeply unsettled, perhaps even embarrassed, by Jesus’ actions.
Peter’s strong reaction, “Never shall You wash my feet!” (John 13:8), underscores their discomfort. Their teacher and Lord demonstrated a level of humility they could barely comprehend.
Jesus’s example of humility in the last supper.
“Do you know what I have done to you? You call Me Teacher and Lord; and you are right, for so I am. If I then, the Lord and the Teacher, washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I gave you an example that you also should do as I did to you.” John 13:12-15
As Christ washes the filth from feet, example becomes the tool–learning in the living, actions bring words to life and we will never be the same.
Knowing the moment of his betrayal by one of his own is set in motion, Jesus washes feet that walk across the heartache and trouble of this world gaping wide with sin. In just a few hours the sinless Son of God will lay down his life for the sin of us all. We cannot fully wrap our minds around the deep love and humility of Christ.
Six Powerful Lessons on Love and Humility from the Last Supper
Example is the most effective way of teaching lessons that transform. As we reflect on these last hours together, Jesus taught powerful lessons on the value of loving others with humility and service.
1. Be willing to get up from the table.
Acts of service require that we get up from the table. Service begins with a willingness to stop what we may be doing in order to serve others. Selfishness is a default setting in our human brains.
Are we willing?
2. Go low.
Jesus didn’t set a limit on the type of task he was willing to do to show love and service. Even though he set the stars in place, he stooped low to wash his disciples’ feet.
Are we willing?
3. Lay it aside.
Laying aside his garments…Jesus prepared to do the menial work of a servant, washing the feet of his disciples. How many times have we grumbled when interrupted? How easily we balk when it comes to putting the interests of others before our own. In our social media driven culture, we curate our lives, carefully choosing the images that show us at our best. Taking off his outer garments was an act of vulnerability with no shred of pride. Jesus showed how to lay aside image and reputation in service to others.
Are we willing?
4. The power of cleansing.
Peter responds, “Never shall You wash my feet!” Jesus answers, “If I do not wash you, you have no part with Me.” John 13:8
Has God ever surprised you with how he chooses to work? I’m sure none of the disciples entered the upper room that night expecting Jesus to wash their feet. Are we willing to learn, when the lesson is not what we expected?
Cleaning our sin-stained hearts is a non-negotiable aspect of the saving work of Jesus. True humility of service requires that selfishness and sin be purified.
Are we willing?
5. Knowing is not the same as doing.
IF you know these things, you are blessed if you do them. –John 13:17
If is an interesting word, isn’t it? Packed with possibility and choice, the word If raises a question. Maybe we will, but then again…maybe we won’t.
How often do we know the right thing. . . but don’t do it?
Obedience can be a touchy subject, evoking memories of times we broke the rules, got in trouble, or let someone down. When we view obeying God through the foggy lens of religious duty or performance-based acceptance, obedience feels hard and heavy.
On this last night, Jesus teaches that our best blessings come when follow his example with humility and love.
There is a blessing for us in obedience in serving others, even in the most menial of tasks.
Are we willing?
6. Live it out.
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.–John 13:34-35
Why does Jesus close out his time on earth, his last peaceful moments of friendship, emphasizing the importance of loving one another? These are the last hours before the world will rise against him with the harsh words chanted by frenzied crowds, “Crucify him, crucify him!”
When we dig beneath the soil of our ambitions, our greatest need and our deepest struggle is to love and be loved. “Love me,” is the cry of every heart. “Am I loved? Am I loveable? Am I worth loving?” is the question that hides in every motivation, desire, and conflict.
Reflection questions on love and humility.
Take a few moments to go deeper into this passage by reflecting on these questions:
What is something you may need to pause or set aside to serve someone today?
Is there a task you’ve been avoiding because it feels beneath you? How might approaching it with humility reflect Christ’s love?
What might you need to “lay aside” to serve others more freely—your comfort, pride, or even reputation?
When has God worked in an unexpected way in your life? How did it teach you to trust Him more deeply?
What is one way you can put into action something you know God has called you to do?
Why did Jesus teach this lesson on love?
Love is like oxygen. We need to know we are loved and we need to love others.
Loving God and loving one another is the one foundation we cannot do without.
Love is where life is lived, salvation worked out, and victory won.
Love is the motivation of humility.
