Who is My Neighbor?

Part 1 of this story is here.

Luke 10, the good samaritan

Authenticity is a popular word at the moment. More than trendy, authenticity creates a pathway to love God with our lives. When an insincere lawyer questions Jesus, he has all the right answers when he recites to the Lord, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself (Luke 10:27).”

This man, the expert in the law, knows the words of God’s most important command, but he misses the heart of the message. Loving God effects every aspect of our lives–emotions, desires, motivations, thoughts, words, and actions.

Loving God with our life can’t help but seep into our relationships with others. Love your neighbor as yourself. Most of us know this phrase. We’ve said it many times. Yet loving God is incomplete without loving others. How often we try to separate the two concepts. Do we elevate the relationship with God and neglect our relationships with others?

the good Samaritan, Luke 10

“Who is my neighbor,” asks the lawyer, looking for a way to justify himself and somehow come out on top of the conversation. Again, the motivation of his heart is far from loving God as he seeks to prove his religious superiority with a smug, clever question. This is a battle he cannot win.

To answer his question, Jesus tells a simple story that slices through hypocrisy and lays open the intentions of too many hearts. Jesus answers with a living color picture of the human condition that is far more comprehensive and divisive than the religious man expects.

The meaning of the word neighbor is as broad as anyone and as specific as the person in need right in front of us. It cuts through our notions of self-importance and our facades of compassion. It rips the pretense of our religious postures, exposing the condition of the heart and the tendency to by-pass the needs of others.

The Good Samaritan, Luke 10

The good Samaritan.

Here is the neighbor: A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among robbers, and they stripped him and beat him, and went away leaving him half dead (Luke 10:30).”

The condition of this neighbor is one who has been beat up with the hardness of life and the evil of the world. He lays on the roadside, bruised, bleeding and in visible, urgent need of help. His valuables have been stolen and he is stranded and broken on the sidelines of life.

“And by chance a priest was going down on that road, and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side (Luke 10:31).”

The priest shows a lack love and concern for others. He sees the blood-red need,  and crosses the road to avoid the problem.  In a hurry, on his way, the priest chooses to by-pass the need. Maybe he doesn’t want to be late?

Does he have more important things to do? Did he mentally tally up his priorities and decide he couldn’t stop? Or did he simply not want to trouble with getting involved, getting his hands stained with the problems of the one in need?

At times the familiarity of this story causes me to rush through the details and miss the impact.

Along comes another religious man, “Likewise a Levite also, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side (Luke 10:32).”

And another man, another religious official, passes by.

Another layer to the story. Confident in position, these men have excuses…reasons why they can’t stop. Won’t stop.

I have excuses too. Do you?

The Good Samaritan, Luke 10

Jesus reveals the uncomfortable truth that what you see is not always what you get. At the heart of hypocrisy is the tendency to create a pious façade, to play the part, even while living a life devoid of love and concern for others.

Truly, brokenness mars the lives of all three of these men.

Who is my neighbor?

This story is really about the choices we make in how we respond to the needs of the ones God puts in our path. This story is not a call to help everyone with needs and problems. It is a call to do what we can to help the hurting person right in front of us.

The one we have to go out of our way to avoid.

Where are we crossing the road to avoid dealing with a person in our lives? Who is our neighbor at this moment in time?

Linking today with Bloggy neighbors: Coffee for Your Heart, #TellHisStory, #ThreeWordWednesday, Faith Filled Friday, Counting My Blessings, and Grace and Truth.


  1. It is great to be reminded that our neighbors our the ones right in front of us. Sometimes I find myself not wanting to be bothered because I feel I have other things that may require my attention so I am like the others who didn’t stop for the man on the side of the road that needed help. I have to make more of a conscious effort to remember I can’t truly love God with all my heart, mind, and soul without loving my neighbor.

    • Ginger Harrington

      Writing these posts on Luke 10 comes from the conviction and insight God gave as I read these verses in my quiet time last week. I have made excuses of many kinds, and God is working on my heart in this area. Today I had the blessing of helping a neighbor and I was not surprised God gave me an opportunity to apply what I’m writing about.

  2. Thank you for a timely reminder! Stopping by from coffee for your heart! Blessings.

  3. I shudder to think of the excuses I’ve made over the years. Thanking God for his grace and mercy this morning. I also thank you, Ginger, for raising my awareness today. 🙂 Blessings!

    • Ginger Harrington

      Yes, this got me. I have made way too many excuses! I too am so very grateful for mercy that points us in the right direction rather than condemns. Really thinking through Christ’s words to the Pharisees this summer!

  4. “Love doesn’t make excuses” Powerful! I can think of times that Oh I’m to busy, or just don’t want to be bothered by that. Thanks for the reminder on a #ThoughtProvokingThursday.

  5. I smiled when I read the first word of your post. Loved this! 🙂

  6. Oh I know about excuses too, but I love how God gives us another chance … time and time again. Thanks for sharing this at #ThreeWordWednesday.

  7. Beautiful. I love, “It is a call to do what we can to help the hurting person right in front of us.”

  8. What a wonderfully well written post! This is definitely something we need to remember each day. God wants us to be WILLING to help those that we can with a loving heart. It is my hope and prayer that my eye and heart is open to my neighbor. Thank you for sharing this post on Grace & Truth

    • Ginger Harrington

      So happy to meet you in this bloggy world. Willingness leads to action in some very real ways. I have to really watch my heart as I often get too tied into tasks. Open-hearted living is such a good way to put it.

  9. Great post! I’m visiting you from Grace & Truth Link Up. Precisely, I’m your neighbor. Blessings


  10. This post is so timely for me. Praying and rethinking. Thank you, Ginger.

  11. Elihishua ibn Dabit barAbbas

    My neighbors are the 7.6 billion brothers I share Father’s earth with. Howdy neighbors.

    I love each as I do my church, as tiny as it may be. She is still quite beautiful though and will make Father happy when she is adorned in white and ready to become one with Father as the Anointed is.

    When the word reminds me of this narrow path I walk, it hurts me to my soul seeing so many on that broad road to death.

    Love your neighbors as The anointed love the church and love Father above all forever.

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