Learn Six Important Truths About Listening to God
Discover important truths about listening to God with insights from Isaiah 50:4-5. Hearing God in Scripture helps us to develop deeper faith as we learn how to listen to God. Experience the benefits of listening to God when reading the Bible to accelerate your spiritual growth. Enjoy this updated version of one of my most read posts on how to listen to God.
The Bible shows us God speaks in a variety of ways, including Scripture, the church, and circumstances. Listening to God is noticing when He brings truth, understanding, wisdom, guidance, conviction, instruction, or encouragement to our attention. Most of the time, Christians “hear” God through the spirit rather than with physical hearing. One of the roles of the Holy Spirit is to help us listen, perceiving when God is speaking to us.
Practicing good listening skills makes us better listeners, both with God and others.
Good listening is a skill to cultivate.
“You aren’t listening to me.”
From the kitchen my husband is telling me that the plumber is coming tomorrow at 3. I don’t really hear him, but somehow I still respond, “Hmm..okay.”
Half-listening is getting to be a bad habit. There, but not really present… How many times do you realize you are only half-listening? This can become a bad habit when we don’t give our full attention.
The Challenge of Learning How to Listen to God
Do you long to hear God speak to you?
Learning how to hear God is an even greater challenge. Though there are some instances in Scripture when God speaks with an audible voice, but most often God speaks in less direct ways. We struggle with listening to God, often questioning the reality of His presence when we don’t feel like are hearing from God. Honestly, it can feel really frustrating.
Encouragement for Listening to God
Hearing God isn’t always as hard as you may think.
Before we go any further, let me encourage you with this simple truth. Hearing God doesn’t have to be a confusing or difficult experience. If you’re like me, I’ve often wondered if God will speak to me. We can make a lot of false assumptions about hearing God. Have these thoughts ever come to mind when you’re trying to listen to God?
Maybe I’m not doing something right, as if there is some magic formula to hearing God.
I believe God speaks to some people, but I don’t think He will speak to me.
I’m too sinful for God to want to speak to me.
God has better things to do that talk to me.
I have to be a super-Christian or spiritual giant to God to speak to me.
Have you struggled with any of these thoughts?
What the Bible Says About Listening to God in Isaiah 40:4-5.
The Bible has many passages that teach us truths about listening to God. One of my favorite passages in the Bible that refers to hearing God clearly is in Isaiah 50:4-5 (NASB).
The Lord God has given Me the tongue of disciples,So that I may know how to sustain the weary one with a word.He awakens Me morning by morning,He awakens My ear to listen as a disciple.The Lord God has opened My ear,And I was not disobedient,Nor did I turn back.
Many times, God has used the truths in this passage to encourage me in the process of learning to hear God. This short passage has helped me to understand that God is intimately involved in helping us to listen. In fact, God is more interested in our regular practice of listening to Him than we realize.
I love the way the New American Standard Bible translates this passage with the words “He awakens My ear to listen as a disciple.” In this passage, the word listen means to hear, listen to, obey, and yield.
Reading the passage in another translation can give us a fuller understanding of the meaning of this passage. Consider how these truths are expressed in the New Living Translation:
The Sovereign Lord has given me his words of wisdom, so that I know how to comfort the weary.Morning by morning he wakens me and opens my understanding to his will. The Sovereign Lord has spoken to me, and I have listened. I have not rebelled or turned away.
As you read the rest of this post, open your ears to important truths about listening to God. Which of the following truths contains a new thought? Which one encourages you in a special way? Notice what stands out to you as you read both the Scripture and the teaching. These are a few simple things to help you learn how to listen to God more clearly.
Six Important Truths about Listening to God.
Truth #1: The Holy Spirit enables us to listen to God productively.
God is speaking every time we open our Bible. Living and active, the Holy Spirit draws our attention to specific truths. He guides our understanding. He is the Spirit of Truth.
But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth… John 16:13.
When the Holy Spirit awakens our attention and opens our ears, listening brings insight and hearing moves us to action. Remember, the definition of hearing in this passage means to hear, to listen, and to obey. It’s important to respond to what we hear by applying it to our lives.
When God awakens us, our sluggish thoughts perk up with increased understanding and discernment. What we glossed over rises above the page and a specific truth, instruction, or detail stands out.
Truth #2: When God speaks through His word, we are experiencing God.
Henry Blackaby writes, “Understanding spiritual truth does not lead you to an encounter with God; it is the encounter with God (Experiencing God p. 105). Many are hearing God more often than they recognize. As the Holy Spirit gives us understanding, we are both hearing and experiencing God.
But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.–John 14:26.
Truth #3: Practice helps us to recognize God speaking through His Word.
Listen to God daily through reading the Bible.
Morning by morning, God awakens me… Intimate and consistent, there is something very personal about these words. The Spirit can whisper gently, like a mother’s touch to awaken a sleeping child. We may expect burning bush experiences, but most often God speaks quietly through His word.
Without the Holy Spirit awakening us, we would not care, but roll over and go back to sleep. When we’re unresponsive, truth fades into the fog of a sleeping spirit and our lack of attention. Meaning is lost in the murmur of countless thoughts muttering in our minds.
Consistency makes a difference in hearing God.
Morning by morning echoes the constancy of a daily habit opening the day by listening to God. He nudges our attention. He opens our attention to hear, understand, and respond.
Hearing God isn’t a skill that is developed in a day–it is built over time.
This means we need to commit to regular time in God’s word, trusting the Holy Spirit to help us listen and obey.
Truth #4: Listening begins with God.
Isn’t it interesting that most of the activity in this passage is on God’s part? He gives. He awakens. He opens.
Our part is to respond. When we grasp this truth, we can let go of our stress about hearing God. He will help us learn to recognize when He is speaking to us. When we focus on responding to what God brings to our attention, we will hear Him more clearly. Develop the habit of asking God to open your ears to what He wants to impress on you when you read Scripture.
Embrace truth. Take it to heart so that it can begin to work in your thoughts, words, and actions.
Truth #5: Listening to God equips us to minister to others.
When we listen, we are prepared to encourage the weary– “That I may know how to sustain the weary one with a word.”
Not just any word. This isn’t a pat-your-hand-and-bless-your-heart kind of word. Who needs that?
Listening to God regularly, He brings a good word at the right moment, speaking to the true need of the heart. What we have heard, we often have an opportunity to share.
When we make a regular habit of deeply listening to God through His word, it comes back out in powerful ways that make a difference in the lives of hurting people.
God can also prompt us to encourage someone, often bringing them to mind with a purpose. Earlier today, God brought a friend to mind with a nudge to encourage and pray. This is another form of listening to God. I gave her a call. Turns out she was having a hard day and was deeply strengthened by my simple response to God’s prompting.
Truth #6: Listening to God changes us.
When God speaks, the Holy Spirit helps us to listen and learn. Reading, listening, and revelation merge like threads woven into a single cord. We embrace the truth He speaks, and we obey: “I was not disobedient, nor did I turn back.”
When the Holy Spirit speaks God’s truth, it has the power to change us–to turn us from rebellion to obedience. We let go of the frustrating cycles of trying to do it on our own, and obedience moves us forward.
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How does Hearing God change our lives?
God changes our lives as He opens our ears, awakens our attention, and we respond…one day at a time.
I expanded this blog post in a chapter of my book, Holy in the Moment. For more help and encouragement for hearing God check out the book!
Which of these truths about listening to God encourages you most today?
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Practical Tip Sheets to Help You Grow Spiritually
I’ve put together some of my best tips for spiritual growth, included several pages to help you focus your attention to listen to God. Get a page of prompts you can use when reading the Bible to help you listen to God. You’ll also find helpful prayers and other resources to deepen your relationship with God. Click the button below to get your free Spiritual Growth Pack.
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10 Ways to Connect with God During a Busy Summer
Summer is synonymous with freedom and fun, but amidst the BBQs, family reunions, and road trips, our spiritual routines can falter. How do we maintain a strong connection with God when our usual routines are disrupted by summer fun? Lean into the joys of summer with practical ideas and resources to connect with God despite busy days. Discover ten easy ideas to help you connect with God during your busy summer days. Don’t miss the list of related resources at the end of this post!
Is it just me, or is this year zipping by at lightning speed? When my children were younger, summer was a time to ease off busy school schedules filled with homework, sports, and activities. It was all about playdates, sleeping late, and afternoons at the pool. Ahh….what fun!
