Forgiving Sets You Free: 10 Steps to More Hope and Healing
What does it mean to forgive and how do we live it out? Discover how forgiving sets you free with powerful steps to hope and healing. Holding onto resentment doesn’t punish the other person; it keeps you trapped. Don’t miss the free downloadable guide with this post!
If you’re feeling stuck, weighed down, or even resistant to forgiving someone, you’re not alone. God has given us a path to freedom, healing, and peace. In this post, we’ll uncover practical steps and spiritual truths to help you release resentment, embrace hope, and make forgiveness a habit.
If you’re ready to step into freedom, keep reading—and if you want deeper encouragement, listen to the full episode of the Habits of Hope Podcast!
Understanding Biblical Forgiveness
One of my favorite verses about the importance of forgiving others is found in Colossians 3:13: “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
Forgiveness Reflects Christ: We forgive not because the other person deserves it but because Christ forgave us first.
Forgiveness Requires God’s Strength: Without the life and love of Christ within us, it’s impossible to forgive at the level we are called to.
Part of Christian Living: Paul teaches that forgiveness is essential to walking in love and living out the Christian life.
Not Based on Feelings: Forgiveness is a decision, not something that depends on our emotions. We must trust God with the offense even when we don’t feel like forgiving.
Aligning with Our Identity in Christ: As new creations, our nature in Christ is to forgive, but we often fall back into old coping strategies and flesh patterns.
This verse inspires a powerful habit of hope:
Forgive as Christ forgave you, as you let go of resentment and trust God with your pain.
With this habit of hope, forgiveness becomes a bridge to healing and freedom from our pain. Is it easy? Not at all, but it is worth it!
What Forgiveness Is (and Isn’t)
Forgiving sets us free and opens the door to hope. Many people hesitate to forgive for many reasons. Let’s clear up some common misconceptions about what it means to forgive:
Forgiveness is NOT excusing the offense. It does not mean what happened was okay.
Forgiveness is NOT forgetting, discounting the offense, or pretending everything’s fine. Some wounds leave lasting scars, but healing means they no longer control us.
Forgiveness is NOT about who deserves it; it’s about trusting God with justice and releasing yourself from the weight of anger.
Forgiveness is NOT reconciliation. While forgiveness is a personal choice, reconciliation requires effort from both parties. Reconciliation may come, but it is important to understand the distinction between the two.
Forgiveness IS releasing bitterness. It frees you from carrying the weight of resentment.
Forgiveness IS trusting God with justice. Letting go means allowing God to deal with the offender in His perfect way.
Imagine carrying a heavy backpack filled with rocks—each one representing a grudge or past hurt. Every day, the weight slows you down. The longer you carry it, the heavier it feels. Now picture setting it down. The relief is immediate.
Forgiveness is like that. It doesn’t erase the pain, but it frees you from carrying the burden every day.
Forgiveness is a Decision, Not an Emotion
If we wait until we feel like forgiving, we may never do it— Processing our feelings is often the hardest part of forgiveness. Another misconception about forgiveness is that we will feel better as soon as we forgive.
Imagine a train climbing a steep hill. The engine represents the decision to forgive, while the caboose symbolizes our emotions. When we choose to forgive, the train begins moving forward, even if our feelings haven’t caught up yet.
At first, it may feel like nothing has changed. The pain is still there. The hurt still stings. But as the train continues down the track, the caboose—our emotions—eventually follows.
Forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling. We make the decision to forgive in obedience to God, trusting that over time, our emotions will align with our choice. The key is to stay on track, keep trusting God, and allow His grace to bring healing as we move toward freedom.
Are you willing to start the journey, even if your feelings aren’t there yet?
How to Forgive: Steps to Freedom Through Forgiveness
Forgiveness can feel impossible when the pain is still fresh. We may want to forgive, but we aren’t sure how to really mean it. The following steps will show you how to forgive, even when it’s hard.
Start with a Willing Heart
Acknowledge that forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling.
Ask God to help you be open to forgiving, even if you don’t feel ready.
Name the Hurt and Acknowledge the Loss
Identify what was lost—whether it’s trust, peace, a relationship, or security. Name the hurt, being specific about how the offense has impacted you.
Be honest with yourself and God about the pain. Avoiding, minimizing or suppressing hurt only keeps it festering.
Writing down your thoughts or praying through them helps bring clarity.
Entrust the Hurt to God
Surrender the offense to God, trusting Him with justice and healing.
Embrace the truth that God’s command to forgive is for your benefit.
Prayer: “Lord, I give this pain to You. Help me heal and walk in freedom.”
Make the Decision to Forgive
Saying the words “I choose to forgive [name] for [specific hurt]” out loud can be a powerful act of release.
If it helps, visualize yourself speaking directly to the person (even if they’re not present), letting them go in your heart.
Choose to release bitterness, even if you don’t feel like it.This reinforces your decision and helps break the emotional hold of unforgiveness.
Remember that forgiveness is between you and God, not dependent on the offender’s actions.
Let Go of the Need for an Apology
While an apology is important and meaningful, it is not a requirement of forgiveness.
Waiting for an apology only keeps you trapped in resentment.
Forgiveness is about freeing yourself, not excusing the offender.
Set Healthy Boundaries if Needed
Forgiveness does not mean being a “doormat” or tolerating ongoing harm.
Determine if some kind limits are necessary to protect your well-being while still releasing bitterness.
Pray for the Person Who Hurt You
This step may feel impossible at first, but prayer shifts your heart from bitterness to peace.
Jesus said in Luke 6:27-28: “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.”
Prayer doesn’t justify their actions—it softens your heart and places them in God’s hands.
Commit to the Process of Forgiveness
Understand that emotions take time to align with your choice to forgive.
When bitterness resurfaces, remind yourself of your decision and continue to work through your feelings with God.
Remember forgiveness is an act of faith and obedience to God.
Embrace the Freedom That Forgiveness Brings
By faith, receive the blessings of forgiveness, trusting God to make it a reality in your experience in His timing.
Recognize the peace, healing, and emotional freedom that come with forgiveness.
Walk forward in hope, knowing that forgiveness is a reflection of God’s grace in your life.
Seek support if needed.
Deep wounds can be difficult to navigate alone. When needed, seek wise counsel from a trusted friend, mentor, or therapist.
Pray and ask God to lead you to the right person who can offer wisdom and support.
When we don’t forgive or deal with our pain, bitterness can become part of our identity. We can begin to see ourselves as victims, allowing the pain to control or define our lives. Truly, this is no way to live. It is not God’s desire for you to be a prisoner to the pain of the past. This is why it’s so important to understand the meaning of forgiveness and how to do it!
Podcast Quotes on Forgiving
“Forgiveness is a gift that sets us free and opens the door to hope.”
“Forgiveness isn’t about excusing the hurt or pretending everything’s fine.”
“When you feel the weight of hurt, choose to forgive as Christ forgave you.”
“Forgiveness requires patience, humility, and a willingness to let go of grievances.”
“We forgive not because the hurt was okay, but because Christ forgave us first.”
“Forgiveness isn’t about who deserves it; it’s about reflecting God’s grace.”
“Forgiveness isn’t just for the other person—it’s for you.”
“Letting go doesn’t change the past, but it frees your future.”
Practical Ways to Practice the Forgiveness Habit
Make forgiveness a natural part of your life with these simple daily practices.
✔ Keep short accounts. Address issues quickly before resentment builds up.
✔ Reflect each night. Before bed, reaffirm your choice to forgive and release any lingering bitterness.
✔ Remind yourself of God’s grace. Just as Christ forgave you, you are called to extend that grace to others.
✔ Use Scripture as a guide. Meditate on Colossians 3:13 and Matthew 18:21-22.
By making forgiveness a habit, you’ll not only experience greater peace and healing but also reflect Christ’s love in your daily life.
What Happens When You Forgive?
When you choose forgiveness, you step into freedom from bitterness and the taxing weight of carrying old wounds. Holding grudges may feel like self-protection, but in reality, it only keeps you bound.
Forgiveness, on the other hand, opens the door to healing and peace. It strengthens your faith, deepens your dependence on God, and helps you grow spiritually in ways you never imagined.
As you let go, you’ll begin to notice a shift—your heart softens, your relationships strengthen, and peace replaces the turmoil that once lived inside you. And here’s the beautiful part: when you forgive, you reflect the love of Christ in a powerful way. The world is watching how we respond to hurt, and when we choose grace over grievance, we become a living testimony of God’s grace.
This week, take action by choosing one of the following:
Identify a person or situation where you need to forgive.
