Live Love This Valentine’s Day

 

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Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and love is at the heart of this holiday:

If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal… and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. ” (1 Corinthians 13:1-2).

Okay, let’s be honest here. This just doesn’t go down easy. Sure, it’s easy to get all holy-ed up, kind of like getting gussied up for a ball. Dressed in glitter and satin, it’s easy to feel great about singing with the angels.

But all too soon the ball is over and our good intentions about loving others fade into the ordinariness of life. Life where folks get on your nerves (every last one of ’em), say things that hurt your feelings, and sometimes do things that are just plain wrong.

This is where grit and holiness collide and we have a choice.

Motivation comes down to choice when it comes to doing what we do with love. Or not.

If I take this passage at face value, and I am, love is what infuses value into my actions. Most of us won’t speak with angel tongues, and we probably won’t move mountains with bulldozer faith.  But even if we did do these spectacular feats, without love we might as well be singing off-key in the shower.

Without love, the best of our doing is just noise.

Like I said, this just doesn’t go down easy. Whatever it is that I can do for God, I am just going through the motions if love isn’t at the heart of it.

If I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere and my best work is nothing more than rubble at my feet. Oh, this is a hard thing.

No matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love” (The Messgage).

So how do we live love God’s way?

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More hard words from 1 Corinthians 13, God’s love manifesto:

Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.

Ouch.

Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.
Love doesn’t strut,
Doesn’t have a swelled head,
Doesn’t force itself on others,

Oh dear.

Love…
Isn’t always “me first,”
Doesn’t fly off the handle,

Can we stop now?

Love…
Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn’t revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything…

Love does not seek its own 1 Corinthians 13

Really?!

Love…
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.

Last time I checked, my love didn’t quite look like this. Overwhelmed, I want to give up and stay in bed, throwing the covers over my head. I feel discouraged when despite my good intentions, my selfishness barges in, and I blow it…again.

This is when I need to remember.

These famous words are a description of God’s complete love. This is the love He has for each one of us, whether or not we love Him back…or even believe He exists.

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life” (John 3:16 NASB).

Same word, same love in both of these passages, and it is gift wrapped with our name on it.

If this is God’s love defined for us, the way He loves us, then it is also become a picture of how His love can work in and through us.

And when I bang my head against the wall of my sin, I must remember that I can’t produce this kind of love by myself.

It is not in me.

  • I can’t just reach deeper in my pocket and pull it out of a heart gone wild with self.
  • I won’t find this kind of love sitting on the shelf in the grocery store.
  • I can’t borrow it from a neighbor like a cup of sugar.
  • I can’t fake it.
  • I can’t dress it up and pretend.

God isn’t fooled, and He sees right through all of this effort.

This kind of love is only found in one place of hope:

“….and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who was given to us” (John 13:34).

Here’s the truth of it:

We love

BECAUSE

He first

Loved us.

(1 John 4:19)

So when it’s hard to love others with this complete God-love, I come back to this:

” …God is love…” (1 John 4:16).

And the best part is, He’s willing to share. He is willing to dwell within our hearts, growing love from the inside to the outside. Blossoming forth from motivation to action, Christ  expresses Himself as love.

So here’s my prayer for you and for me:

that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory,

to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner man,

so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith;

 and that you, being rooted and grounded in love… 

Ephesians 3:16-17

This Valentine’s Day, receive the love that fills up and overflows. Then turn around and give what you’ve got–true love that never fails.

How are you showing love for Valentine’s Day?

Leave a comment and share your ideas. Let’s help each other show love to others in a tangible way!

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