Nowadays, I still start the season with that laid-back summer mentality, even though reality paints a different picture. Summer vacation often means a short trip rather than three months off from school. Every year, I’m surprised when my relaxing summer turns out to be just as busy as the rest of the year–just in a different way. Is it wishful thinking or am I a slow learner? Probably a bit of both. Even so, I do love summer. How about you?
Whether your schedule is relaxed or bustling, maintaining a connection with God in summer can be challenging. At the end of the the season, we want to have great memories with family and friends, but we also want to grow spiritually and delight in God. In this post, you’ll find a variety of ideas to enjoy your relationship with God this summer.
10 Ways to Connect with God in a Busy Summer
Travel plans, kids at home, and hosting visitors often disrupts normal routines. When I have a house full of guests for a few days, my schedule shifts (ahem, meaning devotions often don’t happen…). During times of travel, our pace is very different, making my regular devotional time in the summer more challenging.
Are you ready to partner with God to nurture your spirit and enjoy your relationship with God this summer? Change up your quiet time routine with fresh ideas to get into God's Word, enjoying time with God, even if you're on the go. Share on X A summer quiet time doesn’t have to be long to be meaningful.
Instead of an all-or-nothing approach, consider these flexible ways to spend time with God during the different rhythm of summer days: (For your convenience, I’ve added a handy list of resources and links at the end of this post).
Short Inspirational Content: On your busiest days, read a few Psalms or Proverbs. These short readings can spark rich reflection and prayer. Meditate on brief passages from New Testament letters like Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians, or Colossians, which are packed with truths and instructions ideal for summer Scripture reading.
Journaling Changes: Adapt your journaling habits for busy days. Try bullet-style journaling to quickly jot down thoughts, observations, or prayers. Start a “One Thing Journal” for the summer. Each day, write down a prayer, a verse, a reflective thought, or a quote. Keep it simple and brief, but take time to prayerfully meditate on that one thing. Use my free Grateful Moments journal to focus on one area of gratitude each day.
Creative Devotions: Engage creatively with your devotions. Try Scripture art, Bible journaling with colored pens, stickers, or washi tape. Paint on a canvas or draw in a sketchbook while meditating on a verse. Coloring devotionals can also be a wonderful creative outlet. Check out links at the end of this post for ideas.
Worship Music: Begin your quiet time with a worship song or listen to worship music during a prayer walk to change up the pace this summer. Here is a playlist of my favorite songs that help me worship and connect more deeply with God. God and I have logged many miles enjoying these songs!
Scripture Memorization: Memorize Scripture to engage with God on the go during summer travel. When at home, focus on learning a key verse. While traveling, review and reflect on what you’ve learned.
Focused Bible Reading: Ask God to inspire you with a specific focus for your summer Bible reading. Consider themes such as the gift of joy, attributes of God, promises in Scripture, your identity in Christ, or prayers in the Bible. Choose a topical approach to make Bible study exciting and insightful during your busy summer (Be mindful to not take verses out of context).
Team Up with a Friend: Select a book of the Bible or a devotional book and read along with a family member or friend. Plan discussions to share insights, favorite verses, or impactful quotes, which can lead to enriching conversations. These spiritual conversations can happen via text, phone, Facetime, or best of all, in person!
Mobile Bible Apps: I’m not a fan of solely using Bible apps for spiritual growth. However, there are many good apps that can be a great option to connect with God during the summer or as an addition to your Bible reading. Explore quality Bible apps for an easy way to stay connected with God throughout the summer. I enjoy Lectio 365, which offers short, focused sessions that include listening, reflection, commentary, and prayer in the format of Lectio Davina, also known as spiritual reading. Reimagining the Examen App has helped me learn to go deeper with God in prayer. It is based on the book by Father Mark E. Thibodeaux SJ and offers reflective questions to connect with God based on St. Ignatius’s 500-year-old prayer (affiliate link).
Christian Book Challenge: Set a Christian book reading goal for the summer to inspire your faith. Aim for three main takeaways from each book to keep motivated. If you haven’t read Holy in the Moment: Simple Ways to Love God and Enjoy Your Life, add it to your summer reading list to help you cultivate a deeper relationship with God. This book is packed with practical ways to enjoy God, inviting him into every aspect of life. Learn more and get free discussion and journal guide for the book here. Check out my favorite books to cultivate your relationship with God on the Resource Page of this website.
Nature and Devotion: Nature has a unique way of refreshing our spirit and soul. Take your quiet time outdoors; whether it’s walking, hiking, or sightseeing, these activities can provide moments to connect with God and appreciate the beauty He has created.
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How Will You Connect with God During Your Busy Summer?
Which one of these ideas to enjoy your relationship with God appeals to you? Which idea best fits with the pace of your summer days? Now is the perfect time to delight in God as he speaks to your heart, strengthens your faith, and refreshes your spirit this summer. Choose a few ideas from this list to explore creative ways to weave devotion and worship into your seasonal activities, ensuring spiritual growth doesn’t take a vacation while you do.
Here is a curated list of resources related to this post. *The links in this post contain affiliate links, which means I’m paid a small commission at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.
Books to Enjoy Connecting with God this Summer
Here are a few book recommendations that are geared specifically for this article. Each of these are favorites that have truly impacted my relationship with God, fostering deeper faith and delight in him. The last is one I’m currently reading, but it is great so far.
Holy in the Moment: Simple Ways to Love God and Enjoy Your Life by Ginger Harrington
Enjoying the Presence of God by Jan Johnson
The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence (a classic).
With: Reimagining the Way You Relate to God by Skye Jethani
Enjoying God: Experiencing the Love of Your Heavenly Father by S. J. Hill. (Currently reading).
Devotional Books to Connect with God this Summer
These are a few of my favorite devotional books related to this post. Each of these insightful books will inspire you to delight in God and connect with him more deeply-even on vacation! (Hint: Use a Kindle or other e-reader or install a kindle app on your phone or ipad for ease of travel.)
My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers
Adore by Sara Haggerty
Pauses for the Vacationing Soul: A Sensory-Based Devotion Guide for the Beach by Cathy Baker
If Jesus Loves Me, Why Isn’t This Working? By David Gregory
Praying God’s Promises: by Linda Evans Shepherd
Journaling Products to Connect with God this Summer
Here are a variety of products to explore if you want to add a creative element to your journaling.
ESV Illuminated Scripture Journals come in individual books of the Bible or as a set. Try the ESV Illuminated Scripture Journal for Philippians for a short summer experience to explore Bible Journaling. These light-weight paper back versions of individual books of the Bible make these journals easy to travel with (I rarely take my regular Bible on trips due to the weight. Also I don’t want to risk losing my Bible with years of notes and underlined verses!!!)
Mixed media/watercolor sketch book. I like the size (8.5 x 8.5) and the versatility of paint, marker, or pens. It has a beautiful linen hard cover, which I also love. This comes in a two pack, so I gave one to my daughter as a gift.
3 Pack Pocket Notebook Notepad with Pen, Mini Small Journal Notebook 3.7″ x 5.7. This small journal set is a handy size for travel or tucking into your purse for quick reflections. If you liked the tiny summer journal or a “One Thing Journal” this is a great option. What I like about the different colors is you can have each journal focus us a specific theme or topic (as in item 2 on the idea list above).
Spiral Bound Index Card Pack. This product is perfect to keep memory verses organized for easy review (the KEY to scripture memory!!). I have also used these to note favorite quotes and takeaways from books or Bible studies for easy review through the years. (Bonus tip, friend!)
The Illustrated Words of Jesus for Women Daily Devotional – 366 Days of Calming Coloring and Meaningful Meditation on the Words of Jesus by Carolyn Larsen. I haven’t read this, but it’s on my wish list! There are many options of coloring devotionals to explore. As always, be discerning about the content, reading a preview before purchasing.
Micro Fineliner Drawing Art Pens. This set of black pens features varying widths and is archival quality ink.
Watercolor Brush Pens Assorted Set
Prisma Colored Pencils (24 count). I love these pencils, but any colored pencils can add color to your journal. Pencils are a great option if your journal is not geared for mixed media. (Not an affiliate link).
Zebra Mildliner Double Ended Highlighter, Assorted Ink Colors (set of 10). These highlighters are great for highlighting your Bible, Bible study, or journal.
1000 PCS Bible Verse Stickers, Clear Inspirational Stickers. Stickers are a simple way to add a little creativity to your journaling. This set is clear, but there are many options online and in craft stores.