Write down what you need to release and pray through it.
Ask God to help you forgive, even if you’re not ready.
Pray for someone who has hurt you.
Even though forgiveness is a decision, it is also a journey of trust, faith, and growth. Every step you take brings you closer to the freedom God desires for you.
The Forgiveness Habit Prayer
Lord,
Thank you that you have forgiven me more than I deserve. You call me to forgive just as You forgave me through Christ. Right now, forgiveness feels hard. This hurt weighs heavy on my heart, but I know I don’t want to carry this bitterness any longer.
Today, I bring before You the person who hurt me and the pain it caused. I don’t want resentment to have power over me anymore. I name this wound and surrender it into Your hands. I choose to forgive _____ as You have forgiven me—not because the hurt was okay, but because I trust You with the healing and hope.
Help me to let go of anger and bitterness. Heal my heart, and teach me how to extend the same grace that You’ve shown me time and time again. Let Your love flow through me so that I may reflect Your grace to others.
Guide me to set healthy boundaries where needed, but keep my heart free from bitterness. I pray for peace in my soul and, if possible, for reconciliation. Thank You for the freedom that comes through forgiveness. By faith, I embrace Your grace that empowers me to love, even when it’s hard. When I struggle with my feelings, remind me that I have forgiven and released all of this into your hands.
Help me to practice forgiveness as a habit of hope in my life. Let it shape the way I respond to others, making forgiveness my first instinct instead of holding onto grievance. I trust You to lead me forward in the freedom of forgiveness.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of conflict, wondering why healthy relationships can feel so difficult? Misunderstandings, emotional reactions, and unmet expectations can strain even the strongest connections. Maybe it’s with your spouse, a friend, or a coworker—someone you deeply care about, yet the frustrations keep building.
Love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a set of habits we cultivate through daily choices to build stronger relationships. This can be really hard when conflict arises or we struggle with challenging personalities. When we react instead of responding, we get stuck in the same arguments over and over. Choosing gentleness and patience can break that crazy cycle.
Here’s the truth: relationships take intentional effort. God’s Word gives us hope for building good relationships that reflect the love of Christ. The key is in the daily choices we make to respond rather than react—habits that motivate us to choose grace over grievance.
In this post, we’ll explore five choices that can transform your relationships and help you handle conflict with grace. These practices are part of an ongoing series on building loving relationships that reflect Jesus. Be sure to check out Episode 22 on loving like Jesus and stick around for our upcoming episode on forgiveness.
Biblical Ways to Strengthen Your Relationships
“Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace.” – Ephesians 4:2-3
This verse is a powerful foundation for building Jesus-centered relationships. It reminds us that peace and unity don’t happen by accident—they require intentional habits. Humility, gentleness, patience, and grace are the qualities that strengthen relationships and help us reflect God’s love. But these traits aren’t always easy. They require us to set aside pride, impatience, and the need to be right.
When we adopt these spiritual qualities as habits, our relationships begin to thrive in ways that feel life-giving and peaceful.
Habit of Hope: Choose Grace Over Grievance
How often do we let frustration take over when someone irritates us? Maybe someone interrupted your plans or said something hurtful. Our natural reaction is often defensive, critical, or angry. But instead of letting that frustration fester, practice choosing grace over grievance.
This habit is about pausing, praying, and extending grace when someone disappoints or upsets you. It doesn’t mean ignoring hurt, but it does mean stepping back to respond thoughtfully instead of emotionally. Grace keeps conflict from escalating and opens the door for communication, understanding, and peace.
5 Habits for Responding Rather than Reacting in Relationships
Building healthy relationships isn’t just about reacting better in the moment; it’s about developing consistent, Christ-like habits that guide your thoughts, words, and actions daily. These five spiritual habits—humility, gentleness, patience, grace, and unity—are the foundation for relationships that thrive on trust, peace, and mutual growth.
When we actively practice these habits, they reshape how we handle conflict, disappointment, and misunderstandings, allowing us to reflect God’s love more fully. Let’s take a closer look at each habit and how you can apply it in your relationships today.
1. Walk in Humility
Humility is the foundation of strong relationships. It’s about valuing others above yourself. As Rick Warren wrote in The Purpose-Driven Life, “Humility is not thinking less of yourself but by thinking of yourself less.” (Affiliate link)
A humble heart listens without interrupting and releases the desire to have the last word. Practicing humility means valuing others by listening, learning, and being willing to apologize quickly when we’re wrong.
Key Action Steps:
Listen to understand, not just to make your point.
Be willing to admit when you’re wrong and apologize quickly.
Be careful with assumptions—ask questions instead of assuming you know what others are thinking.
Practice the art of not having to have the last word.
One way I struggle with this is the temptation to think I know what my husband is going to say. Sometimes I interrupt and finish his sentence, which can be really frustrating for him. Humility gives space for others to express themselves without interruption. I don’t do this on purpose, it is a reaction that I have to watch out for.
2. Choose Gentleness Over Harshness
In tense moments, it’s easy to raise your voice, snap back, or respond with sarcasm. But Proverbs 15:1 teaches us that a gentle answer turns away wrath, while a harsh word stirs up anger. Gentleness is strength under control. It helps de-escalate tension and protect the dignity of others.
Practical Steps:
Pause before you speak and ask, “Will my words build up or tear down?”
Use a calm tone to de-escalate tension.
Be mindful of how your words come across: Do you sound angry, frustrated, critical, or disrespectful?
Practice active listening to make others feel heard.
On the podcast, Larissa shared how learning to lower her voice during arguments with her husband, prevented conflicts from escalating. Responding rather than reacting enabled her to foster better communication and less conflict. Thats a win any day!
3. Cultivate Patience
Patience means giving people room to grow, make mistakes, and change without harsh judgment. In a fast-paced world, we often want things to happen immediately, but relationships thrive on grace-filled patience.
How many times have you heard someone say, “Don’t pray for patience unless you want to be tested”? What does this say about what we believe about God? Patience isn’t developed overnight. It’s a process of learning to pause, endure discomfort, and trust in God’s timing. Don’t be afraid to pray for patience, but even better is to ask Christ to express His patience in and through you.
Practical Steps:
When frustrated, take a deep breath and pray for patience.
Shift your perspective by asking, “What might this person be going through?”
Avoid rushing to fix things—give space for others to work through their struggles.
Give yourself margin so you aren’t in a rush.
In many ways, patience is an act of surrender and trust. Is it easy? This one is really challenging-especially when people frustrate you!
4. Bear with One Another’s Faults
No one is perfect—not you, not your loved ones. Relationships become strained when we expect others to meet our standards. Sometimes we even hold others to a higher standard than we hold ourselves. But when we expect perfection, we open the door to frustration and resentment.
Instead of holding onto frustration, we can respond with grace.
Are your expectations of others realistic, or are you placing burdens on them that only Christ can fulfill?
Gratitude can help shift your focus from criticism to appreciation.
If we want others to bear with our faults, we need to practice the same response.
5. Pursue Unity and Peace
Unity doesn’t mean everyone has to be the same. It’s about choosing love over division and working together as a team. Conflict is like a knot—when both sides pull harder, the knot tightens. But when you come together to untangle the knot, peace becomes possible.
Practical Steps:
Pray for wisdom and peace before having difficult conversations.
View the other person as your teammate, not your opponent.
Choose to prioritize reconciliation instead of winning the argument.
Best Quotes from the Podcast for Stronger Relationships
“Love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a set of habits we cultivate through daily choices.”–Ginger
“Our natural reaction is often defensive, sarcastic, and impatient. But responding with gentleness can de-escalate conflict and protect the other person’s dignity.”–Larissa
“Sometimes less is more. Not every comment needs to be addressed, and certainly, a snarky comment never helps.”–Larissa
“We are confident in Christ when we are grounded in our identity in Him. That confidence allows us to be humble, admit mistakes, and apologize without shame.”–Ginger
“When we are content, we aren’t as focused on wanting more or insisting on our way. Cultivating gratitude helps teach us that.”–Larissa
“Quick reactions and a hot temper are often signs of unresolved patterns of the flesh. We must lean on the Holy Spirit to help us grow in patience and gentleness.”–Ginger
“Gratitude shifts our focus from entitlement to appreciation. When we recognize blessings, it transforms both our perspective and our relationships.”–Larissa
“Conflict is like a knot. If you keep pulling, it tightens. But if you work together as a team, you can slowly untangle it.”–Larissa
“Being quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger is a game-changing habit for cultivating peace and unity.”–Ginger
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Build Habits That Reflect Christ’s Love in Your Relationships
Healthy, Christ-centered relationships are built on daily habits of humility, gentleness, patience, grace, and unity. These habits may not come naturally, but with God’s help, we can grow in love and peace. When we choose to give people grace instead of grievance, we reflect the heart of Christ and create space for healing and growth.