Without love, service is meaningless, teaching becomes noise, and faith misses the point.
Without love we are bankrupt souls and our greatest work turns to dust in the light of eternity.–Holy in the Moment
At first glance, this is a seemingly simple command: love others.
Familiar words, until we read as I have loved you. Loving others as Christ has loved us requires a willingness to serve and sacrifice, to love without condition, expectation, or position. There are so many important lessons woven into Jesus’ example and teaching during the Last Supper. Lessons on love and humility that have the power to transform our hearts and impact the world around us.
As we reflect on the humility and love demonstrated by Jesus at the Last Supper, may it inspire us to serve others with a willing heart. If this message has touched your heart, I invite you to explore more Easter content that dives deeper into Christ’s sacrifice and resurrection. Let these stories and lessons renew your faith and prepare your heart for this holy season.
Lord, make us willing.
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How to Care for Your Soul: Best Tips from 13 Christian Bloggers
Soul care opens the door for fresh faith and vibrant life. Intentional choices to care for our souls open the door for everyday holiness that makes a difference.
Because this is such a practical and important topic, I’ve rounded up some of my favorite bloggers to share their best tips. I asked them two simple questions:
What have you learned about soul care?
What is one way you care for your soul?
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Betsy DeCruz
I take care of my soul by trying fresh approaches to my quiet time. Time with God every morning recharges me and helps realign my heart to God’s purposes—yet sometimes I fall into a rut.
Some mornings I zone out while praying or my eyes glaze over while I read scripture, so I like to get creative. I listen to a worship song or sometimes light a candle. I use colored pencils and pens in my journal.
When I feel burdened, I spend more time praying. I use prayer journaling, prayer mapping, and make simple lists as I lift my concerns to the Lord and pray for grace to trust Him. Other days I spend more time reading scripture. I like to use different approaches to engage with God’s Word: reading aloud, listening, writing out verses, or verse mapping.
One thing almost never changes: I choose one verse to take with me into my day.
Deb Wolf
The one thing I’ve learned is that soul care is absolutely essential. My soul is the core of who I am. I fall apart mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually if my soul is not filled by the One who created it.
When it comes to how I care for my soul . . . I focus on Jesus through prayer and Bible study. I also enjoy spending time talking with others and reading books and blogs.
If I want to enjoy peace in my soul, I need Jesus!
Liz Giertz
I’ve learned that soul care isn’t optional.
If I don’t do it, I can’t care for anybody else. Like most women, I have quite a few people who rely on me to care for them.
On a daily basis, I get up before the other members of my house to have coffee with Jesus. But sometimes I need more time alone with Him than our crazy schedules allow.
My husband has been so supportive, allowing me time once or twice a year to get away to a quiet place where I can simply soak in all God has for filling me up. I love getting lost in the Bible and swept away by worship – that provides everlasting nourishment for my soul.
The other thing that sets my soul on fire, is dreaming with God about how I can use what He’s given me to glorify Him.
Adrienne Terrebone
As a mom, it is easy to neglect myself, spending all my energy on serving my husband and three children. When I don’t take time to focus on myself, even if it’s just for 15 minutes a day, I can easily get depleted, which leads to frustration for me and for my family.
For me, caring for my soul means a variety of things.
Slowing down and enjoying the small moments with my children.
Spending time in the Word of God or
Enjoying a good book on the back porch.
I tend to be introverted which means that I need a little time to myself to rejuvenate and refresh.
Arabah Joy
Soul care starts with Psalm 46:10, which says, “Be still and know that I am God.” Regular communion with God is the best way I can take care of my soul.
I’ve learned the importance of solitude and stillness. That means getting away from people and the hustle of daily life with no phones, computers, or other noise makers.
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Melanie Redd
We all need time apart – time to come away and refresh, renew, and be restored. When I don’t take time for these things, I become uptight, tense, and difficult to live with! So, in the best interest of my family, friends, and ministry, I need to make time for my soul to be filled back up.
To recharge my soul, I daily have quiet time, weekly have more lengthy quiet time, and twice a year, my husband and I try to take a few days away to be still. It’s amazing what these times of quiet do to restore our souls!
One of my favorite ways to fill back up is to spend time with other women who love the Lord and love me. To share our hearts, share our burdens, pray with each other, and pray for each other – all of these things deeply minister to my soul!