Washi Tape Variety Pack This is a set of 60 rolls for a good price. I like to add a little color to my journal pages the quick and easy way!
Resources from my Deeper Life Collection
The following items from The Deeper Life Collection are currently free for subscribers to my newsletter. Each of these products are practical and short to focus on a specific topic. I hope you’ll enjoy these resources this summer!
Holy in the Moment Journal and Discussion Guide
The Grateful Moments Journal: 28 Days to a More Thankful You
The Summer Soul Refresh: 31 Ways to Restore Your Soul this Summer
Habits of Hope: 6 Habits to Hold onto Hope in Every Moment
My Worship Play List to Connect with God this Summer
Well, there you have it. All my best tips and recs to connect with God on a deep level, even if your summer is busy! Bookmark, share, and save this post for easy reference through a wonderful summer! Friend, here’s to a fabulous summer of fun, great memories, and enjoying your relationship with God.
Do you have a favorite way to change up your devotional time with God during the summer? Hit reply and share your thoughts, or comment on one of my related social media posts in the coming days. I’d LOVE to know what helps you enrich your faith during the summer!
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10 Bible Verses to Encourage Moms When They Need It Most
Today I’m sharing a collection of powerful Bible verses that have encouraged me in 31 years of being a mom. Being a mom takes commitment, hard work, and plenty of love. A gift idea for Mother’s Day is to print the free downloadable list to pray for and encourage the moms of all ages in your life. Tuck this list into a card or gift and bless moms with the gift of encouragement this Mother’s Day or any day when they need it most.
The Joy and Challenge Challenge of Motherhood
My first day of being a mom didn’t go well.
His words were a needed boost of confidence and encouragement I needed.
Mom’s Need Encouragement
Mom’s need encouragement when we worry. . .
- the baby will never sleep through the night
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the toddler will never potty train
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the siblings will never stop squabbling
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the frustrated child will never learn patience and self-control
- the disorganized student will never submit assignments on time
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the disobedient kid will never obey
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the antagonistic teen will never make better choices
- the prodigal will never turn to God
Encouragement for a Mother’s Heart
You don’t have to be Super Mom.
This is one of my all-time favorite pictures of me with my kids. We were all so young! So much love and joy in being a mom-I. wouldn’t trade it for the world. This picture is from the days before digital cameras, so it’s a snapshot of a picture in my photo album.
Time really does go fast. Though the years went by quickly, there were many days that were long. Days when I needed strength and encouragement, both from my family and most importantly from my God.
God’s Encouraging Words for Moms
Prayer and scripture are a powerful source of strength, help, and encouragement.
Here are a selection of verses that God encourage and deepen my faith when parenting is hard. One by one, the God has spoken these strengthening words to my heart when I needed it most.
Though I didn’t hear God speak aloud, the Holy Spirit drew my attention to a specific Bible verses. It made all the difference. It still does! Though I am now an empty-nester, I will never age out of a need for encouragement when my kids face difficult times!
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10 Bible Verses to Encourage Moms When You Need it Most
Encouragement when you struggle to trust God:
Trust in the Lord with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He will make your paths straight. –Proverbs 3:5-6
Encouragement when you are overwhelmed:
“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
I have called you by name; you are Mine!
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you;
And through the rivers, they will not overflow you.
When you walk through the fire, you will not be scorched,
Nor will the flame burn you.
For I am the Lord your God,
The Holy One of Israel, your Savior . . . –Isaiah 43:1-3
Encouragement when you need peace:
The steadfast of mind You will keep in perfect peace,
Because he trusts in You. –Isaiah 26:3
Encouragement when you feel alone and need help:
For He Himself has said, “I will never desert you, nor will I ever abandon you,” so that we confidently say, “The Lord is my helper, I will not be afraid.
What will man do to me?” –Hebrews 13:5-6
Encouragement when you need a fresh start:
The Lord’s acts of mercy indeed do not end,
For His compassions do not fail.
They are new every morning;
Great is Your faithfulness. –Lamentations 3:22-23
Encouragement when you need confidence:
For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work among you will complete it by the day of Christ Jesus. –Philippians 1:6
Encouragement when you need more love to give:
And may the Lord cause you to increase and overflow in love for one another. . . –1 Thessalonians 3:12
Encouragement when you’re not sure what to pray:
Now in the same way the Spirit also helps our weakness; for we do not know what to pray for as we should, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words; and He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. –Romans 8:26
Encouragement when you worry:
And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. –Romans 8:28
Encouragement when you need to keep going:
Not that I have already grasped it all or have already become perfect, but I press on if I may also take hold of that or which I was even taken hold of by Christ Jesus. Brothers and sisters, I do not regard myself as having taken hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. –Philippians 3:12-14
A Personal Mother’s Day Gift Idea to Encourage the Moms in Your Life
Print this list to tell yourself the Truth, believe the Truth, and pray the Truth to encourage your heart today. Click here or on the image below for a printable version of these verses to tuck into a Mother’s Day card or pray for the moms in your life. Words of encouragement for moms are meaningful.
Enjoy my gift and my Happy Mother’s Day wishes to you, no email needed! Use this list for a fun Mother’s Day craft idea. Write or paste each verse on an index card and decorate with markers, crayons, or stickers. Add more index cards with personal affirmations and expressions of love for mom to make a meaningful Mother’s Day gift she won’t forget! Tie them up with a bow and a tag that reads: Mom’s Encouragement Kit.
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- Frazzled Mom, Don’t Forget to Enjoy the Journey
- Mom-i-Tude Adjustment for Frazzled Moms
- Mom, It’s Okay to Cry When You Leave Your Child at College
Honored to Be a Military Wife This Memorial Day
Memorial Day is for honoring our fallen military members. As a military spouse the responsibility that comes with freedom has been a very real part of our lives with 24 years of service to our nation. In those years we have been blessed with live and work in the company of hero’s, both those who wear the uniform and those who support them.
We have rejoiced at homecomings and celebrated promotions, and we have grieved friends we have lost. Today we remember the fallen with grateful hearts and a renewed commitment to uphold the great responsibility that comes with freedom.
The values and experience of military service have shaped our family in countless ways. This Memorial Day I am honored to be a military wife as we honor all who have given their lives for our freedom.
I never planned to be a military wife.
“Did I ever tell you that I want to go into the Marine Corps?” I was shocked silent. I had no words to respond to the young man I was dating.
Little did I know that this question was God’s way of introducing major directional change. This startling question came from Mark, a fella I’d been dating for a just a few months.
All my if-this-works-out daydreams had never covered even a thought of active duty military life. Though my dad served in the Navy in World War II, I knew nothing of military life.
And I didn’t want to.
I wanted to stay put in one place and live a predictable life. I had no real-time context for military life and the journey of a military wife.
Was this guy going to suddenly turn into Rambo?
“Are you going to get a tattoo,” was the first thought that came to my mind as I tried to envision my guy as a Marine. All I could think of was the worst that Hollywood movies had to offer.
I wasn’t quite sure about this whole military service thing. A few months later, while my fella was gritting it out in OCS, Officer’s Candidate School, a co-worker asked if we were talking about marriage.
“I don’t know. He’s joined the Marine Corps.” I said this like he had a disease. My co-worker reminded me that I would be marrying the man, not the job.
“I don’t think that’s true with the Marine Corps. If I marry this man, I am also marrying into the Marine Corps and all that entails.”
Welcome to the military.
Time passed, and my once-civilian boyfriend became my lean-and-green Marine husband. I’ll never forget the swordsman at our wedding who whacked me on my backside with a drill-instructor-firm, “Welcome to the Marine Corps, Mrs. Harrington!”
This was the first time I was addressed by my new name.
Being a military wife is a calling and a blessing.
Thirty years later I can say without a single regret that I am honored to be a military wife. Being a military wife has been both a calling and a privilege as I have supported my husband throughout his military. Military life has shaped our family life in countless ways. I wouldn’t trade this life of honor, sacrifice, and service.
We are all better for it.
The values of a military family.
Commitment to God, country, and duty.
Integrity and leadership.
Camaraderie and faithfulness.
Sacrifice and honor.
Courage and strength.
Faithfulness and loyalty.
These are just a few of the core values that permeate and sustain the military family. Though I may have been a reluctant military girlfriend, I am so proud of my husband and all that he has given to both our nation and our family.
Honoring the fallen on Memorial Day.
Today, I know that I’m not alone in gratitude for those who given their lives in service to our country.