What relationship in your life could use more grace this week? Take a moment to pray and reflect on which habit you can intentionally practice today.
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10 Meaningful Ways to Love Others with the Love of Christ
Discover meaningful ways to love others with the love of Christ with practical, biblical wisdom to strengthen your relationships.
The original blog post, 10 Biblical Ways to Love, served as the inspiration for this podcast series on love and forgiveness. As we reflected on my top blog post on this website, Larissa and I realized there was so much more to explore—how to apply these truths in real-life relationships, how to let Christ’s love flow through us, and how to build habits that reflect His unconditional love.
Throughout this month, we will be diving deeper into Scripture, sharing personal stories, and offering fresh insights to help you live out God’s command to love others with grace and intentionality.
Loving Others Well Takes More than a Good Intention
We all know the importance of love. It’s written about, preached on, and celebrated in countless ways. But knowing something and living it are two different things. What happens when the person we’re supposed to love gets on our last nerve? Or when someone’s actions hurt us deeply? In moments like these, love can feel more like an impossible ideal than a practical reality.
Yet, this is precisely when love’s transformative power makes the biggest impact. Jesus didn’t call us to love others only when it’s convenient. Instead, He commanded us to love with the same sacrificial, unconditional love He demonstrated. It’s a love that goes beyond fleeting emotions—a love grounded in humility, patience, and grace.
The truth is, we can’t muster this kind of love on our own. It flows through us as we abide in Christ, letting His Spirit work within us. When we align our hearts with His, even small acts of kindness and care can create ripples of hope and healing. In this post, we’ll explore biblical principles and meaningful ways to love others with the love of Christ.
Loving like Jesus requires more than our human effort. It’s about letting Christ’s love flow through us. Let’s explore practical steps to live out this habit of hope with purpose and grace.
A Command to Love: John 13:34-35
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples if you love one another.”
This isn’t a polite suggestion. Jesus gives a direct command: love one another as He loved us. But this isn’t just any love—it’s agape love. It’s the kind of love that sacrifices, forgives, and keeps showing up even when it’s inconvenient. And that’s where the challenge begins. It’s easy to love when others behave, but what about when they don’t? When others don’t agree with me or when they don’t do what I want them to do, it takes more intention and effort to show love.
Loving others with Christ’s love means relying on the Holy Spirit, not on our own strength and effort. True love flows from receiving and abiding in the love of Christ. When we live this out, it sets us apart. Jesus said that love would be the distinguishing mark of His disciples. When we love well, people take notice and see a reflection of Christ. It can become a powerful way of sharing the gospel that reaches deeper than words.
Learning to Let Christ’s Love Flow Through You
“Live loved.” When you are secure in God’s love for you, it becomes more natural to extend that same love to others. However, this habit requires intentionality. One of the most practical ways to live it out is to start your day abiding in Christ. Spend time in prayer and Scripture, asking God to fill your heart with His love.
When frustrations inevitably arise, pause and pray before reacting. Even a one-second pause to pray, “Lord, express your love through me,” can prevent unnecessary hurt. This is a more powerful prayer than asking the Lord to “help” us love others better. This small shift in perspective makes a big difference. Spend time with the Lord, receiving His love, reflecting on what He has done for us, how He has forgiven us so unconditionally. Ask Him to fill us with His love and let it overflow to those around us.
Love is often expressed in simple, everyday actions. Serving others by offering a meal, helping with a task, or sharing a kind word can have a profound ripple effect. Words are powerful too. Scripture calls us to speak words that build others up. Eliminating sarcasm and replacing criticism with encouragement demonstrates love in action.
Biblical Insights on Loving Others
The Bible offers clear and practical ways to cultivate love for others through humility, encouragement, and care. Let’s break down these truths and how we can apply them:
Philippians 2:3-5: “Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves.”
This verse leaves no wiggle room for selfish motives. “Do nothing,” as in not one thing, rules out our tendency to make allowances or excuses for ourselves.
Putting others first challenges us to overcome self-centered habits. It’s easy to see life through the lens of “What about me?” Think how easy it is to want the biggest brownie, a reflection of how ingrained our selfish nature can be. The Lord often reminds me to practice giving others the first choice or the best option as a practical way to give preference to others.
In The Purpose-Driven Life, Rick Warren explains, “Humility doesn’t mean thinking less of yourself; it means thinking of yourself less.” The simplicity of this quote helps me understand humility better.
Romans 12:10: “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”
Devotion involves commitment, loyalty, and intentional care. This type of devotion isn’t contingent on convenience but is a lifestyle of putting others’ needs before your own. Honor in relationships strengthens trust and reflects the heart of Christ.
Consider what it means to be devoted: it’s showing up for people, especially in their times of need. It’s choosing to be present, even when you’re busy or tired. This kind of consistent love builds lasting relationships.
Romans 14:19: “Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.”
Encouraging others builds them up and brings peace. Words have the power to make others feel seen and valued in their struggles. We live in a world saturated with criticism, and encouragement can be a rare gift.
Mutual edification means lifting each other up. It’s not a one-sided effort. We’re called to create environments where everyone can thrive through encouragement and support.
Ephesians 4:29: “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs.”
Our speech should reflect God’s love. Replacing sarcasm and negativity with life-giving words is a countercultural act of grace. Words can heal or hurt, and we’re instructed to choose them wisely.
One practical approach to this verse is to perform a self-check before speaking: Are my words helpful? Are they necessary? Am I speaking life or draining hope from someone?
1 Corinthians 12:25: “So that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.”
True care extends beyond words. Offering practical help, emotional support, and presence is essential to showing love. Think about times when you’ve been cared for—whether through a meal delivery, a thoughtful text, or a friend showing up unannounced to help with a task. These gestures, though seemingly small, have profound effects.
Unity in the body of Christ grows when we make efforts to genuinely care for others without expecting anything in return. Equal concern fosters a spirit of compassion and empathy.
Each of these scriptures reinforces that love is not merely an emotion; it’s a series of choices and habits that reflect the heart of Christ.
How to Practice Love Through Daily Actions
Consider a variety of practical ways to show the love of Christ to others. It can mean so much to people when they experience the love of Jesus flowing through us.
Receive Christ’s Love Daily
Begin each day with prayer and Scripture, asking God to fill your heart with His unconditional love.
Reflect on God’s forgiveness and grace to increase your capacity to love others.
Pause and Pray Before Reacting
When conflicts arise, take a moment to pause and pray for patience and understanding.
A simple prayer like “Lord, help me respond in love” can save you from hurtful reactions.
See Others Through God’s Eyes
Shift your perspective by viewing others as God’s beloved creation.
Pray for those who challenge you and ask God to soften your heart toward them.
Serve Others in Small Ways
Offer tangible acts of kindness such as bringing a meal, helping with a task, or sending a thoughtful message.
Remember, small acts can create a ripple effect of care and encouragement.
Speak Words that Build Up
Be mindful of your words, replacing sarcasm and criticism with encouragement.
Make it a habit to speak life and hope into others’ lives.
Cultivate Gratitude
Focus on God’s faithfulness to cultivate a heart of gratitude.
Gratitude can reduce criticism and improve your interactions with others.
Practice Humility
Put others’ needs ahead of your own by giving them preference in small situations.
Practice letting go of self-centered thinking by choosing humility daily.
Care for Others Actively
Reach out to someone in need by offering emotional support, physical help, or prayer.
Small gestures like a text message or phone call can make someone feel seen and valued.
Be Intentional
Spend five minutes each day encouraging someone with a kind word, note, or small act of service.
Set reminders to help you develop this new habit consistently.
Ask God to Help You Notice Others’ Needs
Pray for greater awareness of the needs around you and ask God to guide your responses.
Stay open to “on-the-go” care opportunities in your daily routine.
Love that Makes a Difference
Imagine what could happen if we all made a habit of depending on Christ to love others through us. Our focus would shift from ourselves to those around us, and we’d begin to see the world through God’s eyes. One small act of love can remind someone that they are deeply cherished by their Creator.
Real love—Christ’s love—has the power to change lives, including your own. By choosing to love others with intention, you become part of God’s plan to bring hope and healing into the world. Step out in faith this week and see how small acts of love can spark something extraordinary.