I try to get with at least one positive, praying friend every week.
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Sarah Koontz
My soul has needs, demands, cravings that must be satisfied on a regular basis. When I fail to care for my soul, I am unfit to care for anything or anyone else in my life.
I carve out time for rest…every single day. God has taught me the art of restful living. When I rest, I rest my whole person: Body, Soul, and Spirit. Rest gives my soul perspective, patience, and the strength to persist.
Cathy Baker
I’ve learned in caring for my soul is that it prefers a whole-food diet. I can do good things 24/7. I can speed-read a multitude of good and godly books. And I can attend church every Sunday. But if my regular intake of spiritual nourishment isn’t grounded in devouring the wholeness of God’s Word (Jer. 15:16) and time with Him in prayer, all other things—no matter how good—leaves me weak, confused, and vulnerable.
One way I’ve started caring for my soul is to crank up the praise music and sing for 15 minutes before sitting down to read the Bible. Luke 10 tells us to love God with all of our heart, soul, and strength, and singing praises with my whole heart is one way my soul is both emptied and re-filled. It has also proven to set the stage for a deeper, more meaningful one-on-one time with Him.
Kori Yates
Soul care has to be a priority, something done intentionally or it doesn’t get done. It also seems to get more important to me the longer I walk with the Lord and know Him more.
Make time with Him a priority. Some of my best times with him are running early in the morning with no distractions. I have to schedule it and I prefer to do it first thing. I also intentionally find friends or small groups.
Community and accountability is vital for my soul care.
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Michelle Bengtson
I’ve learned that if the enemy of our soul cannot destroy us, he’ll distract us with so much busyness that we forget to take time to take care of ourselves.
If we don’t take care of ourselves, our well will run dry until we have nothing left to pour out onto others. We must consider life a marathon and not a sprint, and take time to care for ourselves if we want to have the strength and endurance for the difficult valleys.
I make it a priority to engage in regular physical exercise every week, and then on a regular basis, I make it a priority to get out on the water where I feel most at peace. That always brings me back to a place where I hear God best and can forget about the worries of the day/week/month for a few moments and just be still and rest in Him.
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Kellie Balarie
If I don’t care for my soul, no one else will. The matter of caring for my soul hinges upon making time for God. If I don’t, I suffer. If I do, I grow in fruitfulness, joy and kindness.
My favorite way to refresh my soul is to take a walk with God. I love to get outside, breathe deep and let His creation touch my heart.
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Karrilee Aggett
If I don’t make caring for my soul a priority, no one else will either! In fact, no one else will know if I am taking care of myself… at least not until it’s quite obvious to everyone! (Ask me how I know!)
I have learned, as an Introvert who pastors, I need to schedule in a chunk of time to recharge after a full weekend of ministering or a big event. I try to rest that day or set aside time. I’m not going to allow time to boss me around.
During my refresh time, I do only things that fill me up… read, write, pray, make art, go for a walk. Sometimes meet an encouraging friend for coffee or watch a movie (as long as I am not using it as a way to escape).
Soul Care (or self-care) is not selfish at all and it actually enables me to bring my best self to the table on a more consistent basis!
Jennifer Moye
I have learned that when caring for myself, I am caring for the rest of my body, and my family as well. God commands us to worship him with all our mind, body, and soul. Caring for our body, mind, and soul is one way of offering worship.
One way I’m learning to take care of my soul is a new-found practice of holy yoga, which helps me calm my mind and pray Scripture. We are so rushed in today’s life that we rarely clear our thoughts enough to enjoy God’s presence.
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Your Turn!
What have you learned about soul care? What’s your best practice for attending to your soul? I’d love for you to leave a comment and share your thoughts!
Enjoy the rest of this series:
It’s Okay to Love Yourself
To the One Who’s Forgotten She Matters: 10 Ways to Love Yourself
Soul Care: 5 Godly Ways to Care for Your Soul
Enjoy my new mini-ebook, Soul Care that Makes the Difference. Use this simple tool for a devotional guide or prayer journal and experience the difference soul care can make.
Enjoy beautiful quotes that remind you to care for your soul. Learn more about simple reminders and truths from Ginger’s new book, Holy in the Moment: Simple Ways to Love God and Enjoy Your Life.
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