Several years ago, my husband retired. Maybe Memorial Day seems like a strange time to reflect on military retirement. But here is a personal glimpse of the fear of loss that is part of the military wife experience.
As they placed the folded flag into his hands, I exhaled a soul-sigh of relief that he had survived 24 years of service healthy and whole. I have a deep gratitude that my Marine survived deployments, training exercises, and wartime service.
I hadn’t realized that somewhere deep inside, I had been holding my breath. For 24 years a faint white-noise hummed in my heart. An often ignored fear of what could happen if… had become so part of life that I often didn’t notice it.
I know through personal experience many times over that too many who serve in our military do not come home. I have mourned with military wives who receive a flag with grief of untimely loss rather than the joy of celebration. I am currently walking alongside a dear friend who lost her Marine after a long battle with cancer due to exposure to toxic environments in military service. Though this kind of loss is not at the heart of Memorial Day, it is a loss no less.
We also know friends who have sustained physical and emotional wounds. The numbers of service members who suffer from PTSD isn’t fully documented as many are hesitant to seek help. I know more friends than I can count who have been impacted by PTSD. In 2019, “the rate of suicide among active-duty troops was 25.9 per 100,000 troops,” and according to the Military Times, “Military suicides have increased by as much as 20 percent this year compared to the same period in 2019,”
Too many military veterans do not have the opportunity to celebrate retirement with family and friends. My heart breaks for each one of these families both past and present. As a military spouse the responsibility that comes with freedom has been a very real part of our lives with 24 years of service to our nation. In those years we have been blessed with live and work in the company of hero’s, both those who wear the uniform and those who support them. We have rejoiced at homecomings and celebrated promotions, and we have grieved friends we have lost. Today we remember the fallen with grateful hearts and a renewed commitment to uphold the great responsibility that comes with freedom.
A chance to give back by mentoring Marines.
We are in a new season of life this Memorial Day. My husband has recently transitioned into military ministry as a missionary to Marines. This is a beautiful and long-awaited opportunity to give back to the military. community by discipling young Marines. We were very blessed to have wonderful mentors pour into our lives our first few years of military service and early marriage days. Encouragement, wisdom, love, and support gave us a mindset and a spiritual foundation that shaped both of us. The character and faith formation God began in these pivitol years provided a basis for a strong marriage, family, and military career.
For the past ten years, my husband has been waiting in faith for God’s timing to fulfill the calling to serve as a missionary to Marines. In January, he took a position with Tun Tavern Fellowship (TTF), a disciple making ministry started seventeen years ago by a dear friend and mentor, Chris Braddy. The ministry is named after the tavern that is considered to be the birthplace of the Marine Corps on November 10, 1775.
It is a joy and honor to help shape the next generation of Christian leaders in the Marine Corps. CBN recently did a wonderful article and video highlighting the need, importance, and impact of Tun Tavern Fellowship! You can watch the video here:
Isn’t that a great video?! We would love to have you on our support team. Please leave me a comment or a message on this website if you’d like more information.
This Memorial Day.
Please join me in remembering those who have sacrificed their lives serving our country.
A military quote that rings in my heart is this truth: We are home of the free because of the brave. This Memorial Day, let us remember the importance and sacrifice of our nation’s military members.
We all owe a debt of gratitude, honor, and respect for the brave men and women who have given the great sacrifice of life to protect our nation. These are the ones we honor with grateful hearts today.
[tweetthis hidden_hashtags=”#memorialday”]Truly we are the home of the free because of the brave.[/tweetthis]
Do you have a military member you honor today? Leave a comment as a way to share your gratitude.
When this post was originally written, I had no idea that God would give me an opportunity to help create a vibrant ministry for military women and wives.
About Planting Roots: Strength to Thrive in Military Life
Military women and wives desire connection, stability, hope, and joy. Dealing with multiple moves, frequent deployments, and questions regarding careers, we still must continue to manage careers, develop relationships, build marriages, and raise children. Usually far from family, these challenges can seem insurmountable to accomplish on our own and finding what we need almost impossible.
Planting Roots has a vision that military women and wives will be deeply rooted in Christ, no matter where they find themselves. In order to fulfill this vision, our goal is to build a community providing connection and biblical foundation, challenging each other to find our stability in Christ and His purpose for us in the places we are planted.
We are Planting Roots.
Invited to Come to God with Confidence
What does it mean to come with confidence to God? The meaning of Hebrews 4:16 reveals God’s invitation to trust and rely on Him, especially in our problems, failures, sins, and challenges. This verse shares the truth that God welcomes us with mercy, grace, and help as we come to Him with our needs. As we cultivate the spiritual habits of prayer and trust, we develop a deeper relationship with God that is based on confidence in God rather than in ourselves.
Do You Come to God with Confidence?
Have you ever stood at the doorway of a room full of people who seem out of your league?
I’ve stood on the outside looking in, longing to turn around and leave. I worried that I wouldn’t be accepted. Feeling like I didn’t belong, I worried I wasn’t qualified to be in that place. Sometimes we can feel this way with God.
We can experience a similar hesitancy when it comes to entering God’s presence or pursuing a deeper relationship with Him. And yet, God invites us to come to Him with confidence that we will be received. That we will find help and acceptance.
Maybe you have experienced this lack of confidence that can hinder your participation or progress if you allow fear to hold you back. When you seek God, do you come with confidence? Or do you hesitate, thinking you need to clean yourself up or get your act together before coming to God?
Contrast this fear of rejection with the way a child comes into the house, entering with the joy and confidence of coming home. She enters with the privelege of a member of the household. She know’s her father will be glad to see her. And she knows she belongs for she’s part of the family.
Draw near to God with confidence.
God invites us into a deeper relationship by the power of the Holy Spirit in a variety of ways. In our last post, we reflected on the invitation to come with the faith of a child. In this post, we explore coming to God with confidence.
Come with confidence–this is another precious invitation to deepen our relationship with God and experience grace, mercy, and help as we prayerfully approach God. The Bible shows us that Jesus understands the challenges we face-He sympathizes with our weaknesses. This is one of the reasons we can lay down our fear to approach God with confidence.
For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin. Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Hebrews 4:15-16 NASB
I often read Bible passages in several translations in order to benefit from a variety of words used in translating the content. One of my favorites is the Amplified Bible because it “amplifies” the message by inserting meaning and details into the verses for a fuller understanding of the text. Consider the way the Amplified Bible expands our understanding of Hebrews 4:16
Therefore let us [with privilege] approach the throne of grace [that is, the throne of God’s gracious favor] with confidence and without fear, so that we may receive mercy [for our failures] and find [His amazing] grace to help in time of need [an appropriate blessing, coming just at the right moment].
Hebrews 4: 16 AMP
Isn’t it a wonder to embrace the truth that the Spirit beckons us come with confidence enter the intimacy of the holy place, his direct presence? During the days of the Old Testament, only the high priest could enter the Holy of Holies one time a year. But now, God invites us to come boldly. To enter is a progressive coming closer, committing to go all in, to be fully present with God as well as welcomed by Him.
I don’t know about you, but when I’m in a mess or need help, my soul breathes a sigh of relief to receive help–a blessing that fits my challenge and at the time it is needed. Indeed, this is a huge privilege as God’s grace comes in many forms.
Christ-confidence rather than self-confidence.
Christ-confidence rather than self-confidence.
Come to God with confidence, reliance, and trust. Too often, we get stuck stirring up self-confidence, trying to solve problems, pulling ourselves up by the bootstraps, or attempting to control outcomes in our favor. In this passage, confidence is based on Christ’s sacrifice, merits, faithfulness, and invitation. It is Christ-confidence not self-confidence.
Therefore, brothers and sisters, since we have confidence to enter the holy place by the blood of Jesus, by a new and living way which He inaugurated for us through the veil, that is, through His flesh, and since we have a great priest over the house of God, let’s approach God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water. Let’s hold firmly to the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. . . Hebrews 10:19-23 NASB
God invites us to come confidently without fear of punishment—for it is in His presence that we receive deeper faith, forgiveness of sin, healing of wounds, and restoration. Sometimes I need the reminder of what an incredible privilege it is to simply come to God. Our confidence and our hope stands firm when it is built on God’s promises and His faithfulness.
What a blessing to be able to come to God, to seek His help at any time. It is in our coming that we receive what we need: forgiveness, cleansing, washing, assurance, mercy, grace, help. . . We don’t have to get through gatekeepers, purchase a membership fee, or make an appointment.