Moments to Love One Another in Ginger’s Book
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In this episode of the Habits of Hope Podcast, we’re diving into 8 powerful biblical truths that will anchor your heart in hope this year. From God’s unshakable love to His perfect timing and eternal promises, these truths provide the foundation you need to navigate life’s storms with confidence and peace. Whether you’re battling anxiety, waiting on answers, or simply longing for a fresh perspective, this episode is filled with practical encouragement and Scriptural wisdom to remind you that hope is always within reach.
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21.Habit Stacking for Christians: Build Faith and Hope One Step at a Time
What if even the smallest moments of your day could transform your faith and hope? In this insightful episode, Ginger and Larissa dive into the power of tiny, intentional habits to create spiritual growth and lasting hope. From habit stacking to celebrating small wins, they explore how being faithful in the little things can make a big difference. Inspired by Matthew 25:21, this episode offers practical tips, relatable stories, and encouraging truths to help you live with intention and deepen your walk with God.
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How to Harness the Power of Tiny Habits for Spiritual Growth
Learn the power of tiny habits for spiritual growth. Discover practical ways live out the “faithful in the little things” Bible verse, guided by biblical truths and simple ways to build spiritual habits. Habit stacking can transform your daily routines into opportunities for deeper faith.
What If Spiritual Growth Was Simpler Than You Thought?
Do you feel like life’s busy routines get in the way of building your faith? You want to pray more, but you’re not sure how to add something else to your day.
What if the very habits you already do every day—like brushing your teeth or drinking coffee—could become moments to grow closer to God?
Habit stacking offers a simple, practical way to integrate faith-building practices into your daily life without adding overwhelm. By pairing new spiritual habits with existing routines, you can cultivate hope and deepen your relationship with God.
If you’re not a fan of the word ‘habit,’ don’t worry—it doesn’t really matter what you call it. Whether you think of it as a routine, a practice, or a spiritual rhythm, the key is finding practical ways to be faithful and grow closer to God in your everyday life.
Keep reading to discover how to start habit stacking, reflect on biblical truths about faithfulness in small things, and take small steps to build hope and trust in God. Watch or listen to the podcast for the full content.
Faithful in the Little Things Bible Verse
The words of Jesus in this Scripture verse shows us the importance of training ourselves to be faithful even in the small things.
Matthew 25:21 – “Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.”
I really want to hear Jesus say this, don’t you?
What does it mean to be faithful in the little things?
Faithfulness doesn’t just happen-it is built one day at a time. The word “faithful” in this verse comes from the Greek word pistos, which means trustworthy and reliable.
To be faithful in the little things is to demonstrate consistency, dependability, and honesty in our daily actions—no matter how small or unseen they may seem. It’s about stewarding the time, opportunities and resources God has entrusted to us.
God values consistency. Just as the servant in the parable was faithful with what God gave him to do, we are called to honor God through steady, reliable actions in our everyday lives.
Faithfulness leads to joy. When we honor God through small acts of obedience, we enter into the joy and blessing that comes from living in alignment with His will.
It’s about stewardship. Being faithful means treating every gift, responsibility, and moment as a divine opportunity to glorify God and bless others.
Faithfulness in the little things reflects our trust in God and prepares us for greater responsibilities, blessings and opportunities. It reminds us that spiritual growth is not about monumental achievements but about consistent, steady progress.
Whether it’s committing to a daily prayer, reading scripture, or serving others with humility, God sees and values each step of obedience.
What Is Habit Stacking?
Habit stacking is a concept popularized by BJ Fogg in his book Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything. It involves attaching a new, desired action to something you already do consistently, making it easier to remember and integrate into your routine. (Affiliate link)
Fogg’s research highlights how small, simple actions are often the most effective way to create lasting change. They build on existing momentum rather than requiring a complete overhaul of your life. By linking a new habit to something already ingrained, you increase the likelihood of sticking with it over time.
Why Habit Stacking Works:
Fogg explains that habits succeed when they’re anchored to something familiar. This process leverages your brain’s natural tendency to connect related activities, making the new habit feel almost automatic. Each time you practice a habit, the pathway in your brain becomes more efficient, much like a trail becoming clearer with frequent use.
Here’s why habit stacking is particularly effective for Christians who want to cultivate spiritual growth:
It builds on routines. Adding faith-based habits to your current routines ensures they feel natural and seamless.
It simplifies growth. Small, manageable actions feel achievable, removing the pressure of drastic changes.
It creates intentionality. Turning ordinary moments into spiritual opportunities brings focus and purpose to your day.
Larissa put it beautifully in our podcast episode: “Stack your habits, grow your faith.” By tying a new habit to something you already do, you create a reliable rhythm that makes spiritual practices part of your daily life.
From Autopilot to Intentionality:
Harnessing the Power of Small Habits
Have you ever driven somewhere on autopilot, only to realize you weren’t even thinking about where you were going? Habits can be like that—working in the background, shaping our actions without us even realizing it.
My husband jokingly calls me his “auto-pilot woman” because I sometimes operate so automatically I don’t even notice it.
The truth is, being faithful in the little things doesn’t happen by accident.
It takes intentionality. If habits are going to form anyway, why not make them purposeful? Imagine how much spiritual growth could happen if we transformed these autopilot moments into opportunities to connect with God. This is the power of tiny, intentional habits.
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How to Build Spiritual Habits with Habit Stacking
Habit stacking doesn’t have to be complicated. Think of habit stacking like building a train. Each new habit you attach to an existing routine is like adding another car to the engine. Once the train gets moving, the momentum builds naturally.
5 Steps to Build a Habit Stacking Routine
Here’s a step-by-step guide to get started building faithful habits and routines:
Identify a daily routine. Look for activities you already do consistently, like brushing your teeth, commuting, or making dinner.
Choose one spiritual habit. Pick a small action you want to integrate, such as praying, meditating on a verse, or practicing gratitude.
Pair them together. Attach the new habit to the existing routine (e.g., pray while brushing your teeth).
Start small. Begin with 1-2 minutes to make it manageable and build confidence.
Celebrate progress. Acknowledge each time you complete the habit, even with a simple “thank you, God.”
Adjust When Needed: If a habit doesn’t feel natural, tweak it or attach it to a different routine. Experiment until you find a rhythm that feels natural and easy to keep up with.
Examples of Habit Stacking for Christians
Transform your routines into rhythms of hope and faith. Here are practical ways to integrate faith-building habits into your day:
Pray while brushing your teeth.
Express gratitude during your morning coffee.
Meditate on a verse while commuting.
Recite a short prayer of trust while washing dishes.
Listen to a spiritual podcast while folding the laundry.
Each of these small actions reflects the principle that “faithfulness in the small things” leads to spiritual growth. By consistently pairing new habits with your daily routines, you create opportunities for God to work in and through the ordinary moments of your life.
Benefits of Simple Routines for Spiritual Growth
Habit stacking can be a powerful way to be faithful in the little things, even on the busiest days.
Habit stacking anchors your faith in daily life by:
Turning daily routines into opportunities for spiritual growth.
Simplifying the process of building new habits.
Creating a natural rhythm for practicing faith.
Reducing overwhelm by focusing on small, consistent steps.
Building momentum for greater changes over time.
Habit stacking isn’t just a tool for productivity—it’s a way to anchor your faith in the everyday moments of life. By turning small, consistent actions into spiritual practices, you invite God into your daily routines and create space for growth and transformation.
Overcoming Challenges: Adjusting as Needed
Sometimes habits don’t stick, and that’s okay. Here are ways to adjust:
Start smaller: Feeling overwhelmed? Scale back the habit to its simplest form to make it more manageable.
Experiment with a new cue: Test out different anchors or triggers to remind you of the habit, like a specific action, time, or place.
Choose a different time of day: If the habit feels forced or inconvenient, move it to a time when it naturally fits better.
Commit to a short trial period: Start with a one-week commitment to see how the habit works for you before making adjustments.
Prioritize consistency over perfection: The goal isn’t to be perfect—it’s to stay consistent. Every small effort adds up over time.
Consistency matters more than perfection. Every small effort is a meaningful step in the right direction.
Podcast Quotes to Inspire Your Faith Journey
Sometimes a single phrase can spark encouragement and remind us of God’s faithfulness. Here’s a selection of quotables from the engaging conversation on the podcast:
“God values faithfulness in the little things—these small moments matter.”
“Adjusting your habits isn’t failure—it’s part of finding what works for you.”
“Our brains love shortcuts. Tiny habits make new patterns effortless over time.”
“Tiny habits pave the way for transformation—small steps create big change over time.”
“Consistency in one area builds the muscle to be consistent in other areas.”
Which of these resonates most with you today?
Action Steps to Take Today
Ready to get started with a tiny habit? By starting small and staying consistent, you can create habits that cultivate faithfulness in your life. Here are some practical action steps to help you get started on adding tiny habits to your day.
Identify one routine you already follow daily (e.g., coffee, teeth brushing).
Choose a spiritual habit to pair with it (e.g., prayer, scripture reflection).
Track your progress in a journal or app.
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Each step, no matter how small, is a meaningful act of trust and worship. Remember, spiritual growth is a journey, not a race. Choose one action today, commit to it, and watch how God uses your faithfulness in the little things to transform your life in big ways.
A Word of Caution About Habits
While habits are valuable, they’re the pathway, not the goal. Oswald Chambers offers this wise reminder: “Your god may be your little Christian habit—the habit of prayer or Bible reading at certain times of your day. Watch how your Father will upset your schedule if you begin to worship your habit instead of what the habit symbolizes.’
So as you cultivate habits of faithfulness, remember to hold them with open hands. Be intentional, but flexible. Ask God to guide and bless your efforts as you cultivate faithfulness in the little, but oh-so-important things that honor Him.
Start Small, Stay Faithful
Habit stacking is more than just a productivity tool—it’s a way to deepen your relationship with God and infuse your daily life with hope. As Matthew 25:21 reminds us, God values faithfulness in the little things. By starting small and staying consistent, you can create spiritual habits that transform your life.
Ready to build habits of faith and hope? Listen to or watch the full episode of the Habits of Hope Podcast for more practical tips and inspiring insights. Don’t forget to subscribe and share this post with someone who needs encouragement today!
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10 Life-Changing Bible Verses to Inspire Hope This Year
Start your day with Bible verses to inspire hope. Embrace God’s promises of hope to anchor your heart and practical step to transform your perspective with faith. Don’t miss the free printable 31-day Scripture guide in this post!
Imagine facing each day with confidence, knowing your heart is anchored in God’s promises of hope. Life can often feel overwhelming, but hope isn’t reserved for optimists—it’s available to everyone who chooses to trust in God’s truth.
Life has no shortage of challenges that can steal our hope if we let them. Hope is not only possible, it’s closer than you think. There are many Bible verses to anchor our heart in hope on our good days as well as our worst days.
A Habit to Embrace God’s Promises of Hope
One simple yet powerful way to cultivate a hopeful heart is to focus on a biblical truth of hope each day. This small but intentional practice can help you navigate life’s challenges with renewed faith and confidence.
“This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, a hope both sure and reliable and one which enters within the veil.” -Hebrews 6:19
Hope in God is compared to an anchor—steady and reliable, even during life’s storms. It keeps us steady when the waves of uncertainty crash around us. Hope keeps our faith stable and prevents us from drifting into despair.
When life feels chaotic, remind yourself: “Hope anchors my soul.” Trusting in God’s promises can stabilize your heart, no matter the challenges you face.
10 Life-Changing Truths to Anchor Your Heart in Hope This Year
Consider the following Bible verses to inspire hope in your life. Take time to reflect and pray about each verse. Be sure to get the beautiful 31 Days of Hope Scripture guide to help you put this into practice and build a power habit of hope in your life. You’ll see the sign up later in this post or click here to get your guide.
1. In Christ, You Are a Deeply Loved Child of God
“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!”—1 John 3:1
No matter how you feel about yourself today, remember that God’s love is not conditional. Freely given, it’s not something that you have to earn. Being God’s child means you are part of His family, and nothing can change that. His love for you is so vast and so real that He gave His son to save you, and that is the depth of His care and commitment for you. God’s love for you is not a just-put-up-with-you kind of love. It’s abundant, real, and true…so you can live in hope every day.
2. There Is No Condemnation in Christ
“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”-Romans 8:1
We all struggle with self-condemnation at times. Because of Christ, you are no longer defined by your sins or past mistakes. Condemnation has no place in your life, so your soul can exhale a big sigh of relief. You can stop the inner dialogue of self-condemnation when you fall short.
I recently talked with a friend who worried about things that happened in the past:
Mistakes
Hurts
Sins
She wished that she could go back and do it all differently. I reminded her that condemnation is not from God.
Living without condemnation brings freedom to walk in the fullness of God’s grace and the fullness of who you are in Christ. If you’ve been replaying mistakes in your mind, struggling with shame, or trying to rewrite your past, hear this: Your past doesn’t define you. God’s grace does.
If you are a believer in Christ, the issues from the past do not disqualify you from a future of hope.
3. God Is for You
“If God is for us, who can be against us?” –Romans 8:31
This is such a powerful promise of hope. God is not just passively putting up with you—He is actively for you. He fights battles for you and works for your good. When life feels like it’s a fight, remind yourself with God on my side, I am not alone in my battles.
When we dwell on our mistakes or failures, it can be hard to believe this truth. That’s when we most need to hold fast to this truth.
4. You Are Never Alone
“The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” – Deuteronomy 31:8
Feeling alone and experiencing fear can rob us of hope, particularly when we’re facing hard things or we’re facing uncertainty.
Loneliness is a reality many of us face at times, but God’s Word promises that His presence is constant. You are never beyond His care or reach. When you feel abandoned or isolated, remind yourself: “I am never out of His sight. God is with me.”
It’s easy to rely on our feelings to discern God’s presence. But his presence doesn’t necessarily have a feeling attached to it. When we depend on our feelings, we can really struggle to believe that God is really with us. This is why we need to take time to anchor our hearts in hope through God’s Word.
Embracing this truth regardless of what we feel empowers us to face fear or loneliness with hope and faith. Is this easy? No, but it is worth the effort to stand firm in the truth of God’s Word.
5. You Were Made for a Purpose
“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”-Ephesians 2:10
You are intentionally designed by God with unique gifts, talents, and opportunities to fulfill His purposes. When life feels directionless, let this truth give you hope—your life has meaning, and God’s plans for you are good. Even on the days you fail, God still has a purpose for you.
6. God’s Timing Is Purposeful
“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” -Ecclesiastes 3:1
“He has made everything appropriate in its time.”-Ecclesiastes 3:11
Waiting can feel frustrating, but leaning into God’s perfect timing offers a deep sense of peace. God’s plans are never late; they’re always perfectly aligned with His purpose. While waiting, lean into faith and remember that God’s timing is working for your ultimate good.
I am very familiar with waiting on God’s timing. For over 10 years, I poured my heart into writing, hoping to publish a book. Along the way, there were moments of discouragement when I questioned if it would ever happen.
When a book offer finally came, I realized God had been preparing me for that exact moment. It aligned perfectly with a season of personal and professional growth that brought greater depth and insight to the book. Even a year earlier I would not have been able to write a book like Holy in the Moment.
7. God Is Working in You and Will Finish What He Started
“He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”-Philippians 1:6
Sometimes growth seems painfully slow. These are the moments to hold on the truth that God is shaping you into the person He created you to be. Spiritual growth takes place over a lifetime as we learn to live into the fullness of our identity in Christ.
Make the choice to trust that He’s not finished with you yet. Your story isn’t over, and His work in your life is ongoing.
8. God’s Plans Are Good
“’For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.’”-Jeremiah 29:11
This verse was spoken to the Israelites during a time of captivity and hardship, reminding them that God had not forgotten them. His plans, even in seasons of waiting or suffering, are rooted in His goodness and love.
God’s plans for us are rooted in His love and His goodness. They’re designed to bring us hope even when we don’t understand what’s going on or what the next step may be. When life feels uncertain, hold onto this truth: God’s plans for you are always for your ultimate good and His glory. Trusting in this promise allows us to surrender our fears and embrace the hope that God provides.
9. We Have Victory in Christ
“But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” – 1 Corinthians 15:57
We have victory not because we must win every battle, but because Christ has already won the ultimate battle over sin and death. When we feel defeated or under pressure, it’s easy to forget this reality: You’re not fighting for victory; you’re fighting from victory.
In Christ, we have forgiveness of our sins, and we have eternal life. Trusting in Christ empowers us to face daily challenges with courage and faith, knowing that your eternal future is secure.
When life feels like a battle, remember the battle is real but the victory is already won. Christ has won this victory for you.
10. We Have Eternal Hope
“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” – Revelation 21:4
Eternal hope reminds us that this life is not the end. God has prepared a perfect home for us in eternity.