God’s invitation to enter fully by His Spirit is based on His love and faithfulness and on the sacrifice of Christ.
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You are invited to receive.
The Holy Spirit invites us to find our deepest needs met in Him—to be accepted, valued, loved, and secure. To be fully known and to fully know our true selves free from guilt and shame.
Maybe you already know this truth, but there is a fresh blessing for each of us when we appreciate anew the sacred invitations of God.
For it is by His Spirit that we push past the clamor of conflict, the stress of busy lives, and the weariness of too many burdens, giving God our full attention. It is the gentle whisper of the Holy Spirit who reminds us to seek God in it all–the good, the busy, the bad, and the broken.
Have you accepted God’s invitation to come with confidence?
Think about a time you have been invited to join a friend for dinner. You’re planning to go. You get ready. You are on your way.
Can you enjoy the meal with your friend if you don’t show up? If you stand outside and don’t walk through the door. You might be able to smell the meal, but you can’t experience the good food if you aren’t present. You might be able to see pictures of the dinner if someone posts food pics on social media, but that’s not the same as tasting the food for yourself.
In a similar way, we will not experience for ourselves grace, mercy, and help for our needs if we don’t show up with God.
- Turn to him with our needs.
- Draw near to him in our failures.
- Pray about our problems.
- Trust him to fulfill the promise in this verse.
Come to God with confidence in your moments of need.
Build habits of hope in your life by trusting Jesus in all of life’s moments. Consider a few of the following times we can turn to Jesus with our attention, faith, prayer, and trust*:
- Seek the comfort of Jesus in sad moments.
- Repent from sin in your blow-it moments.
- Run to Jesus in resentful moments.
- Search out the root of discouraged moments.
- Receive peace in stressful moments.
- Release the hidden expectations and hurt of disappointed moments.
- Cry out to Jesus in lonely moments.
- Ask for strength to forgive in outraged moments.
- Hold fast to God’s faithfulness in hopeless moments.
- Cling to Christ in dejected moments.
- List adapted from my book, Holy in the Moment, p. 126 (affiliate link).
Are you coming to God? With confidence? Do you believe He will welcome you with mercy and grace to help in your time of need? If not, maybe this is the place to start. Come to God with your questions, fears, and challenges to trust that his mercy, grace, and help is FOR you.
Yes, Friend, this is your moment to come to God with confidence.
Come boldly. Come daily. Make it a habit that your first response is to come to Jesus with what’s on your heart.
Cherish this invitation to settle your heart in His loving presence.
A deeper relationship with Jesus is experienced as we turn to Him with confidence in His grace.
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*This is an updated post from 2019. It is also part of my By His Spirit retreat content. You can watch the first session here.
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Is Your Spirit Healthy? And Why Spiritual Health Makes a Difference.
Discover why it is important to attend to your spiritual health and happiness by investing in your relationship with God. Time spent listening to God through His Word is a key practice to develop a healthy spirit as well as a deeper sense of contentment in your life. Guest writer, Keon Lindsey, shares key messages from God’s Word with four simple tips to nurture your spiritual health.
* Keon and I are teaming up to offer a copy of our books. Don’t miss the book giveaway at the end of this post!
Is Your Spirit Healthy?
Today there is a near continuous stream of headlines about physical and mental health ailments and concerns. Yet, if humans are spirit, mind, and body, why are so few talking about the poor state of our spiritual health? It is time to think about our spirits, the part of us that will live forever, because it is becoming clear that our problems are linked. How so?
When you are physically sick do you feel happy? Or when you are emotionally down do you feel physically strong? The answer to both questions is, no. So, why should you feel great if you are not spiritually healthy? In reality, you can’t. That’s why a 2024 Gallup poll found “less than half of Americans say they are ‘very satisfied’ with the way things are going in their personal lives.”
Our inner unhappiness is why we always want more. We try to fill our spiritual needs with things that make our bodies and minds happy. More money, another party, another boy or girlfriend, a better job, a bigger house, more recognition, more fun – this does nothing for our spirits. We spend our lives chasing more and are still unsatisfied because only one thing can satisfy our spirit. What is it?
The Secret to a Healthy Spirit
The secret to spiritual health and happiness is a personal relationship with our Creator. The Lord made us to fellowship with Him. However, as a society and as individuals, we have turned away from Him, desiring to be our own boss. Yet, history, science, and statistics show that humans have never been and can never be happy without God. Have you realized this? When things are quiet, do you feel a need for something more?
Thankfully, the Lord deeply cares for us humans even though many have largely ignored Him. In fact, He has written a love letter to humanity filled with messages to meet our spirits’ needs. This love letter is, of course, the Bible. Over the years, I’ve enjoyed reading it and have come to appreciate many of the messages God has for us in the Bible. Here are a few to consider:
Biblical Wisdom Builds Spiritual Health
God wants us to be wise.
Why should we care about God’s wisdom?
There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death. (Proverbs 14:12)
Often what seems right to a human, or earthly wisdom, is shortsighted. It only looks at the here and now instead of the long-term. Human wisdom says, “Get all you can, however you can, as fast as you can so that you can be happy, because life is all about you.” Does that sound selfish? It is and is an unfulfilling way to live. Heavenly wisdom is good and leads to life.
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom,
And the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
For by [wisdom] your days will be multiplied,
And years of life will be added to you. (Proverbs 9:10-11)
This is why the famous verse in Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us to trust God’s wisdom and not our own. We need God’s wisdom and guidance to make decisions, experience God’s will, and enjoy spiritual health.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
In all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Trust in God’s Power is a Vital Part of Spiritual Health
God wants us to know He is powerful. The most obvious characteristic of God is His power as, by definition, a deity must have supernatural power. Then why does the Lord take time to tell us of His power and abilities? There is a direct relationship between our understanding of God’s power and how we live. When we lack trust in God’s power, our spiritual health suffers.
So, what does He say about power?
God has spoken once,
Twice I have heard this:
That power belongs to God. (Psalm 62:11)
The Lord said power belongs to Him. He is the source of strength, authority, and ability. For example, God has the power to create.
All things were made through Him, and without Him nothing was made that was made. (John 1:3)
God not only made everything, He exercises power over nations (Psalm 2) and rulers. The Bible states the following truth:
The Most High rules in the kingdom of men,
Gives it to whomever He will,
And sets over it the lowest of men. (Daniel 4:17b)
The Bible records many examples of the Lord’s power, such as the healings of Jesus, so that we can know He is the Almighty. What does this mean for us? Since He is the Creator, we belong to Him.
- Since He is the greatest, we are wise to listen when He speaks.
- Since He is the King of kings, we should obey His laws.
- Since He is the Almighty, He has the power to do what He says, so we can trust him!
Therefore, when Jesus says He can forgive sins and take you to Heaven, we can believe it!
These are just two of the 30 messages I enjoyed researching and writing about in my book Have You Heard from God Lately? As mentioned earlier, the Bible has wonderful and important messages from the Lord to you. Reading and embracing God’s messages in the Bible gives us the truth we need to grow spiritually healthy as we cultivate a deeper relationship with God. (Affiliate link).
Our Relationship with God is the Foundation of Spiritual Health
So how do we grow a personal relationship with God to become spiritually healthy? Make time for the Lord. If you never spend time with a person, you can’t become friends. The same is true with God. Block off time each day to be away from distractions so you can communicate. Start with 10-15 minutes, and as you develop the habit and experience the joy, increase the time as you can. Consider four helpful tips to invest in your relationship with God and increase your spiritual health:
1. Calm down and focus your thoughts. This can be the hardest part, since society and social media has trained us to go, go, go. Purposely give God your attention instead of thinking about all that must be done today.
2. Let God talk – open the Bible and read it. A Bible reading plan can be very helpful so you are not going to random verses and confusing yourself. Maybe start with the New Testament and read through it 1-3 chapters a day.
3. Listen to God – think about what you have read. What did the Bible say? What was going on in the passage? Did anything stand out to you? Can you see the application for your life? Did it raise questions? If so, or if anything is confusing, write it down and plan time to research or ask for help with the topic. You will find that to be very rewarding and increase your desire to share time with the Lord. Learn more about listing to God in Ginger’s excellent article, “Learn Six Important Truths About Listening to God”
4. Talk to God – prayer isn’t complicated, it is just talking with God. Ask Him to help you understand or see if there is an application for what you just read. Tell Him thank you for the truth or promise that you saw in the Bible and ask for faith to believe and apply it. Of course, the Lord cares about your daily life, so let Him know what is weighing on your mind and ask for guidance or assistance.