When life feels overwhelming, let this truth anchor you. Knowing that God has an eternal plan gives us courage and peace to face today.
When my sister passed away, it was one of the hardest seasons of my life. In moments of grief, I find myself wondering why God allowed her to have ALS. I feel ache of her absence. But as I lean into God’s promises, I rejoice in the eternal hope we have in Christ.
This verse comforts my heart. Knowing that my sister is now in God’s presence, free from pain and filled with joy, brings me peace. I picture her walking in wholeness, and I feel true joy that this life is not the end.
Action Steps to Anchor Your Heart in Hope:
Consider the following ways you can put this habit of hope into action in your life.
Write Down Truths: Choose one of the eight truths that resonates most with you (e.g., “I am deeply loved by God”) and place it somewhere visible as a daily reminder.
Speak Truth Out Loud: When feelings of guilt, fear, or loneliness arise, declare biblical truths like “There is no condemnation in Christ” or “God is with me.”
Pray with Intention: Ask God for faith to trust His plans, timing, and promises, even when circumstances feel uncertain or overwhelming.
Reflect on God’s Promises: Spend time meditating on verses like Romans 15:13 or Philippians 1:6, letting them reshape your perspective and renew your hope.
Take a Small Step of Faith: Identify one way to live out your purpose today, whether by encouraging someone, serving others, or trusting God with an area of your life.
Cultivate Gratitude: Thank God for His presence, His work in your life, and the victory He has already secured for you.
Which one of these ideas could most help you anchor your heart in hope this year?
Anchor Your Heart in Hope That Lasts
Hope isn’t just for idealists or for people with perfect lives. It’s for anyone who trusts in Christ as their savior. For anyone willing to trust in God’s promises, no matter where they are in life.
This year, let’s cultivate a life of hope, anchored in God’s unchanging truth. Start building this habit with a simple daily practice. Let’s walk in hope together—one day, one truth at a time.
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Simple Habits to Nurture a Balanced Life This New Year
Start the year with hope and balance! Discover simple habits to nurture your body, soul, and spirit. Embrace small steps, trust God with the results to live with faith and balance this year. Read, listen, or watch the podcast in this post (the video is at the end of the post).
The start of a new year is the perfect time to reflect, realign, and begin fresh habits that nurture your body, soul, and spirit for a balanced life. A fresh start to the new year isn’t about doing everything perfectly. It’s about leaning into God’s guidance, embracing His mercies, and taking small steps toward the life He’s calling you to.
Big changes don’t happen overnight, but small, intentional steps can create momentum that leads to lasting transformation. If you’re ready to embrace progress over perfection and build a balanced, hope-filled life, this post will guide you with practical steps, faith-filled encouragement, and actionable insights to help you thrive in 2025.
Why Small Beginnings Matter in the New Year
When starting something new, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or think that small efforts don’t count. But the Bible reminds us in Zechariah 4:10: “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” This is a principle that applies to many areas of life.
God values even the tiniest steps you take toward growth, balance, and alignment. Each small act—whether it’s drinking more water, spending five minutes in prayer, or journaling—is part of His greater plan for your life.As you approach the new year, remember: “Small steps + big faith=lasting change.” Your efforts, no matter how small, delight the heart of God.
Can you think of a better way to start the year?
How to Create a Balanced Life with Simple Habits and Small Goals
True balance isn’t about doing everything perfectly; it’s about aligning your actions with your priorities and faith. Here is a list of key takeaways to help you create harmony between your body, soul, and spirit:
Start each day with intention by inviting God into your plans.
Focus on one small action daily for your body, soul, and spirit.
Let go of perfectionism and embrace faithful progress.
Celebrate small wins to build momentum and gratitude.
Reset anytime by pausing, praying, and taking the next step.
Trust God to guide you and leave the results in His hands.
Practice simple habits like drinking water, resting well, or meditating on scripture.
Reflect and journal to track your progress and God’s work in your life.
These principles create a foundation for holistic wellness and a thriving, faith-filled life. Let’s unpack these a little more.
What is a Balanced Life?
A balanced life doesn’t come from massive overhauls or exhausting yourself trying to do it all. It begins with shifting our perspective. True balance comes from the faithful and consistent choices that nurture every part of us, body, soul and spirit.
It isn’t about doing everything perfectly or keeping all the balls in the air. Start small. Focus more on small goals and daily steps, the micro habits that help you get to those bigger goals. If we’re faithful with the small things, the bigger things are going to come.
A Simple Habit to Begin Your Day Well
We all have a morning routine of some kind. Start each day with intention by inviting God into your plans. Ask for His guidance in your choices for the day. Trusting in God and looking for his guidance, relying on it, inviting him into each day empowers us to approach our daily choices with purpose and balance.
Aim for Progress Over Perfection
This simple habit has been a game-changer for me. Let go of perfectionism and embrace faithful progress. Seek forward movement and remember growth, change, and goals take time. It’s important to be patient rather than hold yourself to a rigid standard of perfection.
Life happens and we aren’t going to make perfect choices every day.
Perfectionism often traps us in shame and discouragement, but true growth happens when we embrace grace and keep moving forward. “Faithfulness today builds momentum for tomorrow,” and small, consistent actions lead to transformation over time.
It’s easy to live in overwhelm and stress when our goals or expectations are rooted in perfectionism. It’s a quick shift into “good girl, bad girl”, “shoulda, woulda, coulda” thinking versus “today I was faithful.”
As you set goals for the new year, shift your mindset from “not enough” to “progress is enough.”
Celebrate Your Daily Wins
Recognizing small wins is a simple habit that builds momentum and inspires gratitude. At the end of the day, reflect on what went well and thank God for progress, no matter how small. Keeping a journal is helpful way to celebrate those wins and see the progress over time.
When you write some of those things down on the daily, you can look back over the year and see growth and development. God’s always working in our lives, and it feels good to celebrate your efforts and growth.
Reset Without Guilt
When you get off track, pause, pray, and make the next healthy choice. Setbacks will happen, whether we like it or not. Creating a balanced response is a powerful habit that keeps us moving forward.
For me, disruptions in my daily routines often throw me off-track for a bit-especially when traveling or working on big projects. This is a simple habit that keeps disruptions from becoming roadblocks.
Refocus and make the next best choice rather than dwelling on setbacks because every healthy choice matters.
A Framework for Daily Balance
To make your wellness journey manageable, use this simple framework for daily alignment. Commit to nurture your body, soul, and spirit each day with daily simple actions that add up over time. Here are a few examples:
Body: Drink water, eat nourishing foods, or get moving for 10 minutes.
Soul: Practice gratitude, journal, or take a moment for quiet reflection.
Spirit: Meditate on a Bible verse, spend time in prayer, or listen to worship music.
This balanced approach ensures you’re caring for every part of yourself in alignment with God’s design.
What Happens When You Trust God with the Results?
One of the most freeing truths about personal growth is that the outcomes don’t depend solely on you. When we trust God with our efforts, we release the stress of trying to control the results. Instead, we shift our focus to faithfulness and let Him guide the process.
As Zechariah 4:10 reminds us, “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” God delights in our efforts, not just the end goal.
It’s easy to be hard on ourselves, especially when things don’t go as planned. Negative thinking can throw our soul out of balance and lead to discouragement. But when we trust God with the results, our work becomes about something bigger than just how we performed. It’s no longer about perfection but about walking in step with His purpose. This mindset not only honors God but also creates space for grace and peace in our lives.
Living this way allows us to focus on faithfulness in a balanced and healthy way. “Trust God with your journey, focusing on faithfulness while leaving the outcomes to Him.” Relying on His strength frees us from the pressure to achieve “perfect” results and reminds us that small, intentional steps are part of His greater plan.
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Best Quotes from the Podcast
Enjoy a selection of memorable moments from this episode. Which of these quotes resonates with you today?
“Small steps, big faith, lasting change.” — Ginger
“God rejoices when we begin, no matter how small.” — Larissa
“Faithfulness today builds momentum for tomorrow.” — Ginger
“The next right step doesn’t have to be big—it just has to be faithful.” — Larissa
“Don’t despise small beginnings; they lead to big blessings.” — Ginger
“True balance comes from grace, not from grinding.” — Larissa
“Celebrate what’s going right instead of dwelling on what’s wrong.” — Ginger
“God works in ways we can’t see—trust the process.” — Ginger
“Progress isn’t about perfection; it’s about persistence in faith.” — Larissa
A Prayer Nurture Body, Soul, and Spirit with Balance
Lord, I invite You into my habits and patterns, asking for Your guidance to live in harmony with Your purpose. Teach me to nurture my body, soul, and spirit in a way that honors You. Help me take small, faithful steps each day, trusting the work of the Holy Spirit within me to create balance and peace. Amen.