These are four basic steps to increase your spiritual health and happiness, which will impact your satisfaction in life. Isn’t it amazing that God made you to be with Him and He wants to be with you? Take a minute now to tell the Lord, thank you, that you don’t have to chase money, fun, or more of anything. You can simply come to the Lord who is so powerful that He can love and care about you. . . and your spiritual health!
About the Author
Keon Lindsey is a family man, Christian Author, former Business Consultant, Project Management Professional, and Navy Veteran with a variety of life experiences. He has earned a Black Belt in American Freestyle Karate, worked for himself, flown small airplanes and large jets, and has a master’s degree in Aeronautical Engineering. Yet, what brings him lasting satisfaction is studying and sharing God’s Word, the Bible. Keon hopes that his writings inspire you to seek that great satisfaction as well. Investigate specific messages from the Lord for you with his new book:
Have You Heard from God Lately? 30 Messages from Heaven for You
Connect with Keon at https://KeonLindsey.com
Be sure to enter to win a copy of Keon’s latest book at the end of this post!
A Note From Ginger
I hope you’ve enjoyed this post on cultivating a healthy spirit from my friend, Keon Lindsey. My husband and I met Keon in 2001. At the time, both Mark (my fella) and Keon were attending the Navel Post Graduate School in Monterey, CA. We’ve stayed connected through the years. Interestingly, both Keon and I were called to writing ministries. When you develop your relationship with God and seek His wisdom for your life, you never know where He will lead. It is a joy and adventure to walk with God in discovering and developing our calling.
I had the pleasure of reading an early copy of Keon’s book, Have You Heard from God Lately? 30 Messages from Heaven to You. Keon does an excellent job of encouraging readers to understand that the Bible is God’s Word, His personal message of love and salvation to each of us. With candor and clarity, Lindsey packs each chapter with Scripture, insights, and thought-provoking questions. He inspires and challenges us to listen, believe, apply, and share God’s messages of love and salvation. With an organized and thorough overview of Scripture, Lindsey clearly shares the message that God loves us and that Jesus died to save us. This book will inspire mature Christians to deeper accountability, but will also provide many with answers to questions they have about God.
Leave a comment a comment to share what you’ve been reading lately to nurture your spiritual health! I can’t wait to see what you are reading and what you like about it.
We have a Book Giveaway!!
Keon has generously offered a copy of his book to us! To join the celebration of his book release, I’m throwing in a copy of Holy in the Moment for added value and fun! We will pick a winner on March 22. (Must live in the continental US to win).
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*An all-time top 10 post.
Come to Jesus with Child-Like Faith
We are invited to come close to Jesus with child-like faith. Jesus taught a powerful lesson on faith when He blessed the children. The simplicity, trust, and joy of children shows us practical ways to a deeper relationship with God. Consider how you can come to Jesus with the faith of a child. Faith like a child, simple and pure—this is a choice we all have every day.
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A deeper relationship with Jesus can begin with a fresh glimpse of His heart.
Consider the many ways Jesus invites us into a deeper relationship by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Remember how special it felt to receive an invitation to a party when you were young? Or how much it hurt to be left out? Invitations make us feel wanted, included, and accepted. In formal language, an invitation requests the pleasure of one’s company.
We all have a deep, God-given need to feel loved, valued, and accepted. God wired this need deep into the DNA of our souls. We spend a lot of time and effort striving to meet our needs to be loved, valued, and accepted.
Invited to come with a child-like faith.
Jesus beckons us to come close, to experience a deeper relationship. One vivid example is found in Mark 10.
People were bringing children to Him so that He would touch and bless them, but the disciples reprimanded them and discouraged them [from coming]. But when Jesus saw this, He was indignant and He said to them, “Allow the children to come to Me; do not forbid them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I assure you and most solemnly say to you, whoever does not receive and welcome the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.” And He took the children [one by one] in His arms and blessed them [with kind, encouraging words], placing His hands on them.
Mark 10: 13-16 AMP
Why is child-like faith important to Jesus?
Jesus set aside the plans and agenda of the disciples. He valued spending time with the children. Reprimanding the disciples for discouraging the children to come to close, Jesus made it clear what was important.
There’s a subtle lesson here. It’s easy to focus on our agenda and miss the blessing of being present with Jesus. Which mentality do we want to have—one that is so focused on what we want to do or a mindset that is taking our cues from the Lord?
In this passage, we see what was important to Jesus. He welcomed, received, and blessed the children with undivided attention. Isn’t that what our souls long for?
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One way we come close to Jesus is by trusting Him. When we are willing to choose faith, we don’t have to know all the answers or fix every problem. Responding to the Spirit, we receive the simple grace to overcome worry.
The children don’t have to prove themselves or earn the acceptance of the Savior. They come without hesitation, free from fear of disapproval or rejection. Fear isn’t a part of this story which give us a vivid glimpse of Jesus’ affection for the little ones.
Faith like a child. . .
Children come whole-heartedly. When my children were small, it was an event when Daddy came home. No pretense, no resistance, no barriers. They ran to the door, knowing Daddy would scoop them up in his strong arms.
On our hard days, my daughter would get upset to the point of inconsolable crying. My husband was the one who could best calm her frantic emotions.
Carrying her to the swing on the porch, he stroked her downy soft hair away from her hot, tear-stained face. Whispering his love, he rocked her until cries gave way to quiet breathing.
Resistance softened as she rested her head against his chest. All that was wrong became less important. It was his patient strength and loving presence that settled her heart.
When I take time to reflect on child-like faith, many of the things I worry about seem less important. I sense a settling in my soul, just like my daughter calmed in the arms of her daddy. Joy washes aside preoccupation when I remember to come to God with child-like love.
Jesus blessing the children is a picture of Jesus’ love.
One day I unexpectedly came across a painting of Jesus with the children. This painting hangs on the walls of a secluded chapel at Ridgecrest, a Lifeway conference center in North Carolina. I’m not sure who the artist is.
My heart skipped a beat as tears welled up in my eyes. I wanted to peel back the canvas and jump into the picture– to sit on Jesus’ lap. To listen to his words and to see for myself the loving look in his eyes.
I’m not sure how long I stood there. Captivated by the painting, I had a fresh realization that Jesus welcomes me to enjoy his presence. I snapped this picture with my phone to remind myself of an extraordinary moment that was an invitation.
It is the faith of a child brings us to Jesus, for if we don’t respond, we miss the blessing of this invited intimacy.
Though I couldn’t physically enter the painting, I accepted his offer to come close with the faith of a child. By capturing my attention, the Spirit invited me to stop and engage more fully with a truth about Jesus I had read many times. And I received a blessing. Immeasurably and beautifully blessed, I experienced God’s love in a precious way.
Place yourself in the picture of Jesus blessing the children.
Can you see yourself in this scene? Picture yourself as the child that comes close. Make the holy choice to respond to the invitation to come to him with the simple faith of a child.
When you struggle to feel worthy, remember that Jesus invites you to come close.
Did you know that the word blessed, eulogeo, is a word that spills over with goodness? Blessed is a powerful word that has become trite with overuse.
When Jesus blessed the children, this is what he was doing: celebrating with praises, asking God’s blessing, consecrating with a blessing, causing to prosper, making happy, bestowing blessings on, and giving the favor of God.
There are moments we long to rewind the tapes in our head that tell us we are unworthy or unwanted. Set aside past experiences when someone discouraged you, made you feel unwanted or unimportant.
Don’t we all need to shift our attention from accomplishing our agendas to responding to the heart of God, the one who invites us to come close? Respond to God’s invitation to experience His love more deeply.
Simple ways to express faith like a child.
- Cultivate a habit of joy.
- Receive the love of Jesus with your whole heart.
- Let yourself feel excitement about spending time with Jesus.
- Turn to Jesus in your good moments, hard moments, and in the in-between moments.
- Stop trying to prove yourself or clean yourself up before coming to Jesus. Come as you are!
- Choose to trust Jesus without having to understand all the details.
- Let Jesus tend to your inner child as you depend on Him to lead, help, guide, and comfort you.
- Let go of the pressure to have all the answers and fix every problem.
- Rest in Jesus and let Him calm your heart.
- Express your love for Jesus daily.
This is your moment to embrace child-life faith.