What Will Living Well with Balance Look Like for You This Year?
How is God inspiring you to nurture your whole person this year? What’s one small action you want to focus on this year? Share your goal in the comments below—your commitment may inspire someone else to take their first step!
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12 Bible Verses to Read Scripture as a Conversation with God
Discover how reading Scripture as a conversation with God can transform your spiritual life. Learn practical steps, benefits of engaged Bible reading, and explore Bible verses that deepen your connection with God. Start your journey toward meaningful, relational Bible reading today.
Does your Bible reading ever feel dry or routine, like just another item on your checklist? What if it could be something much more—a life-giving encounter with God? Imagine sitting down with the Word and feeling like you’re stepping into a real conversation with Him, where His voice is clear. God often gives us a longing for a deeper connection and the experience of more engaged Bible reading, which is a beautiful way God draws us closer to Himself.
How we relate to God as we engage with Him through reading the Bible makes all the difference in growing in a deeper relationship with God.
The Basics of Reading Scripture as a Conversation with God
Basic things cannot be skipped or ignored because they are important–that’s why they are basic! Sometimes I am tempted to skip basic steps because I want to get on to other things.
Over the years God has taught me to read scripture as a conversation—it is after all, His word. Most of the time we read for one of two purposes—information or entertainment. When we learn to read God’s word as a personal conversation, we can find ourselves reading for relationship rather than for information. This is a vital perspective shift.
Some of you may think, “Well, duh… everybody knows that.” Here’s the thing: not everybody does. And even when we know this, there’s always a temptation to open God’s Word without the awareness that every time we do, we can hear God speak.
When we are in a hurry it’s easy to approach the Bible with a “ho-hum, check-the-box” mentality. Let’s be honest—we’ve all had days like that.
The book Eat This Book by Eugene H. Peterson, the author of The Message, addresses the value of reading God’s Word as a conversation and the practice of lectio Davina (sacred reading). Peterson writes, “God does not make speeches; He enters conversations, and we are partners to the conversation…” (p. 107). He challenges readers to move beyond reading for information and embrace Scripture as a conversation with God, facilitated by the Holy Spirit.
This perspective helped me engage with God more intimately when I read the Bible.
In the Bible we read that the Word of God is living and active, as well as spiritually discerned. This is kind of a theological term, but to me it means that God designed His Word to be read in partnership with the Holy Spirit.
If I don’t have the Spirit in the equation, 1 + 1 will only add up to 2—just words —rather than adding up to life. It is the presence of the Holy Spirit that makes the ink on the page “living, active, and sharp (Hebrews 4:16). This is why Jesus told us that the words He speaks are spirit and life (John 6:63).
How to Read Scripture as a Conversation with God
- Start with Prayer for Engaged Bible Reading
Every meaningful conversation begins with intentionality. Engaged Bible reading is no different. Practice the basic habit of asking God to speak to you every time you open your Bible. I often think of prayer as opening the door to enter into God’s presence as you read. Here’s a simple prayer to get started: *”Lord, as I open Your Word today, open my heart. Highlight the truths You want me to see and teach me to listen for Your voice.”
- Read Slowly and Attentively as a Conversation with God
Don’t rush through your reading. Instead, approach the text expectantly, trusting that God will draw your attention to a specific verse, word, or idea. It helps to read a short passage a few times, pausing to reflect and listen each time.
- Focus on One Thing for Engaged Bible Reading
As you read, look for one verse or idea that stands out. What draws your attention? I like to envision the Holy Spirit using a yellow highlighter. Write it down, reflect on it, and meditate on its meaning throughout the day. This focus helps you internalize the message and creates space for deeper conversation with God.
- Respond in Prayer to Continue Your Conversation with God
Once a specific truth stands out, respond in prayer. Turn it into a conversation with God. Here are a few examples of ways to respond:
- Thank Him for the insight.
- Ask how it applies to your life.
- Receive the verse as life-giving words.
- Invite Him to help you live it out.
- Take It with You to Engage with God Throughout the Day
Keep the verse or idea visible during the day. Write it on a sticky note, save it as your phone wallpaper, or journal about it. Allow the truth to sink in and shape your actions.
Focus on One Idea When Reading Scripture as a Conversation with God
For relational reading, it is helpful to read a short passage, 1/2 -1 chapter. Why focus on one thing? What are the benefits of looking for one main idea, truth, or thought? Remember that devotional reading is for relationship and transformation rather than for collecting information. Focusing on one thing at a time helps us to engage in Bible reading more actively. We will often learn more, but asking for one thing brings focus to our attention. It is a place to start our conversation with God.
- Deepens Retention
- By focusing on one thing, you’re more likely to remember and reflect on it throughout the day. Sometimes I make a quiz game of it—Can I remember what God and I talked about this morning?
- Reduces Overwhelm
- Scripture is rich and layered. Zeroing in on one idea simplifies your reading and makes it more meaningful.
- Fosters Transformation
- Engaging with one specific truth allows it to take root and influence your thoughts, attitudes, and actions.
- Encourages a Listening Heart
- This practice trains you to hear God’s voice and recognize His guidance.
- Supports Focused Prayer
- Praying about one idea helps you stay intentional and engaged in your conversation with God. Looking for one central idea develops our attention, much like looking for the prize in a treasure hunt.
12 Bible Verses and Prayers to Read Scripture as a Conversation with God
Here are some of my favorite Bible verses to inspire prayers to begin my time with God. They help me still my thoughts and open my heart to engage with God more fully as I read the Bible passage for the day. Try reflecting on one verse a day as you begin your conversation with God by turning the verse into a prayer. After twelve days, you will begin forming a new habit to help you sense what God is teaching you personally each day.
- Psalm 119:18, 102
“Open my eyes that I may see wonderful things in your law….I have not departed from your laws, for you yourself have taught me.”
Prayer: Lord, as I open Your Word today, open my heart. Highlight the truths You want me to see and teach me to recognize Your voice. Show me one thing You want to teach me today. - Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart…”
Prayer: Help me trust in You as I read and listen for Your voice. - Isaiah 55:11
“So will My word be which goes out of My mouth…”
Prayer: Thank You that Your Word will not return void but will accomplish its purpose in me. - Jeremiah 33:3
“Call to Me and I will answer you, and I will tell you great and mighty things, which you do not know.”
Prayer: Lord, I call to You. Tell me the wonderful truths You want me to learn today. - John 6:33
“The words that I have spoken to you are spirit and are life.”
Prayer: Lord, speak Your words of life to the depths of my soul. - John 16:13
“When He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth…”
Prayer: Holy Spirit, guide me into the truth of Your Word today. - Romans 15:13
“Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace…”
Prayer: Fill me with hope and joy as I hear Your voice today. - Romans 10:8
“The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart.”
Prayer: Lord, I’m glad that You are so present and close. Speak to my heart and enable me to enjoy Your presence. - 1 Corinthians 2:12-13
“What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us. This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words.”
Prayer: Thank You for Your Spirit who helps me understand Your Word. You want me to understand the truths You have given. Thank You for teaching me today. - Colossians 3:16
“Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you…”
Prayer: May Your Word dwell richly in my heart and guide my day. - 2 Timothy 3:16-17
“All Scripture is inspired by God and beneficial for teaching…”
Prayer: Teach me, correct me, and equip me through Your Word today. - Hebrews 4:12
“For the word of God is living and active…”
Prayer: Let Your Word be alive in me, Lord, shaping my thoughts and actions. - James 1:5
“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God…”
Prayer: Father, grant me wisdom as I read and guide me into Your truth.
Which of these verses most inspires you to engage more deeply in your Bible reading?
Reflection Questions for Engaged Bible Reading
It is helpful to have a few meditation or reflection questions to get your conversation with God started.
- What one truth from today’s reading stood out to me?
- How is God inviting me to respond to that truth?
- What in my life most needs this today?
- Do I sense any resistance or tension in me to explore with God?
- How might this practice change my relationship with God?
Imagine the difference in your spiritual life if every time you opened the Bible, it became an intimate, life-giving conversation with God. This week, try reading Scripture with a listening heart. Focus on one idea, talk to God about it, and let it transform you. Leave a comment to let me know what is most helpful for you to engage with your Bible reading more fully.
For more prompts to help you listen to the Lord as you read the Bible as a conversation with God, check out my related blog post, 10 Practical Prompts for Listening to Jesus in Bible Reading.
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Unforgettable Lessons from 2024 Deepen Trust and Unlock True Hope
Reflecting on lessons from 2024 reveals God’s faithfulness offers practical steps to unlock true hope through faith and reflection. Discover how to deepen your trust in God this year and carry His peace into 2025.
As the year draws to a close, it’s a perfect time to pause, reflect, and ask, What have I learned this year? Reflection is more than just looking back; it’s a spiritual practice that helps us see God’s faithfulness, recognize areas of growth, and refocus on what truly matters. This habit of hope anchors our hearts in God’s goodness, reminding us that He is always at work—even in the hardest moments.
A Habit That Transforms: Reflection on Lessons from 2024
One powerful habit we can cultivate is taking intentional time to reflect on the lessons we’ve learned throughout the year. Reflection isn’t about perfection or analyzing every detail of the past. Instead, it’s an invitation to pause and notice where God has been moving, teaching, and shaping us.
Reflection reveals God’s faithfulness. It’s a way of documenting His presence in our story and finding hope in the process. Whether your year has been full of breakthroughs, struggles, or a mix of both, this practice reminds us that every moment has purpose.
This habit transforms struggles into stepping stones, reframing hardships as opportunities for growth and deeper trust in God. It equips us with wisdom and perspective for the future while fostering community by creating opportunities to share lessons and encourage one another. As we reflect, we celebrate progress and carry hope forward into the new year.
Every season holds a lesson; every lesson holds hope.
The Holy Spirit Helps Us Learn Lessons that Deepen Trust and Hope
Our reflection process is deeply connected to the promise in John 14:26:
“But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.”
The Holy Spirit plays a vital role in our spiritual growth. As our Advocate, He teaches us through life’s challenges, reminds us of God’s truth, and helps us uncover lessons that may not have been immediately clear. When we reflect with the Holy Spirit’s guidance, we’re able to see the threads of God’s faithfulness and gain clarity for the road ahead.
This verse is a powerful reminder that we don’t walk alone. The Holy Spirit is actively working to teach and transform us, helping us grow into the people God created us to be. Reflection invites the Spirit to highlight the areas where we’ve grown and the lessons we need to carry forward.
The Holy Spirit as Our Teacher
The Holy Spirit is always at work, teaching us lessons and revealing God’s truth in ways we need to grow.
Reflection invites the Spirit to highlight the key moments and lessons God wants us to remember.
Remembrance Is a Spiritual Practice
The verse emphasizes the importance of remembering what God has done and said.
Regular reflection allows us to partner with the Holy Spirit to recall the insights and truths God has revealed.
Trust the Holy Spirit to Bring Clarity
God’s Spirit reminds us of His faithfulness, even in hard moments we might have overlooked.
Themes, patterns, and growth in our lives often become clearer when we reflect with the Holy Spirit’s guidance.
The Holy Spirit Transforms Our Perspective
Through reflection and prayer, the Holy Spirit helps us see trials and victories through a lens of hope and redemption.
Even hard lessons become sacred as the Spirit reframes them for our growth and God’s glory.
Learning and Growth Are Ongoing
This verse shows that God’s teaching is continuous.
He is always working in us through the Spirit to reveal more about His character, His Word, and His plans for us.
A Reminder of God’s Faithfulness
Reflection on this verse reinforces that we don’t walk alone; the Holy Spirit is actively advocating for us, guiding us through every season of life.
When we reflect on the past year, the Spirit helps us connect the dots of God’s faithfulness and provision.
Practical Ways to Reflect on Lessons from 2024
If this practice is new for you, here are a few simple steps to get started:
Create a list: Write down lessons you’ve learned this year. Don’t overthink it—start with simple words or phrases and expand on them later.
Look for themes: What patterns or recurring lessons do you notice? These may reveal areas where God is shaping you.
Pray for clarity: Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your reflection, highlighting the lessons He wants you to carry forward.
Celebrate growth: Take time to thank God for how far you’ve come, even if there’s still a long way to go.
Healing Is a Walk, not a Race: The Most Important Lesson of 2024
One of the most profound lessons Larissa shared this year is that healing is not a race; it’s a walk with God. This realization, revealed through the Holy Spirit, reshaped how she approaches challenges and growth. Here are the key insights from this powerful truth:
Healing Takes Time
Growth and healing are not instant. They require patience and intentionality as God works on His timeline.
Walking With God Is Key
Healing is a journey taken alongside God, allowing Him to guide, comfort, and shape us through the process.
Avoid Rushing the Process
Trying to “fix” everything quickly can hinder true healing. Slowing down helps us fully embrace the lessons God is teaching.
Notice the Blessings Along the Way
Walking rather than racing allows us to notice the small blessings and progress we might otherwise miss.
Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection
Acknowledge each step forward, no matter how small, as part of God’s work in your life.
Healing is About Growth, Not a Destination
The journey itself is where transformation happens. The “race” mentality focuses on an end goal, while the walk embraces ongoing growth.
God’s Timing Is Perfect
Trust that God knows the pace at which you need to heal and that His timing leads to the best outcomes.
Focus on the Process Over Results
Instead of fixating on results, trust the process as an act of faith, allowing God to work in both seen and unseen ways.
This perspective shift reminds us to embrace the journey, trusting that God is doing a deep work within us that unfolds over time. I think you’ll agree with me that this is an encouraging and powerful word we can all take into the New Year!
How to Deepen Your Trust in God with Lessons Learned in 2024
Reflection helps us uncover the powerful lessons God has been teaching us throughout the year. Here is a list of key lessons learned, including points shared by Larissa with a few from me, along with reflections on spiritual growth:
A Hard Year Doesn’t Have to End That Way
Even if the year begins with struggles, God can transform it into one of growth, hope, and renewal. Every season holds opportunities for redemption.
Wait With God, Not Just for Him
Shifting the focus from waiting for God to act to waiting in His presence transforms waiting into an act of worship. Waiting is no longer about passively enduring but actively seeking God’s presence. This mindset shift fosters calm and expectation, helping us deepen trust and unlock hope.
Use the Difficulty
Challenges can be reframed as opportunities to grow, persevere, or lean on God more fully. This lesson encourages us to work with the difficulties rather than avoid them.
Be a Noticer of God’s Redemptive Work
God often reveals Himself in small, quiet ways. Training ourselves to notice these moments of redemption can grow our gratitude and faith.
Stand Up for Yourself and Survive the Fallout
Overcoming people-pleasing and learning to set healthy boundaries is a courageous act of faith. Trusting God with how others respond builds resilience.
False Beliefs Can Be Overcome
Identifying false beliefs and replacing them with God’s truth brings freedom and transformation. For example, replacing the belief that “everything is always hard” with the truth of God’s provision.
God Will Show Up When You Least Expect It
God often blesses us in unexpected ways, showing His faithfulness and provision in the details of our lives.
Understand Your New Creation Identity
Embracing the reality of being a new creation in Christ allows us to live in freedom and step away from old patterns.
You Can Grow and Struggle Simultaneously
Growth and struggle are not mutually exclusive. They often coexist, and both are part of God’s refining work.
A Steadfast Mind Brings Peace
Anchoring our thoughts on God and trusting Him fully leads to the perfect peace promised in Isaiah 26:3. This steadfast focus transforms how we navigate life’s uncertainties.
Share Your Lessons Learned
What lessons has God taught you in 2024? Take some time to reflect and write down your insights. We’d love to hear from you! Share one lesson in the comments below and encourage others as they reflect too. Let’s cheer each other on in what the Holy Spirit has taught us this year!
A Note from Larissa
We can learn so much about ourselves and what God is doing in our lives by taking time to reflect on what lessons learned each year. It serves as both a lesson and a list of praises as we write what God has taught us. This is also a fun way to record your wins from the year. Embrace all the lessons from 2024 and trust God to use those lessons as tools for 2025. Reflect, embrace, let go, and watch the new thing God wants to do this year. This is such a great way to deepen your trust and unlock hope for the new year. I can’t wait to hear some of your lessons learned and to take another 365 day journey with y’all in 2025.
With love,
Larissa
Our Prayer for Your New Year
As we step into 2025, let’s carry these lessons forward with faith and hope. May God’s presence guide you, His peace sustain you, and His faithfulness anchor your heart in every season.
Father, thank You for Your faithfulness throughout this year. Help us to see the lessons You’ve taught us and carry them forward with hope and trust. May Your Spirit continue to teach and guide us as we step into the new year. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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