Make this your moment to believe that God seeks the pleasure of your company. Come to Him with child-life faith that is simple and filled with joy. Let his blessing fill your heart with the security that He loves you.
Accepts you.
Values you.
Accepts you.
Yes you.
Come close with child-like faith, friend, and be blessed by His Spirit.
Jesus invites us to come close with child-life faith by the power of the HolySpirit.
My gift to help you cultivate child-like faith.
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What other ways can you think of to express the faith of a child in your relationship with Jesus?
*This is an updated post from 2019. It is also part of my By His Spirit retreat content. You can watch the first session here.
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- Simple Ways to Meditate on God’s Word
- 8 Powerful Ways to Connect with God When He Is Silent
- 15 Simple Ways to Overcome Distraction to Focus Your Attention on God (with printable)
- Discover Six Important Truths About Listening to Go
Learn more simple ways to love God and grow in your faith.
Are you longing to deepen your relationship with God in a way that makes a powerful and transforming difference in your life? Holy in the Moment shares my personal journey in finding hope and healing for anxiety, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and insecurity as well as biblical insights and practical ideas to live fully in Christ (affiliate link). Bring the reality of grace, healing, and holiness into your daily experience with intentional choices:
- overcome anxiety, perfectionism, negative flesh patterns, and shame
- experience the freeing power of abiding, surrender, and relying on Christ
- deepen your prayer life, listen to God, and flourish in His Word
- identify false motivations and beliefs hidden beneath thoughts and feelings
- find healing for hurts and vulnerable emotions
- thrive in your identity in Christ
Are you ready to experience holy moments? Read a free sample chapter here.
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5 Tips to Reset Healthy Habits for Spirit, Soul & Body
5 tips to reset healthy habits or cultivate new routines for your body, soul, and spirit. Introducing a fresh new website update to help you cultivate a deeper life for your best spiritual, mental, and physical health. I write about biblical wisdom and practical steps to deepen your faith, increase your hope, and build healthy habits for living well.
*Don’t miss the book bundle giveaway at the end of this post celebrating our website update!!
Introducing My New Website and Brand Update
Say hello to a fresh new look and updated brand! I’m thrilled to offer a newly designed website to help you go deeper with spiritual practices and healthy habits that bring faith and health together for a life you love.
Be sure to look around at all the new pages on this website and the many practical resources to help you enjoy a deeper relationship with God and live a healthy life.
Here’s a huge shout out to Susan Stillwell of Fistbump Media for helping me bring my vision into reality! I’d love to know how you like the the update, so please leave a comment!
Do you feel stuck in patterns, thoughts, and emotions that drain life from your soul and possibly impact your health? Are you longing to thrive with vibrant hope, health, and wholeness in Christ?
Friend, I’ve been there. I’ve had my emotional battles with anxiety, perfectionism, and insecurity, as well as health challenges with Grave’s Disease and thyroid issues.
I wrote what I learned in this journey in my book, Holy in the Moment. (Read a free chapter here.) We all have our struggles, but what makes the difference is growing deeper in faith and finding healthy ways of moving forward.
Married for 34 years to my Marine husband, I am a military wife and mom to three young adults. Professionally, I am a fitness instructor, author, blogger, speaker, and trained discipleship mentor.
Like you, my days are full, and it’s challenging to build and maintain life-giving routines and habits. Finding a good rhythm of spiritual disciplines and healthy practices is vital to feeling our best inside and out.
A Deeper Life of Hope AND Health this Year
Hope and healthly living begin with a spiritual foundation that impacts our mental, emotional, and physical wellness. Feeling good begins on the inside—our relationship with God as well as our thoughts and emotions.
As a fitness instructor, I help clients increase and maintain physical strength, endurance, balance, and mobility. I’ve been blogging since 2009, helping women deepen faith with spiritual growth. I worked in two separate lanes–faith writing/speaking ministry and the fitness industry.
A few years ago, I lost my sister to a devastating battle with ALS (also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease). It was a heartbreaking, but powerful reminder that each healthy day is a gift.
Caring for my baby sis as she lost all ability to move was a sobering reminder of how important it is to attend to our health. We know this, but maintaining motivation and consistency in the ups and downs of life is challenging, isn’t it?
How many times have we sacrificed or overlooked the importance of taking care of ourselves while working hard and caring for others? As women–moms, daughters, wives, professionals, and friends– we wear many hats. We face many demands on our time and energy. Even when we have strong healthy habits, life happens. It’s easy to get off track.
Too often, we separate nurturing our soul and spirit from our physical health. The reality is that it all works together! God created us to live fully in all aspects of our being. He made us to thrive-holy and whole.
Do You Need to Reset Healthy Habits in Your Routine?
Reset is a word that resonates with me right now. The struggle is real.
Last November, I was in a funk–feeling off emotionally and struggling to stay motivated with healthy habits. The second anniversary of my sister’s passing hit me harder than I anticipated.
Then came the busy season of December. For the first time, all of our newly-married children planned to spend the holidays with their in-laws. Empty-nest holidays brought an emotional adjustment that comes with this new season of life.
My routines and my internal and external spaces felt haphazard and a little overwhelming. To get more done on big work projects, I neglected daily habits that help me stay healthy, productive, and manage stress. Some of these habits included staying hydrated and skipping exercise because my schedule was busy.
Not sleeping well some nights made it too easy to hit the snooze button, throwing my morning into rush mode. The spiritual practices that nurture faith and help me stay connected with God were sporadic and dry.
My workspace became the catch-all extra storage and piles of paper took on a live of their own. (This is a continuing challenge for me).
Every time I saw the mess on my desk and the piles of STUFF that had built up in my office, frustration made my shoulders tense with a feeling of claustrophobia. “I can’t work in here, but I don’t have time to clean up now,” I’d grumble to myself, grabbing my laptop to work somewhere less chaotic and cluttered.
The level of clutter in my workspaces and the inconsistency of healthy habits made me grumpy, as stress buzzed in my head. Honestly, it took a little time to notice what was happening. My routines, thoughts, and emotions were all telling me I needed to stop and reset my healthy habits for my body, soul, and spirit.
Can you relate to this downward spiral of thoughts, feelings, stress, and off-track routines?
I Needed to Reset My Healthy Habits.
Determined not to start this year overwhelmed and off-kilter, I knew I needed to do a reset of healthy habits physically, mentally, spiritually, and functionally.
Here’s what I’m doing:
- Refocusing on consistent time with God, getting up 20 minutes earlier.
- Prioritizing basic healthy habits of rest, hydration, nutrition, and exercise.
- Evaluating my calendar and simplifying my to-do list.
- Tackling the nightmare in my office, I removed items that didn’t belong, decluttering surfaces, and organizing the buildup of papers.
- Spiritually, I’m in the process of decluttering my soul with the Lord in much the same way. (That’s a post for another day, friend).
Here’s what I’m not doing:
- Setting unrealistic expectations and goals.
- Lecturing or getting down on myself for needing a reset.
- Being impatient with slow, but steady progress.
- Cramming too many tasks into a single day.
My soul has more room to breathe. I literally feel lighter, happier, and more energetic! Something wonderful happens when we embrace the small building blocks of faith and health. I call this a reset-mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual. It feels great to refocus on the daily actions that help me feel my best and be my best, so I can give my best.
The Body, Soul & Spirit Connection for Healthy Habits
Body, soul, and spirit–it really is all connected, my friend.
My end of 2023 is a vivid picture of how important daily practices are for living well. A lack of consistency in one area of life spiraled to impact thoughts, emotions, and motivation in other areas. We’ve all experienced this challenge at times. Maybe you’re there right now, feeling frazzled and overwhelmed. I get you, believe me!
The beautiful blessing of good habits and workable routines is they help us consistently do the things that empower us to feel our best and be our best.
Busyness, distraction, or overwhelm derail our good intentions to maintain healthy living physically, mentally, and spiritually. Patterns, habits, routines, and goals need a periodic reset, creating fresh energy and commitment to faithful living.
5 Tips for Cultivating Hope and Health this Year
Today is your time to refresh and reset goals, habits, and routines that help you to thrive. As you make plans, get organized, and pursue goals for this year, here are a few helpful choices to practice:
- Rely on Christ to help you invest in your spiritual, mental, and physical health.
The simple habit of prayer makes a difference on our good days as well as the hard days. Share your desires, goals, plans, needs, and challenges with the Lord, asking for the help of the Holy Spirit. Pray about the routines and patterns that need attention, asking for motivation, wisdom, and clarity for the steps you need to take today.
- Embrace progress over perfection in your daily habits and goals.
Growth happens slowly and we often don’t notice the small steps of progress. Focus on one or two habits at a time, seeking daily actions that will keep you moving forward. Allow yourself time to grow and change. Be patient with yourself in the process.
- Celebrate your wins.
It’s easy to discount the many small victories on the way to reaching larger goals. We tend to overlook the importance of daily faithfulness and consistent growth over time. Make time to acknowledge your hard work, good choices, intentional steps along the way. It’s important to recognize what’s not working, but don’t neglect to celebrate growth, progress, and change.
- Keep making healthy choices.
Cultivating a deeper life of hope and health doesn’t happen by accident. Making healthy choices occasionally, won’t bring the growth and well-being we desire. Consistency over time is worth the work. Whether you want to grow in spiritual disciplines, improve your eating habits, get in better shape, or overcome negative thought patterns, focus on the next good choice. When you slip up, don’t dwell on your setback. Embrace the next daily practice that will help you keep moving forward.
- Trust God with the results.
Commit your goals, work, and daily choices to God. Give your best effort, relying on Christ to work in and through you. Trust God to lead, guide, and provide each step of the way. As you trust God with the results, you can let go of the stress of trying to control outcomes.
Which one of these healthy habits could help you most today?
Reset Your Healthy Habits with the Wellness Challenge
If you’d like extra help and motivation to cultivate or reset healthy habits in your life, join me for The Wellness Challenge. Jump-start health and wellness for your best year ever. Seven days to focus on foundational practices to nurture your healthy body, soul & spirit. Set do-able goals to take care of all of you as we start a healthy year together!
We’ll meet in your inbox with a boost of motivation, quick tips, and a daily challenge. Invite a friend or group to join you! If you want to participate, sign up below. There are no set dates to this challenge, so you can start whenever works for you, and you can repeat it as many times as you find helpful:).
Start well. Stay well. Live well.
Enter to Win the Healthy Habit Book Bundle
Join me in celebrating the website update and the gift of healthy habits for spirit, soul, & body. Due to issues with Rafflecopter not working properly, I’ve extended the deadline to Feb. 29. Leave a comment on this post to let me know you’d like to enter and get my newsletter. I’m sharing a few of my favorite books + a few other goodies I know you’ll enjoy!
- Holy in the Moment for healthy spiritual habits.
- Transforming Your Thought Life by Sarah Geringer for a healthier soul.
- Green Smoothies for Life for healthy eating ideas for smoothies and great meals.
- Faith Can Move Mountains Journal to process your healthy habits with God.
Plus a water bottle and Holy in the Moment Quote Plaque to remind you to choose faith in every moment. Enter and enjoy!
*The links above include affiliate links at no cost to you.
Reader Favorites to Enjoy
Top 10 Posts and Reader Favorites from Ginger Harrington
10 Most-Loved Posts and Best of the Blog of 2023
In this post you’ll find Ginger Harrington’s top 10 posts and reader favorites in 2023. This is the best of the blog with biblical wisdom for a deeper life of hope and health. Cultivate healthy habits and spiritual practices for your body, soul, and spirit.
Whether you are new around here or been one of thousands of long-term readers, enjoy the top 10 posts and reader favorites from Ginger Harrington in 2023. After all, health and wellness begins in the heart and soul, shaping our beliefs, attitudes, and habits. Build better health for the whole person and get more resources from Ginger in The Deeper Life Collection for subscribers or take The Wellness Challenge today.
You’ll find a variety of posts including devotions, Biblical wisdom, how-to’s on spiritual growth, help for healthy habits, real-girl struggles, and sharing life as it is–all with the focus on healthy thriving in our identity in Christ. Subscribe now so you don’t miss the journey!
10 Biblical Ways to Show Love
This post features an excerpt from one of the chapters in my award-winning book, Holy in the Moment. Loving one another is often easier said than done. We have good intentions to love others well, but it can be challenging to get our focus off ourselves to put others first. The Bible shows us practical ways to express love that make a real difference. According to Google, this is the most-read post on my site this year. READ MORE
Six Important Truths About Listening to God
Discover what the Bible says about listening to God with six truths from Isaiah 50:4-5. Hearing God in Scripture helps us to develop deeper faith as we learn how to listen to God. Experience the benefits of listening to God when reading the Bible to accelerate your spiritual growth. Enjoy this updated version of one of my most read posts on how to listen to God. READ MORE
What is Spiritual Rest and Why Do We Need It?
What is the meaning of spiritual rest and why is finding rest for our soul important? Spiritual rest is easy to overlook until we face the burnout of mental, emotional, or physical exhaustion. Worry, anxiety, anger, frustration, bitterness, unforgiveness, and stress burden our souls. Different from self-care, soul care restores our spirit, empowering us to experience peace and perseverance when we face challenges. READ MORE
10 Bible Verses for a Healthy Soul
What does it mean to have a prospering soul? If your physical health was in the same condition that your spiritual health is, how healthy would you be? Vibrant health includes more than the physical condition of our bodies. Are you neglecting the health of your soul in your pursuit of your best life? 3 John 2 shows that as we grow in faith, spiritual blessings overflow into other areas of life. In this post you will find 10 Bible Verses for a healthy soul. READ MORE
15 Ways to Overcome Distraction and Focus Your Attention on God
In today’s digital age of distraction, it is difficult to focus our attention on God. Learn to overcome distraction to focus your attention on God with the simple ideas in this post. Discover practical tips to help you listen to God and develop spiritual attention, as you become more aware of his presence. Increase your ability to listen to God, to calm your mind when thoughts and tasks pull you many different directions. READ MORE
A Prayer to Put on the Armor of God + Printable
Spiritual battles are a part of daily living. Discover how to put on the armor of God with a free Armor of God Prayer based on Ephesians 6. From small skirmishes to all-out war, prayer is a vital part of putting on the armor of God. Prayer empowers us to receive the spiritual strength of God to stand firm. Ephesians 6:18 instructs us to pray at all time with all kinds of prayers as part of our spiritual battle plan. This post features on of my top free resources in the Deeper Life Collection. READ MORE
Help for Moments When Anxiety and Worry Get the Best of You
We all need encouragement and help when powerful emotions, fearful thoughts, and difficult circumstances get the best of us. Spiritual wisdom, biblical truth, and practical strategies are keys to deepen faith and peace to respond rather than react when anxiety strikes. Be sure to get your free Emotional Health Workbook for processing your emotions at the end of this post READ MORE
6 Healthy Ways to Process Your Feelings with Faith
Discover more healthy ways to process your feelings with faith to help you work through painful emotions and stressful challenges. Consider Bible verses that can help us process painful feelings. Emotional health is vital for a healthy soul, empowering us to be aware of and cope with our feelings in positive ways. How we handle our feelings can foster emotional health when we work through our emotions with Christ. READ MORE
A Father’s Legacy and Father’s Day Sermon
Fathers have the capacity to leave a powerful legacy for their children and the generations to come. The legacy a dad leaves has to do with the things he passes on to his children, what he gives them in terms of love, support, wisdom, character, and faith. Don’t miss the printable blessings to pray for Fathers at the end of this post. The greatest thing that we can do beyond loving and appreciating the fathers in our lives is to pray for them. Watch Ginger’s Father’s Day Sermon honoring fathers at the end of this post. Read more.
HOLY IN THE MOMENT
Simple Ways to Love God And Enjoy Your Life
A powerful encouragement for anyone who struggles to overcome anxiety, perfectionism, insecurity, or other mindsets that hold us back.
Best of the Blog 2023
Here is the linked list for your convenience and quick reference. Enjoy reading my best content according to reader favorites! Which post is your favorite? This is a great post to share with friends you’d like to introduce to my content!
- 10 Biblical Ways to Show Love
- Learn Six Important Truths About Listening to God
- What is Spiritual Rest and Why Do We Need It?
- 10 Bible Verses for a Healthy Soul
- 15 Ways to Overcome Distraction and Focus Your Attention on God
- Prayer to Put on the Armor of God + Printable
- 5 Things to Remember About God’s Calling and Gifts
- Help for Moments When Anxiety and Worry Get the Best of You
- 6 Healthy Ways to Process Your Feelings with Faith
- A Father’s Legacy and Father’s Day Sermon
Get Ginger’s Best Free Resources for a Deeper Life
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